[fawnamber]

cough cough im sick and the only cure is to be babied and called pet names and kissed and touched and

[cherricon]

[puppybluess]

just wanna lay on her chest and yap and yap and yap and listen to her yap and yap and yap and i wanna feel the words vibrate in her chest and i wanna listen to her heartbeat

[lilithlacy]

I'm flirting when I roll my eyes at you btw

[kylarthe-loner]

btw if i say ur mine it means ur fucking mine

[nerviswitch]

World BDSM day seems like a good time to remind you:

If the idea of being cuddled and kissed and doted on after a scene makes you want to crawl out of your skin, that doesn't mean you don't need aftercare, it might just mean that what aftercare looks like for you is being left alone for a little while.

Aftercare isn't one-size-fits-all. Maybe you need a snack. Maybe you want to watch a youtube video. Maybe you just need to have a calm conversation to debrief about the scene you just had. Or maybe you do want to snuggle.

Do what works for you, because doing aftercare you hate because you think that's what it's supposed to look like or skipping any aftercare to avoid a particular kind isn't going to work out well for anyone in the long run.

Also, while I'm here:

check on your dominants. They need aftercare just as much as subs do but we so often see aftercare framed as "dom-comforts-sub" that folks forget about that.

While I'm at it, safewording isn't just for the sub either, and it doesn't make you less of a dom to use it. In fact:

Safewording when you need to makes you a good play partner.

Any reason you feel like safewording is a good enough reason.

You aren't boring or less fun to play with for knowing your limits or having a lot of them. The fun part happens inside the bounds, and knowing where those lines are can only help you have a better scene.

[apixasflora]

In love with pretty stained glass designs🪻༉‧₊˚. ‧࿔

[softyymasc]

I seriously need to leave hickeys and love bites all over her body. I want her to be reminded of me every time she looks in the mirror, showers, gets ready for work, etc.

[dogeuphoria]

desperate desire to be needed. to be craved. to be a little bit obsessed over. to be wanted so bad you cant control yourself around me <3 waiting for the moment you can get me alone and get your hands all over me <33

[blairwitchdiaries-deactivated20]

turns out my life purpose isn’t supposed to be as small and silent and accommodating and convenient as possible

[fangorn-forest]

mutuals let's sit at the end of the dock and splash our feet in the water while we watch the sunset

[yourmommyemily]

Yes, be clingy. Yes, be obsessed with me. Yes, tell me about every little moment of your day. Yes, spam me with your selfies and your texts. Yes, ask to call me when you miss my voice. Yes, ask me to send you a picture because you miss my smile. Yes to all of it. Love loudly. Love without holding yourself back.

[dr-gaytorius]

Ok I'll bite. you are bleeding now

[codes-and-stuffs]

i do think we should normalise being like. platonically enamoured with someone. perhaps i love and admire you dearly and there's nothing romantic about it

[sad-goddess-blog]

on the bright side, at least my crippling fear of abandonment will never leave me

[sofiiscapitall]

and for the lady perhaps a makeout session on a butches lap

[butchdragonknot]

getting bred by butch cock. you agree . reblog