ciely @c12ly - Tumblr Blog

I don't crave romance so much as I crave intimacy. Just having someone I can be with and rely on and share my deepest secrets with and cuddle with.

heartattackinblackdye

connection is experienced differently for every single person and every relationship functions differently. all forms of connection, be it love or what have you, are beautiful and worth having. there is no wrong way to love

watermelonbugs

Having an alterous crush is so weird cause like.

What do you mean I want to be friends but also I think it's adorable when I fluster you and I think I could spend the rest of my life doing that. And like I wanna be your boyfriend but not like THAT, I wanna hang out but I don't wanna go on dates, I wanna kiss you but never on the lips, like maybe your hands or your forehead or your cheek or anywhere less romantically charged. I wanna hold your hand but like only sometimes, and only if it's not a big deal. But also it can be romantic just not like THAT. But also kinda like that?

And like it's fine if it's entirely romantic to you, that's cool. It's not to me. It's this weird blend of both. But also??? Don't make it weird and hugely romantic. But I could buy you flowers and call you my valentine in February, but like as friends-but-also-not. I want to hold you in my arms and comfort you and be your rock. But like. Not as friends but also not romantically. I adore you but not like you want me to but also it's like halfway there.

And no I might not get butterflies, but I do get a huge stupid smile on my face when you text me. So that's something.

sillymriia

having an unreciprocated alterous crush(?) is such a confusing feeling. yes every time i think about you or see you or get reminded of you, i feel so happy. yes i do also feel kinda sad that i'm just a friend to you. but also i don't want to be romantic partners. or partners at all for that matter, i just want to know what you feel and always be there for you when you need me, and to hold your hand to express how much i love you. and sometimes i want to confess to you, but then i feel sad realizing i probably will never do it, because i already know you dont feel the same and probably will get uncomfortable and misinterpret my feelings as romantic. but i still love you and feel like you're one of the very few things in my life that keep me going.

no-bones-disease

Happy pride to all the aspec people who don't experience attraction in an 'easily comprehensible' way. Happy pride to aegosexual and aegoromantic people. Happy pride to caedsexual and caedromantic people. Demisexual and demiromantic people. People in queerplatonic relationships. People who experience alterous attraction. People who don't want to be in any kind of relationship with anyone. People who struggle to understand what form their attraction takes due to autism. Allosexual aromantic people. Alloromantic asexual people. Cupiosexual and cupioromantic people. Lithosexual, lithoromantic, fraysexual, frayromantic, ace/aro spike, ace/aro flux Ect. Ect.

It's okay that you exist. You are valid and important and your sexuality is an important part of the human condition. You are not broken. I love you all

ofcrystalsandart

The all white, puritanical christian family being seen as the end all be all of goodness in the world

The nazi surviving and escaping justice, while three black people who are also involved in drug dealing do get killed in the end

The only trans character being isolated from her friends and reduced to an at home sex doll for some rich guy

Ridiculing and mocking the one outspoken atheist character throughout season 3 and making her turn to christianity as some kind of self referential circle jerk that didn't land at all

Not even giving the main character a funeral or even showing her own mother or friend's reactions to her passing

Euphoria could've been so much more if it wasn't made by some self righteous white guy with an extreme exploitation fetish

todoggukie

GOODBYE, RUE BENNETT ― (2019-2026)

anything-is-something

ARFID makes me feel like some rich asshole snob like ohhh the vegetables aren't cut in this specific way so now I can't eat this. Hello.

m-e-stanley

MY top 3 funniest scenes from A Good Girl's Guide to Murder starring Emma Myers

3

"From a galaxy far away?"

Lmaoooo 😂

2

"Prepare to viralize!"

Like what even the hell is viralize 😂😂😂😂

And then the goody walk back 😂😂😂

And Numero uno!!!

"Dark forces at work here. A good-looking man just try to steal my nose"

Lmaoooo 😂😂

She was just threatened and her drunk mind goes "someone just tried to steal my nose 🥺🥺🥺"

edelwoodsouls

say what you want about the accent but the agggtm tv show is giving so much life to the autistic pip headcanon

aesthetic-otd

Today's aesthetic is frutiger aero night

razehider

although i handle plenty of shy animals for easier photos, Siphanta acuta is definitely not one of them, as they're usually happy enough standing completely still on their branch of choice and bothering them for a better angle will just result in them jumping away. so it's certainly a surprise that this one ended up on my finger somehow and was so polite about it

(July 22nd, 2025)