Caged Jock Boy

Locked up in chastity, in service of Real Men or Masters is the only way to live SIR

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[roughriderxx]

HOT 😍🔥🔥🔥

[roddymcc-deactivated20181216]

Why the gag?  Because I’m tired of your prattle

[breederofbetas]

I wanted to link the source blog (I believe) that this came from. I was VERY proud that my knowledge meant simply that I did not know 3 - 4 out of the 100+ kinks. https://vanillawithatouchofcinnamon.wordpress.com/2017/01/19/kink-table-%F0%9F%94%A5/

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[realworldsubmissive]

Good Boy

They are two incredible words.

They make me feel safe when it hurts.

If I’m scared, the bonds too tight

They can comfort me, keep me safe at night.

Or when I think I’m at my limit,

I’ll hear those words and in a minute,

To push for you I’ll be inspired

To go further than first desired.

They reaffirm my gift to you,

That bond we have; I know it’s true.

Those special words, to hear I crave

As boy, submissive, bitch or slave.

They say I’m more than just a boy;

I am a good boy. Your good boy.

And what else should I want to be?

[slaveinberkeley-deactivated2018]

FIVE QUESTIONS ABOUT CHASTITY

When Men learn that i have been in chastity for over 15 years, They often ask questions about it. i of course answer any question a Man asks, so i share a lot of information. Here are some of the questions i get asked.

1. Do you miss cumming?

i do not miss cumming - in fact, i barely remember what it was like. i am a true faggot slave, and always felt that the ability to cum, the same way a Man Cums, was a freak of nature. Not that i cannot stroke my faggot dick and shoot, i am what i know i was born to be.

2. Does your dick still get hard?

Many Men have thought that chastity causes a guy to become impotent and not able to get a hard on. But that is not the case - at least, not for me. i get hard often, and my dick strains against the bars of my cage every day. i usually wake up several times a night with my dick pushing to escape, This leads to the inevitable next question:

3. Does it hurt?

Yes, having a hard on in a small cage hurts. it hurts me every day. But i am a faggot slave, and pain is part and parcel with the life of a slave. i feel pain in many ways: being whipped, tortured, sometimes even from just being used sexually, particularly by sadistic Men. Pain is part of my everyday experience. So yes, it hurts. So what?

4. Does the cage ever come off?

my MASTER is a Man who understands the reality of the world, and HE knows that, sometimes, my dick needs to recover. So HE occasionally takes off the cage, particularly if the rivet has finally snapped (which it inevitably does). HE leaves it off so my dick can get air and heal from all the abuse it takes.

5. Do you jerk off when the cage is off?

No, i do not. i would not, even if given the chance, but of course, my MASTER is careful not to allow that. when my cage is off, my hands are cuffed and i am restrained. i cannot touch my dick, and i have no opportunity to rub it against anything. often, i am not even able to see it, as i am blindfolded, but sometimes HE likes to watch me looking at my dick, finally free and unable to be used. my dick, when out of the cage, is often bruised and deformed looking. it makes me proud to see it, and think about how i have given my dick, along with myself, to a Man like HIM.

AND A BONUS QUESTION: Why do you do this?

i am always somewhat stunned by this question, because i think the answer is obvious: i am a faggot slave. i have been taught, and believe with all my heart, that there are three kinds of people: Men (by far the most important), women and faggots. A faggot is not a Man, and there are many gay Men who are not faggots. In fact, a faggot can be, at heart, heterosexual. faggots are here to serve Men - that is really their only function. In a perfect world, every Man would have a naked faggot following Him, ready to drink His Piss, suck His Cock, get fucked by Him, and do anything He orders. A faggot has no rights, no privileges, and has no real value except when serving a real Man. faggots can be young, old, any race, any body type. Being a faggot is about an attitude, recognizing what it is. i believe many Men assist faggots in realizing what they are, but i do not think a faggot can be “made” - being a faggot is something it is born with. i knew i was a slave long before any Man used me, and even s a kid, i dreamed of being dominated, abused, and forced. Being a faggot is not an easy life, but for a faggot, it is rich and rewarding.

i hope every faggot out there gets to live the life of a true faggot slave. There is nothing more wonderful.

[lockedandjocked]

Commitment. Acceptance. Pride.

[cagedjockboy]

Why chastity?

[chastitycoach]

Day Four: Chastity Challenge

Welcome to day four!  As usual, continue with your assignments from the first few days.  Today I would like you to do two things: 1) continue researching chastity devices; and 2) purchase a small to medium butt plug that you can consistently wear for extended periods of time.

Chastity devices.  There is no right or wrong answer concerning which chastity device you should purchase.  Having said this, I would like you to make sure that you purchase a cage that strikes the right balance between cleanability and restriction.  Many of the easier to clean devices allow a lot of open areas in which you could potentially touch your dicklet.  I recommend a more closed device in which there is limited capability to touch the penis itself.  For this reason a holy trainer or cb-6000s would be better than, say, a ringed device with lots of openings.

Another thing to keep in mind is ring size (the ring that goes around the scrotum) and penis tube size.  As they continue with chastity, some subs find that their anatomy changes; they may need to purchase a new ring or to find a smaller penis tube.  For this reason, some subs find the CB series beneficial, because it comes with a choice of ring sizes.  

Finally, with respect to sizing of the penis tube, @cagedjock and many others experienced with chastity will tell you that smaller is better!  Do not exaggerate your penis size.  Having space in the penis tube will only cause discomfort when you become erect.  You want a small tube that will limit your capability of achieving an erection.  Take note of the fact, while conducting your measurements, that your penis is likely not at its most flaccid.  You will need to account for this in your measurements.  Read Denying Thumper’s advice on the proper way to measure: https://denyingthumper.com/2015/01/05/how-to-measure-for-a-male-chastity-device/   

@gayboykink also has very helpful FAQs regarding purchasing and maintaining a cage: http://gayboykink.tumblr.com/chastity

Do not rush your decision, but do try to order one soon so that you are able to get locked up for the rest of your 30 day challenge.

Butt plugs.  I, personally, am skeptical of a sub that plays with its ass and often uses dildos and prostate milking devices.  On the one hand, anal play does indeed help train a sub to loosen up its pussy to accommodate big dicks.  It also helps a sub to redirect the center of focus from its dicklet to its pussy.  Even so, a sub needs to learn that its pleasure comes not from its pussy but rather from serving Men.  For this reason, only on rare occasions will I permit you to finger yourself or use a dildo.  If you need an outlet for your horniness, you will need to serve real Men.  

Having said this, it remains your duty to constantly be working on increasing your horniness.  Butt plugs are an excellent way of achieving this.  Today, look at purchasing a butt plug–something durable like glass–that you would be capable of wearing for hours at a time (nothing enormous!).  The plug will stimulate your prostate and drive you nuts, but it will not be enough to satisfy you.  You will need a real Man to get satisfaction.

Start wearing it for as long as you comfortably can and gradually increase the time.  Make a habit out of wearing it regularly.

Click here for all Chastity Challenge posts

[cagedjock]

Take note

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[sissyjoyc]

Chastity guide by sissyjoyce

I’ve been in chastity for a looooong time. The very first thing i did when i turned 18 is take a buss to a crowded city, and bought a chastity cage CB-6000 in there. I remember that, i got so nervous.  If you are looking for the perfect chastity cage for you, feel free to folow my advise, it will save you allot of cash. 1) Don’t buy a device that can pinch your skin.

2) Don’t buy cheap plastic devices or flexible materials! The only plastic device i know won’t break are the expensive CB-series and Holytrainers.

3) Don’t buy a transparant device. You dont want to see your penis, after 2-3 weeks you will forget how your penis looks like exactly, and forget about it more and more. 

4) Dont buy a chastity cage with a lockpad. You can grab the lockpad and move your cage untill you orgasm, lets be honest sissies.

5) Dont buy a cage that shows too much skin. With erections, your skin will just get swollen and hurt.

6) The perfect cage examples and places where you can buy them :

I dont get anything out of this post or something like that, this is just to help you! Dutch people can buy from https://www.kuisheidskooi.nl/huismerk/Kuisheidskooi-Metaal Extremly cheap, i bought mine there… For the others you can buy one at for example :  https://steelworxx.de/ But those are expensive, you can probably find one like this online cheap, but be carefull. I know you are wondering… ‘’Sissyjoyce, on your picture you are wearing a holytrainer S) I know… its a good chastity cage, but these are betters? Right now i got the right one from the lowest picture i showed. xxx

Joyce

[lockedandinked-deactivated20181]

Why permanent chastity?

I didn’t start out with the idea of permanent chastity, but I evolved to it.

At first, it was just fun to see how long I could go, a few hours, a few days then a few weeks.

I noticed I was changing. I had a new energy. I felt younger. It really felt great.

Then I met my Master and we began regular play. I found that I just loved being able to focus entirely on him and not thinking about my own body at all. For him, it’s great because he doesn’t have to reciprocate. He can just enjoy himself entirely. For me, I get a lot of satisfaction from making that happen for him.

The other side-effect is that since my cock is now out of play, my ass has come alive. I never new I could get so much pleasure from it. And when my Master fucks me, he can go a long, long time. The pleasure for me lasts far longer than from having him play with my cock and having me cum. Plus, since I don’t cum, that energy I mentioned never dissipates. I still feel super-energized and alive and happy.

So, I decided that it is a great trade: Give up orgasms in favor of enhanced sensations from my ass (and nipples). I like them more, so it was an easy decision.

It’s been about a year since I’ve had an orgasm and I don’t miss them at all. I don’t even really member what they felt like anymore. In fact, the idea of my having an orgasm now revolts me.

Lastly, now that I have a Master, he likes me locked as it is a constant reminder of who I am, his. And I like that too.

So it just evolved through all those stages. Now I am permanently locked and have zero desire to unlock. It’s so much better for me this way! And for my Master.

[lockedandjocked]

Commitment.

[slaveinberkeley-deactivated2018]

FIVE QUESTIONS ABOUT CHASTITY

When Men learn that i have been in chastity for over 15 years, They often ask questions about it. i of course answer any question a Man asks, so i share a lot of information. Here are some of the questions i get asked.

1. Do you miss cumming?

i do not miss cumming - in fact, i barely remember what it was like. i am a true faggot slave, and always felt that the ability to cum, the same way a Man Cums, was a freak of nature. Not that i cannot stroke my faggot dick and shoot, i am what i know i was born to be.

2. Does your dick still get hard?

Many Men have thought that chastity causes a guy to become impotent and not able to get a hard on. But that is not the case - at least, not for me. i get hard often, and my dick strains against the bars of my cage every day. i usually wake up several times a night with my dick pushing to escape, This leads to the inevitable next question:

3. Does it hurt?

Yes, having a hard on in a small cage hurts. it hurts me every day. But i am a faggot slave, and pain is part and parcel with the life of a slave. i feel pain in many ways: being whipped, tortured, sometimes even from just being used sexually, particularly by sadistic Men. Pain is part of my everyday experience. So yes, it hurts. So what?

4. Does the cage ever come off?

my MASTER is a Man who understands the reality of the world, and HE knows that, sometimes, my dick needs to recover. So HE occasionally takes off the cage, particularly if the rivet has finally snapped (which it inevitably does). HE leaves it off so my dick can get air and heal from all the abuse it takes.

5. Do you jerk off when the cage is off?

No, i do not. i would not, even if given the chance, but of course, my MASTER is careful not to allow that. when my cage is off, my hands are cuffed and i am restrained. i cannot touch my dick, and i have no opportunity to rub it against anything. often, i am not even able to see it, as i am blindfolded, but sometimes HE likes to watch me looking at my dick, finally free and unable to be used. my dick, when out of the cage, is often bruised and deformed looking. it makes me proud to see it, and think about how i have given my dick, along with myself, to a Man like HIM.

AND A BONUS QUESTION: Why do you do this?

i am always somewhat stunned by this question, because i think the answer is obvious: i am a faggot slave. i have been taught, and believe with all my heart, that there are three kinds of people: Men (by far the most important), women and faggots. A faggot is not a Man, and there are many gay Men who are not faggots. In fact, a faggot can be, at heart, heterosexual. faggots are here to serve Men - that is really their only function. In a perfect world, every Man would have a naked faggot following Him, ready to drink His Piss, suck His Cock, get fucked by Him, and do anything He orders. A faggot has no rights, no privileges, and has no real value except when serving a real Man. faggots can be young, old, any race, any body type. Being a faggot is about an attitude, recognizing what it is. i believe many Men assist faggots in realizing what they are, but i do not think a faggot can be “made” - being a faggot is something it is born with. i knew i was a slave long before any Man used me, and even s a kid, i dreamed of being dominated, abused, and forced. Being a faggot is not an easy life, but for a faggot, it is rich and rewarding.

i hope every faggot out there gets to live the life of a true faggot slave. There is nothing more wonderful.

[lockedandjocked]

Commitment. Acceptance. Pride.

[fuckyeahcagednpegged]

[bredbeta]

A worthy goal towards which to strive.

[randombromo]

A boy can have goals

[chastitycoach]

Wow, one of the best descriptions of this that I’ve ever seen

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A view from my perspective.

Follow me! I love to hear from you guys, send in those comments and questions. Be safe out there!

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BDSM Links And Resources

I thought I would update the list of BDSM links and resources I posted a while ago, as some links were no longer working and I had several new ones to add, including a list of books. These should be particularly helpful to those who are new to BDSM and looking to explore D/s relationships, as the best way to go about that is to first read everything you can and then read even more! Not only will this allow you to educate yourself, help keep you safe and avoid any potential mistakes or regrets, but also the more you understand something, the less intimidating it will seem.

If you have anything to add, please don’t hesitate to let me know and I will update this list, in particular if there any books that a submissive might find helpful or informative, as most of the books I have read or included are intended for Dominants.

Note: For the sake of consistency and readability, I have used capitals throughout this document and have not used lower case when referring to submissives or slaves.

Websites:

Babygirls ‘n’ Daddy Doms: Website dedicated to littles, babygirls and Daddy Doms, with a lot of useful information on the subject.

Collarme: A free BDSM dating website and community, that is probably the most popular and a better option than the commercial alternatives.

DS Arts: Academy of DS Arts, fairly self explanatory.

Evil Monk: Ambrosio’s BDSM Website, featuring many useful articles.

Fetlife: An online BDSM community that I would highly recommend and which is perhaps best described as Facebook for the kinky, allowing users to create a profile, publish photos or writing and join interest groups where you can ask questions.

Kink Academy: An online resource with many educational and instructional videos on various aspects of BDSM, although users must pay a small fee to access all of the content.

Submissive Guide: As the name suggests, this is an online resource for submissives.

The Iron Gate: A general BDSM online resource, with many aticles, essays and even stories on the subject.

Dating and Relationships:

10 Principles For Healthy 24/7 D/s And M/s (Source: sexgeek.wordpress.com)

Difference of Dynamics in BDSM (Source: the-little-kitten.tumblr.com)

Finding Your Dominant (Source: asubmissivesjourney.com)

How To Find A Partner (Source: Jack Rinella / leathernews.com)

Initiating a Discussion About BDSM Interest with a Vanilla Partner Part 1 (Source: submissiveguide.com)

Initiating a Discussion About BDSM Interest with a Vanilla Partner Part 2 (Source: submissiveguide.com)

Initiating a Discussion About BDSM Interest with a Vanilla Partner Part 3 (Source: submissiveguide.com)

So You Want Your Boyfriend To Dominate You (Source: domwithpen.tumblr.com)

So Your Girlfriend Wants You To Dominate Her (Source: domwithpen.tumblr.com)

The Unfortunate But Common Misconceptions About DD/lg Relationships (Source: a-lolitas-life.tumblr.com)

Play:

Consent Is Mandatory And Non-Negotiable (Source: fortheloveofasub.tumblr.com)

Food Play (Source: bdsmsadomasochism.tumblr.com)

How (and Why) To Go Down On Your Submissive (Source: domwithpen.tumblr.com)

Initial Steps Into Orgasm on Command Training (Source: submissiveguide.com)

Rules and Tasks for Building Confidence (Source: themostdangerousplaything.tumblr.com)

Tools of Consent in BDSM (Source: the-iron-gate.com)

Training in D/s - Why? (Source: her-master.tumblr.com)

Training in D/s - How? (Source: her-master.tumblr.com)

Training in D/s - Thoughts And Concerns (Source: her-master.tumblr.com)

Wax Play (Source: bdsmsadomasochism.tumblr.com)

Safety:

Basics Of Safe, Sane And Consensual Power Exchange (Source: Molly Devon / the-iron-gate.com)

Common Sense (Source: Sean R. Powell / the-iron-gate.com)

Emotional Safety (Source: the-iron-gate.com)

Offline/Online BDSM Safety Rules (Source: the-iron-gate.com)

Ouch Is Not A Safe Word: Safe Words, Limits, and Scene Protocol (Source: the-iron-gate.com)

Rules For Meeting Strangers (Source: Jack Rinella / leathernews.com)

Safewords and Safesigns 101 (Source: kinkology.tumblr.com)

S.S.C. VS R.A.C.K. (Source: Justin Medlin / the-iron-gate.com)

Checklists, Communication and Negotiation:

BDSM Play Partner Check List (Source: Sovereign House / the-iron-gate.com)

BDSM Scene Negotiations (Source: daddyvinnie.tumblr.com)

Can I Get That In Writing: Basics of Negotiations (Source: the-iron-gate.com)

Communication (Source: submissivesupportgroup.tumblr.com)

If I Ever See Another Checklist I Will Scream: An Extremely Thorough Play Checklist (Source: the-iron-gate.com)

Negotiation Forms (Source: Jay Wiseman, SM 101: A Realistic Introduction / greenerypress.com)

What Are Negotiations Good For? (Source: the-iron-gate.com)

Sub Drop and Aftercare:

Aftercare for submissives (Source: Mistress Abode / brairthornblog.wordpress.com)

Aftercare for Dominants (Source: Mistress Abode / brairthornblog.wordpress.com)

Aftercare for Switches (Source: Mistress Abode / brairthornblog.wordpress.com)

Emergency Self-Administered Aftercare (Source: Mistress Abode / brairthornblog.wordpress.com)

Sub Drop (Source: David Williams / subshelpingsubs.tripod.com)

Sub Drop and Aftercare (Source: desires-of-a-domimant-man.tumblr.com)

Dominance and Dominants:

A Dominant is NOT… (Source: the-iron-gate.com)

Advice to a Novice Dom (Source: Washington Sexuality University / the-iron-gate.com)

Advice to a Novice Dominant (Source: cherhatton.tumblr.com)

An Open Letter To A Novice Dom (Source: evilmonk.org)

Qualities of A Successful Dominant (Source: Polly Peachum / the-iron-gate.com)

Daddy Doms: They’re Not What You Think (Source: edenfantasys.com)

Domination for Nice Guys (Source: Franklin Veaux / the-iron-gate.com)

How To Spot A Non Dominant (Source: the-iron-gate.com)

Learning To Be A Dom (Source: the-iron-gate.com)

Run Don’t Walk: Warning Signs of A Predator Dom/me Part 1 (Source: submissiveguide.com)

Run Don’t Walk: Warning Signs of A Predator Dom/me Part 2 (Source: submissiveguide.com)

Red Flags, Warning Signs, and Intuition: Learning to Trust You Instincts - Part One: Dominants (Source: the-iron-gate.com)

The Dominant (Source: the-iron-gate.com)

What Is A Daddy Dom? (Source: babygirlsndaddydoms.webs.com)

What Makes A Good Dominant (Source: Kim Debron / kimdebron.tripod.com)

What Should A Dominant Be (Source: the-iron-gate.com)

Submission and Submissives:

10 Considerations For Inexperienced Subs (Source: fortheloveofasub.tumblr.com)

A Submissive Bill of Rights (Source: the-iron-gate.com)

A Submissive’s Creed (Source: the-iron-gate.com)

A Submissive’s Ethics (Source: the-iron-gate.com)

Introduction To Submission (Source: Kim Debron / kimdebron.tripod.com)

Learning to Trust Your Instincts (Source: bewildbetruebekinkybeyou.tumblr.com)

Red Flags, Warning Signs, and Intuition: Learning to Trust You Instincts- Part 2: Submissives/Slaves (Source: the-iron-gate.com)

Some Rules For The Submissive (Source: daddylookingforhisbaby.tumblr.com)

Submissive Owner’s Manual (Source: youmadememe.tumblr.com)

Ten Tips For The Novice, Heterosexual submissive Woman (Source: Jay Wiseman / the-iron-gate.com)

Warning Signs for Submissives (Source: RC Bauer / the-iron-gate.com)

What Is A Babygirl? (Source: babygirlsndaddydoms.webs.com)

Books:

BDSM: The Naked Truth by Dr Charley Ferrer

Dear Raven and Joshua: Questions and Answers About Master/Slave Relationships by Joshua Tenpenny and Raven Kaldera

Devil in the Details I: The Art of Mastery, A Mentoring Trilogy - The Master, The Slave, The Power by LT Morrison

Devil in the Details II: The Art of Mastery, A Mentoring Trilogy - Mastery Refine: The Issues, The Skills by LT Morrison

Devil in the Details III: The Art of Mastery, A Mentoring Trilogy - Sustainable Structure and Traning by LT Morrison

Different Loving: The World of Sexual Dominance and Submission by William Brame, Gloria Brame and Jon Jacobs

Living M/s: A Book for Masters, slaves and Their Relationships by Dan and Dawn Williams

Master/slave Relations: Handbook of Theory and Practice by Robert Rubel

Master/slave Relations: Communications 401 by Robert Rubel

Master/slave Relations: Solutions 402, Living in Harmony by Robert Rubel

Protocols: A Variety of Views by Robert Rubel

Real Service by Joshua Tenpenny and Raven Kaldera

Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns: The Romance and Sexual Sorcery of Sadomasochism by Phillp Miller and Molly Devon

SM101: A Realistic Introduction by Jay Wiseman

The Control Book by Peter Masters

The Loving Dominant by John and Libby Warren

The New Bottoming Book by Dossie Easton and Janet W. Hardy.

The New Topping Book by Dossie Easton and Janet W. Hardy.

The Ultimate Guide to Kink: BDSM, Role Play and the Erotic Edge by Tristan Taormino

This Curious Human Phenomenon: An Exploration of Some Uncommonly Explored Aspects of BDSM by Peter Masters

Where I Am Led: A Service Exploration Workbook by Christina Parker

[papatonyinsandiego]

Yes, it IS a very heterosexually-biased list, but any list that includes the wisdom of Jack Rinella is good with me.

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Porn with Chastity Content

Bound & Gagged Videos – Masters & Slaves  Part 1 & 2 

BoundByConnor – Several

BoyNapped – Several

Bromo – Jeremy Spreadums and Liam Cyber; Jeff Powers fucks Gunner Canon

BrutalTops – Several

DomiAddict – title unknown

Kink.com – Several

MagicSpankingFactory – Jonathon Series

ManUpBitches – Several

MaverickMenDirects – Cuff Me, Tie Me, Fuck Me,

Mustang – Darkroom

My Dirtiest Fantasy – 5: Opened and Abused

SlowTeasingHandjobs – David Series

Staxus – Kinky Housemates: Dylan Scott, Angel Lopez, Timmy Treasure

Str8Hell – Borek, Filip and Honza; Petr Cisler and Niko Morak

TimFuck – Stoner Gangbang; Damien Kilauea and Zack Grayson

TimSuck – Klaus and Nico Mar

YesSirBoys – Several

Since I spent quite a bit of time looking for gay porn with chastity content, I thought others might be interested in what I’ve found. Some notes:

This probably isn’t exhaustive - feel free to add if you know of others

Some studios might have more vids than are mentioned but its often hard to find. Some of them have surprisingly bad search and tagging functions.

This is “professionally” produced porn (the cut-off is kind of vague). There are a lot of amateurs here, on tube sites and things like onlyfans but this wasn’t what this was about.

Now go out and buy those videos! Maybe then they would produce some more.

[the-silent-alpha]

I don’t understand the point of locking up. What does this do? Why is this attractive? Not trying to judge but trying to understand why the gusto for “caging” a dick.

Fair question.

Everyone can love chastity for different reasons, of course, just like any other kink. Here’s why I do :Chastity takes away a boy’s ability to use his dick. He can’t jerk off, he can’t penetrate anything, he can’t stimulate it, he can’t get hard. To me (and to a lot of people) the dick is the ultimate symbol of masculinity. So when a boy doesn’t have access to it the feel of masculinity alters. He’s no longer in control of his dick, it is now controlled by the keyholder. The boy doesn’t get pleasure from it, the boy can’t get hard, depending on the device, the boy might not even be able to see it. It’s emasculating. Not being able to cum makes the boy very horny. You’d be surprised what males are ready/want to do after not being able to cum for a few days/weeks. That makes him look for pleasure in other places. He wants to be touched anywhere, he wants to touch. In gay boys’ cases they think about dick non stop. They start playing with their ass to get some release so their hole becomes their sex organ. And because their hole is being stimulated and they get pleasure from it, it’s not just a hole anymore. It’s a cunt. They may not want to call it that, but that’s what it is in their head. So we now got a boy who’s hungry all the time, he trembles from the slightest touch and gets lots of pleasure from his new sex organ. Chastity improves sex for the boy. Not only is he more sensitive, but without being able to cum he will always enjoy sex. If you bottom, you know that if you cum - it’s game over. Your top has to stop because you don’t enjoy being fucked anymore. That problem goes away with chastity. Boy is always ready and eager. That, of course, makes sex better for me.Chastity also never lets a boy forget who he is. You may be a bottom, you may be a sub. But you don’t think about that part of you when you’re at work or visiting you family or going to parties with your friends. The chastity device is always there, you can always feel it. Horny or not, sad or happy, alone or surrounded by people. You can always feel it, it’s a constant reminder that your manhood was taken away. It keeps you in your place, it never lets you forget that you get pleasure from getting fucked. Every time you need to use the bathroom you are faced with the reality of who you are : male but not a man. That changes a boy. His behavior becomes that of a sub even outside of the bedroom. Chastity builds up a lot of frustration and tension. That’s why it’s also a great way to motivate the boy go to the gym or be more productive in general. I’ve had a boy with a barely average body transform into a beast after just 1 year of chastity. I’m no longer his keyholder, but he still keeps the cage. He doesn’t want it off, because it motivates him so much. And most importantly, I love chastity because it sets clear roles. The boy is giving up his masculinity for me, he locks it up as a sign of surrender. My dick becomes the only dick in the room and he’s just holes. I’m his Man, he’s my bitch. Fucking a boy while watching his soft clit in his cage being ignored is just very, very hot. I never liked when my bottoms touched themselves during sex. I thought the chastity devices looked a little weird at first. But now I love them. If I see one on a boy it makes me hard instantly. Because that means that he embraced his role as someone who belongs underneath Men. And I love being on top!

[mrsmanwife]

Wisdom.

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What advice would you give to those that are considering or trying out chastity? Any personal struggles that you've experienced with chastity that you're willing to share?

This can be a somewhat large can of worms in my opinion but I’ll try and keep it brief. Everything within is from personal experiences Dad and I have shared. @tndaddybear has been amazing at supporting me, and us, through this process.

Keep expectations realistic.

If you’re just starting out, don’t expect to last three months or something like that. Take time to acclimate to the changes your body and psyche will go through. For example, in no particular order:

1) Your body physically will require time to adapt. Your nuts might get sore and chaffed until they’re used to being constantly confined… they may need time to heal. Your body will also have reactions to not getting off. That might mean leaking cum tears, painful nuts (for me that happens after fucking when I’m all wound up,) uncontrollable erections in the night that will wake you, and the occasional night emission (it’s always a little odd to wake up thinking, “Why am I sticky?”).

2) Your mind will experience changes more than your body. The emotions will change, sometimes rapidly. You might be desperately horny to fuck one minute, and angrily frustrated that you can’t cum the next. Having a strong key holder to keep you stable in the maelstrom of emotion is really important. I find after the first few weeks of a lockup, they tend to chill out. I’m currently at about month 5, week 1. It’s now just a part of who I am, and generally don’t realize it’s there. Sometimes I buck up, but it happens less frequently, and less intensely than in the beginning. No matter what, talk about what you’re experiencing with your key holder. They’re a part of the process, don’t shut them out. That’s how resentment happens. Talk everything out.

3) One of the more annoying parts of chastity: finding the right fit. You may need to try multiple devices, or multiple ring sizes. You may find that you go through a dozen devices. We have. Be ready to adapt when you find a cage just isn’t working. It’s not supposed to be painful (all the time,) it’s supposed to be fun. Don’t think there’s only one chastity solution out there.

Take the proper time to build up your tolerance.

You can’t just suddenly lock up and go three months, unless you’re a supersub. If you can, rock on. But for most folks, I advise the following schedule to begin:

1) 12 hours, during the workday, through the gym, school, whatever your daily routine is. Take it off at night.

2) Next, go overnight. Lock up before bed, experience what that’s like, and assess the situation in the morning. A break may be needed, it may not.

3) Then, go an entire 24 hour period at a minimum. Wake up locked, go through your day locked, settle in for bed locked, and sleep locked. 

4) You now know what to expect. Go three days. By now, you should have tested your environments, driving, school, work, gym, etc. If you cannot function through a critical part of your day, reassess what cage you’re using. You may need to try others.

5) Time to go a whole week. Then two weeks. Then a month. Then three months. Then…… and so on.

The point is, build up. Your body is made of muscles. You can’t lift 95 pounds in a bench press one day, and 305 the next, right? Don’t do that to your genitalia either. Train it. Train your mind especially.

Clear, defined expectations with yourself and/or key holder.

I don’t necessarily recommend open time limits in the beginning. It leads to frustration, anger, feeling lost, or maybe like you’re not really working towards anything.

Dad sets milking periods for me, and we tend to stick to them. It looks like this: Dad will say, “I’ll choose a milking date on the first of the month,” and then that doesn’t mean it happens on the first. It happens on a date he chooses on the first. Still flexible, still in Dad’s control, and still gives me something to look forward to.

Have conversations that lead to understanding what the purpose of chastity is. That’s going to mean something very different for everyone. For one, it might mean being a human dildo, where your key holder locks you up, uses you to ride while they get off, and locks you back up whether you cum or not. They might punish you if you do cum. It might mean focusing your attention from your dick to theirs exclusively (probably the most common.) Whatever the goals and expectations are, know them. Make sure everyone knows and understands. Clear expectations are healthy. Boundaries are healthy.

Cleanliness is next to godliness.

Figure out what cleaning method works for you. Bacteria can be a real bitch, don’t be foolish and think weeks in a cage without cleaning will just be fine. Use shower wands, liquid soaps, hydrogen peroxide and a q-tip, whatever works for you. If you have foreskin, you may need to be unlocked for a supervised cleaning more often, I wouldn’t know, I’m cut. 

A sub is no good to their dominant if they’re not in proper working order. That’s the sub’s responsibility, and the dominant’s responsibility to inspect.

It’s not bondage till you want out.

Dad says this to me all the time, it’s not bondage till you want out. Try to let go of your individual wants and needs, and understand with your key holder, you are now a part of a collective sex life. Consider, “My pussy is my sex organ,” and leave your dick out of the equation entirely. This leads to…

The most effective chastity device is between your ears.

Your brain is the most effective chastity device, period. Whatever you commit to, understand, if you want to cheat, you will. If you want to behave, you will. If you’re locked up, use that energy to further other projects. Workout more regularly, study more effectively, be more focused at work. 

When periods of extreme horniness come, let them wash over you. Be in heat. Be a cunt in heat. And tell your key holder. Beg. Let them know where you’re at. Let them help you. There will be a fire in your pussy that only their cum can put out. Trust and believe.

When you truly give yourself to the chastity life style, as opposed to resist resist resist, beautiful things happen. And that’s probably a post for another day. 

Thanks for the great question! I hope I answered effectively. 

Please feel free to share this post! There are many ways to do chastity, and all of them are right (you know, unless they’re unsafe, unethical, or illegal.) Have fun with it!

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[mychasteylife]

Yep

[locked-cock]

Yes i am locked up

[pupmj-deactivated20181217]

Always:))

[journeyin2submission]

Yes I am!