sunny disposish, my arse

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[holyfuckingweed]

Heated Rivalry incorrect quotes part 19/?

Part 18

I LOVE THEM AAHAHAHAHAHAAAAA

[sapphireofmars]

[cheshire-cat-101]

Ok I want to say something controversial

But you are responsible for your own safe spaces. You can block tags, block words, block people.

“But i thought fandom was supposed to be a safe space” —yeah you have to curate it.

Unfortunately one persons’s safe space may be another persons’ trigger. That’s ok. Simply block them, block the tag, block the word etc. They can do the same for you.

Maybe I’m just out of touch, but I’ve been around since the days of “don’t like, don’t read” and that’s a good philosophy. If it squicks you, scroll past. If it causes you anxiety or upset, block! Plenty of people are responsive if you ask them to tag an upsetting trigger. And if they’re dicks about it, block em.

[kyraneko]

Since different people have different needs, one person’s safe space will be another’s Trauma Central.

I don’t know who said it first, but “I need to be able to express my anger without shame” and “I need to be away from yelling and loud noises” are both valid needs people can have for a safe space that really aren’t compatible with each other.

So are “I need to process my trauma” and “I need to not meet any trauma.”

Or “I want a safe space to tell/read the stories that speak to me” and “those stories are distressing to me.”

Insisting that your needs are the only needs anyone should have is not a safe space, it’s its own act of violence.

You don’t get to make others homeless to make the universe your personal safe space.

[quietborderline]

Read this bit again:

“Insisting that your needs are the only needs anyone should have is … its own act of violence.”

[cadeira]

Sorry, felt emosh today. Previous posts 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9

[cadeira]

Previous posts 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8,

[bruntalism]

[seabassapologist]

You’re right and you should say it

[transhuman-priestess]

You guys do know you're supposed to reblog things, right

[transhuman-priestess]

"well i like this post but i'm worried my followers might not" fuck your followers. The entire point of tumblr is to cause irreparable psychic damage to your followers. We are locked in mortal combat on the astral plane. You must win. You Must Win. You Must Destroy Them.

[cadeira]

Previous posts 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8,

[cadeira]

Previous posts 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7

Heartstopper Text posts (AO3 tag version).

[wei-ying-kexing-apologist]

A Must Read

Don’t Force Queer Shows to Play by Heteronormative Rules

Conservatism doesn’t follow your lists and charts separating the good and the wholesome from the bad and the icky — it’s all in the firing l

So glad @waitmyturtles brought my attention to this Teen Vogue article about purity culture. This is the start to a very good conversation about queer sex on screen, and as your resident “writing academic papers about sec in Only Friends” enthusiast I say everyone who watches queer media and BLs specifically should read this.

[cadeira]

The local discord gays were trying exorcise whatever this scene has been doing to our brains. So memes. Credit to them!

[cecilereads]

Isaacs reading list in Heartstopper

Season 1

Dune Messiah - Frank Herbert

Naruto vol. 72 - Masashi Kishimoto

Quantum Mechanics - Leonard Susskind & Art Friedman

A Good Girl’s Guide to Murder - Holly Jackson

Proud - Gareth Thomas

Pride and Prejudice - Jane Austen

Radio Silence - Alice Oseman

Gender Explorers - Juno Roche

There is no Planet B - Mike Berners-Lee

Season 2

Ace of Spades - Faridah Àbíké-Íyímídé

The Importance of Being Earnest and Other Plays - Oscar Wilde

Booklovers - Emily Henry

Les Misérables - Victor Hugo

The Little Prince - Antoine de Saint-Exupery

We Are Okay - Nina Lacour

The Outsider - Albert Camus

Birthday - Meredith Russo

Crush - Richard Siken

Boy Erased - Garrard Conley

The Swimming Pool Library - Alan Hollinghurst

I Love This Part - Tillie Walden

We Have Always Been Here - Samra Habib

Summer Bird Blue - Akemi Dawn Bowman

Ace - Angela Chen

[cadeira]

Previous posts 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6

Season 2: Aggressively backing away from the emotional abyss via memes. Like the well-adjusted millennial I am.

[nicostiel]

Heartstopper S2 + Text Posts

[cadeira]

Heartstopper Rec-A-Thon: A collaborative, curated guide to Hearstopper fanfic

This is a collection of stories recommended by readers and writers of Heartstopper fanfiction. The posts do not include the rating. So pleas

Season 2 is nearly upon us and so here is a snapshot of the fandom's favourites so far. A series of curated recommendation lists by fans and writers for fans and writers - in the good tradition of Livejournal and Dreamjournal, complete with pithy titles.

[nickhugs]

Heartstopper S1

Favorite moments of Nick hesitating while figuring out/accepting/admitting his feelings

[impostoradult]

1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6 (special Bi Updates edition), 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20/X

[cadeira]

THEY’RE LESBIANS HAROLD!