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Michelle, Doug, and I have decided to try something new.
In the bedroom, the three of us have a very clear hierarchy. Doug is the man. Michelle is his woman. And I am there in a subservient role: providing drinks and towels, fluffing them between rounds, and filming for him. He has exclusive sexual access to her, and I am caged.
The new thing we're trying is this: extending that same three-way dynamic into our entire time together, in and outside of the bedroom. We're gonna put it into practice when we see him next, April 17 - 20, while we're staying with him in his home.
They were already doing it anyway. They sat together in his jeep and at restaurants. They slept together overnight in his bedroom behind a locked door. As Michelle and I see it, making these our official roles creates a stable ecosystem where everyone has clear expectations.
So how does this look in practice? An example might be that Doug and Michelle are cuddling on the couch while we all watch a movie, and they send me to get drinks for them. Or one of them wants a backrub, so I provide. The idea is maximizing their ability to relax and enjoy and explore each other while making sure I'm always intentionally included.
It's gonna be intense! It''s uncharted territory for us, but it follows the overall arc of our relationship and cuckolding's place in it.
And, if any one of us doesn't enjoy it in practice? Then we just stop doing it and go back to what was already working!
How We Got Started
I never knew our lives would turn out this way. I never thought that I could enjoy dominating my husband so much. I grew up with the standard view that the man should take charge and that the woman should be the good housewife and submit to her man. But the man I fell in love with and married wasn’t very dominant. In fact, he seemed happiest when I took charge in the bedroom.
He was a great lover, always concerned about my pleasure more than his own. He shared his fantasies about being dominated by a woman and I tied him up a few times when we made love but it never went very far. We had a good sex life and tried a few different things in the bedroom but I soon got pregnant. I went into mother mode after my daughter was born and the sex died off somewhat.
After a couple of years it picked up again when my sex drive increased but I had no interest in anything kinky. My husband ensured that I was properly pleasured and it was rare indeed for me to not achieve orgasm usually having two or three each time we made love. He never tried to force his kinky fantasies on me and rarely mentioning them. Until recently this was our routine.
Then my daughter moved off to college and suddenly we were alone with the house to ourselves. I had devoted the last 18 years to raising her and now that she was gone I was lost and didn’t know what to do with myself. After being out of the workforce for so long and being in my late 40’s, I had no interest in trying to find a job. We were quite comfortable living on my husband’s salary.
I felt a strong need to nurture someone now that my daughter didn’t need me anymore and so I decided to devote myself to my husband’s needs. At this time I started to get more sleep and had a lot more energy. As a result my sex drive increased substantially.
I loved the feel of his erection deep inside me but as i have gotten older, his tongue on my clit was what I mostly enjoyed. My orgasms were so powerful when he licked me down there and he could give me a rolling orgasm that seemed to last forever that way. When I fantasized about sex it was always his mouth that I dreamed of and ached for.
He was always giving me what I needed but I felt like I never returned the favor. I started thinking about the fantasies that he had that I never fulfilled. It was time to pay him back for all of the pleasure he had given and rarely taken for himself over the years. It was his turn to really enjoy sex. It was time to get kinky for him.
My husband had a penchant for bondage that i didn’t really understand. The few times I did tie him up in the past, his erection was usually harder then. I didn’t understand why he liked it though. I decided to ask him about it.
One night he had just finished licking me off for the second time when I asked him, “Honey, why did you use to like being tied up? What pleasure did it give you?” He was quite surprised at the question. I think he had given up hope years ago that I would show any interest in anything like this. It was totally out of the blue.
He thought for a moment then answered. “Well, I guess it makes me feel very wanted. Like something precious to you. It makes me feel valuable. People tend to lock up their most valuable possessions so they will be there for them. I also have always loved the idea of being controlled by a woman. Especially physical control. I guess it’s kind of like a role reversal. The man traditionally is in control of the household and makes the rules. I like the idea of it being the other way around.”
I was quite surprised at the answer. I could understand the role reversal aspect to some degree, but never would have guessed about making him feel valuable. People locked up their valuables, so if you locked him up it made him feel valuable. Wow. It actually made sense to me. He was the most valuable thing in my life and I wanted him to feel that way.
“So Honey, you still feel that way? You still like the idea of me taking control of you and making the rules? If I chained you up would you feel that you are precious to me?”
He told me that it was just as exciting now as it was back then for him. I encouraged him to tell me more. I noticed that just talking about it made him get harder than he already was. I gave him a few gentle strokes, teasing him and asked how much control he would like me to have over him.
“Well you could control me as much or as little as you like Dear. It wouldn’t be right for me to tell you how I want it. The whole idea is for you to get what you want out of it and for me to accept and adapt to your needs. There is no wrong way to do it unless your needs aren’t being met. The right way is to always, always put your own wants and needs first.”
I thought about what he said for a few weeks and then I decided I was going to do this. I liked the idea of pushing his fantasies on him. This blog is about sharing information from the experience I gained over the last few years since I began dominating my husband. It has been a wild, fun and exciting ride for both of us.
It started with me just wanting to please him for a change and to my surprise I enjoy this lifestyle just as much as him. We have always had a close and intimate relationship, but now it’s much better than ever. We now live for each others’ needs and pleasure.
Of course what he wants matters.
He's my husband.
But in the game of female dominance, I pretend it doesn't, I explore feeling powerful, he explores submitting, and we both get off on it.
But we both love each other, and of course what each of us wants matters. But it's fun to pretend what he wants doesn't. 😈
I totally agree about the fact that we too, both love and respect each other and of course what he wants matters.
But I beg to differ regarding the rest.
WLM and cock control, did start as a game for us, but after about a year it became an agreed upon way of life.
I love my husband, what he wants greatly matters to me and being appreciated, I value his opinion and admire his resourcefulness and thinking outside the box (introducing this lifestyle into our marriage for example.....hi hi), so I often consult with him and accept his ideas and suggestions.
I would say that I divide our life dynamics into three domains.
There are areas in our lives that I either do not understand in or do not care or want to deal with, so they are entirely his domain ( finance, insurance, manual labor and fixing things to name a few), I do not interfere in doing any of them, I just make sure they are being done and in the highest standards.
The second domain is the domestic and social life, here we discuss, we both bring ideas, wants and wishes, but at the end of the process, I have the final say and decide.
......and then there is the third domain, intimacy and our sex life.
In this domain I rule!!
I can be his loving caressing queen or his merciless tormentor.
His goal is to please and pleasure me and keep me satisfied and happy.
My goal is to make sure sex is always present in his life, teasing him as relentlessly as I can, keeping him horny and aroused but always keeping guessing regarding release.
Making sure uncertainty and unpredictability regarding sex and his cock is always present.
And finally, since the intimacy and sex domain is like the engine in marriage and I rule the engine, I use this domain to settle disputes, arguments and misbehavior using this powerful engine.
When my husband asked me to keep him locked as long as I wanted and tease as much as I could, I did not want to disappoint him and let him out too early or not tease enough. P.S. He is still locked and I tease him as frequently as I can!
Fuck this drives me crazy. For me... it's about her being NAUGHTY...that naughty naughty and horny pussy not being able to control herself...and then not caring to hide it at all...but rather tease the fuck out of me with her naughty messy post-fuck pussy. It's hey...I just fucked a hot guy with a big cock because I wanted to...and now I want you to know all about it...i want to condition you to accept it..because I want to do it again. Condition me to forgive her no matter what she does. Condition me to actually get turned on by the smell and taste of her NAUGHTY pussy so I WANT her to keep fucking other guys. Condition me to actually reward her for her naughty behaviour. Make her cum again as a reward for fucking other guys. Her messy pussy..the taste and the smell of all their sex juices... are the PROOF of her misbehavior..and she doesn't want to hide it at all. She wants to fuck whoever she wants whenever she wants and she wants me to want it too. THAT is so fucking HOT 🔥🔥🔥🔥. FUCK. Fuck yes Hotwifek. Whatever you want.
Oh my goodness! One of my favourite fantasies is only being allowed to cum by humping a woman’s leg. Maintaining eye contact while listening to her belittle me sounds deliciously humiliating. In my dream she pulls her foot away before I go over the edge, then kicks me hard in the balls. Then she either just locks me back up in chastity, or she starts pegging me while I’m still writhing from my smashed nuts. Reblog this if you’re beta enough to love that too!
During the three hour car ride home from Doug’s house today, Michelle and I talked a lot about the wildly intense weekend we just experienced together.
Michelle started the conversation. And what she told me was amazing.
She told me that no matter how much fun she and Doug have, I never have anything to worry about, because I am her person and there’s nothing more important to her than that.
She told me that all the amazing cock and rough fucking in the world doesn’t detract from what she and I have, and that includes our sex life.
This is the type of love and respect and trust that underlies all our cuckold play. And if you don’t have that level of love and respect and trust, then I really don’t think cuckolding is a healthy relationship dynamic. Way too easy for things to go terribly wrong.
Men routinely ask me how they can have a cuckold relationship like mine. The first and most important thing is making sure your relationship together is solid and healthy in literally every other way first. 
“I like how sleeping next to someone means more than sex sometimes, the body’s way of saying ‘I trust you to be by my side at my most vulnerable time,’ you have no defenses when you are asleep, you tell no lies”
— Eric Shaw
It's why I was born
And the Lord said to Terry:
Wait you’re going to be an unparalleled wordsmith? You’re to excel at humor, profundity and satire? You’re going to be knighted? And forge a meteorite sword? And be remembered for ages for the depth and quality of your character? And look like a wizard? You can’t, nobody can have that much cool factor, you can’t do it!
And Sir Terry Pratchett said: Ahh, but I can.
And Death said:
HE CAN.
And so he did.
And so he did.