mriia the silly @sillymriia - Tumblr Blog

♡ hi im mriia, 21 yo, she/magi, quoirose (quoiromantic + quoisexual), yearning for a qpr

♡ i decided to make an account for random thoughts, but i also have an art account @mriinycia

♡ that's it for now, have a good day

mcsiggy

whats with those tumblr screenshots with the water filter.

stop making the posts wet

thisistrashking

mcsiggy

oughggh....

mcsiggy

They censor me................ because of my wet post :(

potentiallymature

POTENTIALLY MATURE CONTENT

wholeheartedsuggestions

here’s to all the things you survived quietly and privately this year

fruitzzone

you need to be more normal about fwb. no, fwb don’t strip you of your dignity. they are not unhealthy. sexual relationships are not bad. it’s not weird to want them and not romance. friends can fuck. you don’t have to be involved romantically to be intimate with someone. that includes all sorts of physical touch because you are also not normal about platonic non-sexual touch. it’s not weird if friends cuddle, sleep in one bed, hold hands or kiss. friends can be affectionate with each other. it doesn’t mean they are romantically attracted to each other. nor does it mean they will ever be in a romantic relationship. you need to be more normal about touch and sex in general.

aro-ace-culture-is

aroace culture is being so obsessed with someone you wait for them to text everyday and would do literally anything for them

then when you tell someone else about the obsession they ask “do you have a crush on them?” AHFHDJSHJAB

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vetckkie

girl get off that c.ai and embrace the 'x reader'

aro-ace-culture-is

Aroace culture is wanting to personally strangle whoever decided it should be an unspoken rule that cuddling is inherently a romantic/sexual thing

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stiffyck

I'll be an avid shipper of something until someone walks in and says "there is NO platonic explanation for this" and suddenly I've never shipped it before in my life and they're just friends and I can't lie i can't really see them being in a romantic relationship with each other yeah sorry I just don't see it

psychotic-gerard

love seeing revisionism in the wild “free the nipple never meant you can walk around topless every where that’s still sexual harassment it just meant for like breastfeeding and stuff”no it literally means you should be able to walk around topless anywhere because get this. breasts aren’t fucking sexual organs.

roguebombshell

I remember when I was about 12, I watched a show on TLC that followed people as they got somewhat uncommon medical procedures.

There was one episode with a trans woman getting different gender-affirming operations, including breast implants. It showed the procedure, and (what I found so fascinating that it's stuck with me for decades), as soon as the doctor put the implant in, a censor blur popped up on the nipple.

And you just know there was a meeting between the TLC lawyers and the editors and producers of the show to discuss what the difference was between a "man nipple" (can be shown) and a "woman nipple" (no no must obscure, 'tis naughty). And they decided that as soon as the implant goes in and the nipple has more mass behind it, that's the moment when it becomes a woman's nipple and must be hidden to comply with TV rules.

But it's the same nipple. On the same person. I know what it looks like; I just saw it. But TV and obscenity rules are rules, and the rules say woman nipple = sexual and therefore explicit, but man nipple = neutral, just fine.

"Free the Nipple" was calling out arbitrary bullshit like that, because someone just existing with their body parts should not be considered obscene, and the double standard that men can be topless but women can't is so blatantly ridiculous. All nipples are just nipples. If you get turned on or bothered by them, that's on you.

luckymeowski

yo shoutout to freaked out asexuals you guys confuse me and I love you

aspec-selflove

Read me

Nothing is wrong with asexuals for being asexual.

Nothing is wrong with aromantics for being aromantic.

(More identities under the cut, this post is SPECIFICALLY FOR ASPEC’S, PLEASE DO NOT MAKE THIS ABOUT OTHER IDENTITIES.)

Keep reading

infinitely-incorrect

Update : my sexual/romantic orientation is now [REDACTED]

quoivesil

Reminder:

Identity is not mandatory. Having a neat, clearly-defined identity should not be what a community's acceptance hinges on.

aro-ace-culture-is

aroace culture is wanting to call people your partner, but in a detective way

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just-aro

sometimes it's so very draining that the majority of aro content is about fictional relationships.

irl, i live alone. irl, i am disabled. irl, that intersection and my lack of interest in partnering actively makes life really hard. everything is expensive. i can't always cook when i want to or have fresh ingredients, because my symptoms don't care if I want to cut up vegetables and eat something homemade before they go bad. if I have a bad flareup and getting up is not in the cards, that's it. i have what's next to me. the lack of social support for single folks, for disabled folks, for folks whose family care is inadequate or damaging... it's impactful.

I talk about how i once visited a place with an ex partner. i mention how our relationship started because i was pressured into it, and i wasn't really into the level of seriousness and 'forever' she treated it with. everyone says it's weird that i agreed if i didn't want it to be serious. i remember being 16, saying no, and a chorus of people telling me i was stupid and immature, that her family was rich, that we would be cute and to listen to them, not my heart. my heart was saying nothing.

i look at my current age and life goals. for many of my peers, dating and marriage and eventual kids are common goals. i am watching my rights erode and trying to practice good mental hygeine. my five year goal is to be alive. my next major life milestone is a nebulous desire to find a life i can tolerate living.

being aromantic significantly impacts my day to day. i want to see aro people living their lives, and doing so with joy. i want to see aro adults making it, ones like me. i want aro people to thrive. i want to live, aromantically.

i scroll the aro tag. it's fandom and shipping and asexual posts.

#aromantic