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“Pride is not the opposite of shame, but its source. True humility is the only antidote to shame.“- Iroh
kindness is a discipline, not a trait
Yes.
As with many disciplines, kindness may come more easily to some than to others. But it is nonetheless something you can learn, something you can teach, something you can work at.
Something you do, rather than something you are.
In regards to the attack on the Capitol on Jan 6, 2021:
I’ve been on hiatus from Tumblr while I focus on finishing college and managing a nonprofit, but I feel called to comment on this situation and how it affects me, my religious community, and other communities that I’m a part of.
Last week many Americans woke up to a reality where alt-right extremists are able to carry out an agenda of terror to usurp the free and democratic norms of our culture. For people such as myself, this isn’t new. As a queer Heathen, I’ve been contending with alt-right infiltration and recruitment in my communities for years. Such experiences prompted me to become a security studies major and to involve myself in community-led education on extremist methodologies for the last 4 years.
The violence carried out last Wed is the culmination of successfully coordinated efforts by the alt-right for far longer. While many of us have rolled our eyes and mocked the most radical actors as ‘NeoNazis’, we’ve been unwitting participants in minimizing the threat they posed until it was too late. They planned it this way. They played the long game with the goal of shifting cultural norms ever closer to promoting neofascist ideologies or, at the very least, inserting ideologies of cultural purism and exclusionism into communities that might inhibit their goals. Such efforts have included infiltrating religious communities, hobby communities, and co-opting cultural norms and language.
It’s this last part that is particularly insidious and why decent well-meaning people have been ineffective thus far in inhibiting the alt-right’s momentum. We’ve seen a lot of activism in the last few years of openly calling out racist rhetoric, refusing “nazis” entry to our spaces, and making it part of our rally cries that we will not stand idle while they co-opt our communities, religions, and symbols. But while call-out language, exclusionary policies, and antagonizing the alt-right may be the most natural reactionary response -
It’s also, unfortunately, the most divisive and fulfills the alt-right’s following goals:
They keep themselves at the center of our activism which prevents us from prioritizing the people and identities they pose the greatest danger to (BIPOC, LGBTQA+, and people with disabilities).
They remain an elusive and abstract enemy that keeps us distrustful of our allies and in a reactionary state of shutting out anyone who might have begun to be sucked into their propaganda, which just helps drive their radicalization and recruitment.
They keep us focused on who and what we are against, instead of identifying our own values and identity. In this way they keep control of the narrative and prevent us unifying over anything other than our oppression, fear, and anger at them.
All of this prevents us from maintaining appropriate boundaries with racism and fascist values and replaces them with arbitrary ones. Instead of self-assessing they keep us focused on policing others. Instead of holding ourselves personally accountable for confronting our own racism, biases, and prejudices we become fixated on pointing out everyone else’s.
While I don’t claim to have the solution to alt-right influence, it’s clear that our approach will need to be as multilayered and intentional as theirs has been. The attack on the Capitol have made the world aware of the urgency now and new voices will enter this conversation. We can’t keep promoting reactive action.
Whatever we do now, we need to start by addressing how to avoid these recurring obstacles and, most importantly, how we can prioritize BIPOC and other marginalized voices to guide the solutions.
Quinn
TL;DR
Alt-Right methodologies push us to reactionary responses on purpose. They’re meant to center them, provoke, and distract us from any actions that would actually thwart their agendas.
I see that you can yell “Fuck Nazis” but can you take responsibility for your own racial biases and work on them?
I see that you can sign declarations and oaths that police white people but can start centering BIPOC in your activism?
I see that you can take up a Shieldwall but what are you doing to create inclusion policies that make your communities welcoming to BIPOC?
I see you can make graphics that call out bigotry but are you able to listen to marginalized voices?
I see that you can lead and be the hero, but can you follow and ally if that means no recognition?
Is our activism performative? How can we shift away from policing the privileged and towards supporting, including, and valuing marginalized people?
Holy shit dude
This sounds like... really important? What the FUCK Disney??
They are just straight up not paying loyalties! "Disney’s argument is that they have purchased the rights but not the obligations of the contract."
This is seriously dangerous to creators
Read the letter from Alan Dean Foster:
Dear Mickey,
We have a lot in common, you and I. We share a birthday: November 18. My dad’s nickname was Mickey. There’s more.
When you purchased Lucasfilm you acquired the rights to some books I wrote. STAR WARS, the novelization of the very first film. SPLINTER OF THE MIND’S EYE, the first sequel novel. You owe me royalties on these books. You stopped paying them.
When you purchased 20th Century Fox, you eventually acquired the rights to other books I had written. The novelizations of ALIEN, ALIENS, and ALIEN 3. You’ve never paid royalties on any of these, or even issued royalty statements for them.
All these books are all still very much in print. They still earn money. For you. When one company buys another, they acquire its liabilities as well as its assets. You’re certainly reaping the benefits of the assets. I’d very much like my miniscule (though it’s not small to me) share.
You want me to sign an NDA (Non-disclosure agreement) before even talking. I’ve signed a lot of NDAs in my 50-year career. Never once did anyone ever ask me to sign one prior to negotiations. For the obvious reason that once you sign, you can no longer talk about the matter at hand. Every one of my representatives in this matter, with many, many decades of experience in such business, echo my bewilderment.
You continue to ignore requests from my agents. You continue to ignore queries from SFWA, the Science Fiction and Fantasy Writers of America. You continue to ignore my legal representatives. I know this is what gargantuan corporations often do. Ignore requests and inquiries hoping the petitioner will simply go away. Or possibly die. But I’m still here, and I am still entitled to what you owe me. Including not to be ignored, just because I’m only one lone writer. How many other writers and artists out there are you similarly ignoring?
My wife has serious medical issues and in 2016 I was diagnosed with an advanced form of cancer. We could use the money. Not charity: just what I’m owed. I’ve always loved Disney. The films, the parks, growing up with the Disneyland TV show. I don’t think Unca Walt would approve of how you are currently treating me. Maybe someone in the right position just hasn’t received the word, though after all these months of ignored requests and queries, that’s hard to countenance. Or as a guy named Bob Iger said….
“The way you do anything is the way you do everything.”
I’m not feeling it.
Alan Dean Foster
SIGNAL.
BOOST.
Because you know if Disney gets away with not paying creators, everyone else will want to see if they can get away with it.
Jedi June: Meditation/Mindfulness
“Meditation is about more than just forging a deeper connection with the Force, it is about gaining a deeper understanding of ourselves. It is a means of obtaining greater control over our thoughts, our emotions. Peace, serenity, harmony. We must master ourselves before we can hope to master the Force.“
can you believe it’s the year 2020 and people still think ‘be mindful of your feelings’ equates to ‘suppress your emotions’?
I hate that forgiveness is presented as the opposite to justice by most Christians. It's so toxic. The mandate to forgive then becomes a mandate to abandon justice. And to hunger and thirst for justice, as we are called to do, becomes an act of disobedience because we're not being forgiving enough.
Forgiveness is not a lack of justice. And justice is not a lack of forgiveness. To say otherwise is to set up a dangerous precedent that will always favour the powerful.
What is compassion practice?
I want to write a bit about my compassion practice. I haven’t spoken about it but this word has actually been a primary focus of my practice for over a year now. It all started when we identified this word as a necessary tenet for our Church. At the time we were at a loss for how to explain compassion.
And then we found the root of this word. Its etymology. Compassion means literally “to suffer with.” And with that 3 word meaning… my world broke. I mean it literally broke my brain for a while. I had been raised on a Christianized Western Capitalistic view of Compassion, based in charitable thinking. I had gone through my entire life thinking that compassion meant to try to help people who were suffering, to try to take away their pain, to DO SOMETHING about it. This had been enforced by people-pleasing, the American hero culture, and the Christian idea of saviorship.
We researched a bit more on compassion by talking with experts on Compassion: Trauma therapists, sexual assault advocates, child advocates, ex-abusers, ex-terrorists, those who left hate groups, and those who’ve worked with refugees.
I then spent the next 6-8 months trying to learn how to digest everything they impressed on us. I’ve never undertaken anything so difficult. Compassion is the hardest facet of human behavior to practice in my opinion. It’s not about you, how you feel, removing the pain, or healing. Compassion is bearing witness to someone else’s suffering and even allowing yourself to feel a fraction of what they’re feeling. Compassion is holding space for some of the most uncomfortable range of human emotions. Compassion isn’t passive and it isn’t a single heroic act; it’s choosing to allow someone to be vulnerable with you and for your own vulnerability to be seen in return. In that moment you are both courageous and you are both standing in a moment of profound truth. And it ACHES. I mean it really really aches.
If it doesn’t ache, you’re not doing compassion correctly. And the other thing about compassion is that everyone needs it. It is a human need. It’s not something that can be earned or deserved. It can be so much easier to extend compassion to friends and people with similar values. But in the last year, I’ve learned that compassion belongs to our enemies too. Having compassion for those that hate me is the hardest most necessary thing I’ve ever done. That extension of compassion doesn’t mean forgiveness, it doesn’t mean that somehow this person isn’t my enemy, and it doesn’t absolve them of their actions.
The kind of compassion I’m talking about is to look at all the pain that someone has brought, all the things they’ve done that are inexcusable, unforgivable, and even evil… and to see their humanity. It’s easy to reduce a person to a villain but to look at a villain and see a person- who has chosen to destroy themselves to hurt others… and still hold space for the humanity they lost. That’s real compassion.
It’s not fluffy. It’s not sunshine and rainbows. It’s painful and it’s hard. It will absolutely wreck you. But it’s worth it in my personal opinion. Compassion was the greatest lesson I’ve received on this journey so far. And it’s a lesson I’ll never stop digging into.
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You know what? It’s really like that sometimes.
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Some eaiser variations of push ups to help you build the strength to do a traditional one!
I don’t generally reblog ‘fitness’ stuff but gaddamn could I use some more arm strength.
Push-ups are my worst nightmare. I can only do 44 before I pass out on the floor.
“I can only do 44” hahaha omg I can’t even do one.
yes good
I was always frustrated how my P.E. teachers wanted all of us to go “all-or-none” and basically hurt ourselves without letting us build up from square-one like in the first gif. Then they’d fuckin yell at us for not doing it right >:|
Knee-pushups is not square-one.
When I got my first personal trainer, she had me doing push ups almost standing upright in the weight lifting bars so that I could do 15 reps and 3 sets of them. It’s more about the technique of the push up, and if you’re pushing too much weight, you can’t exersize the correct muscles within their tolerances. This post is pretty important tto know cause of that.
I was introduced to the knee push-up last year and it was such a fucking game changer. I had NO idea it was possible to work those same muscles just with a slight variation in position.
I wanna just verify that these are excellent for building strength, both as someone who took weights class in high school with a good teacher, and as someone who’s had a lifetime of physical therapy (not for my arms specifically, but I’ve spent a lot of time in sports medicine centers). And again, if the vertical one in the first gif is difficult, you don’t even have to lean into it like that. Start standing, and only lean as much as it takes you to lower towards the wall.
And remember, many exercises can be modified in this way! I did an image search for “modified pull up” and got exactly what I was looking for right away, which is this:
Doing pull ups on a lower bar, or from the straps with handles that gyms sometimes have (called the TRX - they can also be used to support yourself during squats and some balance exercises) is a lot easier than jumping straight into vertical pullups, and lets you build up that muscle with exercises that are still comfortable and safe for you, so you can do more sets of more reps.
As a general rule, always start with lower-strain exercises and practice good form before you work your way up. You don’t want to have to unlearn bad habits that could lead to injury later as the difficulty increases.
@imfemalewarrior I’m assuming you’ve seen this post but in case you haven’t—it seems like your kind of thing
Here are push up and pull up progressions!
-FemaleWarrior, She/They
Because I have serious issues with core strength and cannot do a sit up or a crunch without using muscles I shouldn’t and hurting myself, I looked up core exercises for beginners (because modified sit ups just have me ways to make it harder), and here’s what I found.
All from here, which also includes sit ups with the idea that you start up and don’t go all the way down.
This stuff on the bottom is some of the stuff I do for physical therapy, can vouch for it
Star Wars: The Last Jedi Star Wars: The Empire Strikes Back Star Wars: The Clone Wars “To reach them you will have to pass through visions and voices. Some of them may frighten you. Some of them are drawn from your own past. They are your deepest fears. That is what you must face.” “WHAT’S IN THERE?” “ONLY WHAT YOU TAKE WITH YOU.”
I WOUND UP REALLY LIKING THE CAVE SCENE, LET ME YELL ABOUT WHY. Rian Johnson talks about the cave and what it means to Rey here:
“The idea is this island has incredible light and the first Jedi temple up top, and then it has an incredible darkness that’s balanced down underneath in the cave,” the filmmaker said. “In this search for identity, which is her whole thing, she finds all these various versions of ‘Who am I’ going off into infinity, all the possibilities of her. She comes to the end, looking for identity from somebody, looking for an answer, and it’s just her.
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“I was thinking, what’s the most powerful answer to that question? Powerful meaning: what’s the hardest thing that Rey could hear? That’s what you’re after with challenging your characters,” Johnson said.
It’s obviously evoking memories of the reveal of Vader, it’s about hearing a hard truth–but the thought behind it, “What’s the hardest thing that Rey could hear?” seems significant to me. It’s about storytelling, for dramatic effect, but it’s also a question that’s basically: What does Rey most fear to learn about herself? What is her greatest fear? And that’s really familiar. Luke faces the cave on Dagobah and it’s about facing something he fears, the potential to turn to darkness within him. “What’s in there?” Luke asks in ESB.
You know what else it reminds us of? Ilum. The caves where the Jedi face a trial–usually to get their lightsaber crystal, but it can be seen as more of a general test to overcome a fear. Anakin faces the same thing on Ilum in Legends (and there are loads of other examples, too), when Obi-Wan takes him there, seeing visions of his mother and of Darth Maul attacking him, because those are what linger with him:
“To reach them you will have to pass through visions and voices. Some of them may frighten you. Some of them are drawn from your own past. They are your deepest fears. That is what you must face.” We see it in The Clone Wars as well, that when the younglings go to face the caves on Ilum, it’s about overcoming personal issues, it’s about the fears and problems they have, that’s what the cave puts in front of them. And ultimately the lesson is:
Force-heavy caves are about things that may be true or may not be true, but they’re about facing the things you fear the most. And that’s why the vision Rey has in the cave really works for me, because it’s continuing the Jedi tradition of what you fear the most as something you need to face and accept and work through.
This is a really fascinating piece about the Jedi, their values/methods, and the view of them through the lens of therapy, as written by a psychologist–in that their methods are analogous to actual therapy methods–especially the focus on mindfulness as something that I think applies a lot to Anakin:
Jedi or not, mindfulness has many physical and psychological benefits. In fact, regular mindfulness practice can reduce anxiety and depression, reduce symptoms of PTSD, improve mood, improve brain functioning, and potentially prolong life.
It struck me, while reading, that anxiety is a big focus of this essay as through the lens of what mindfulness (paying attention to your feelings, being in the present moment with them, which is what the Jedi teach) is something incredibly applicable to Anakin Skywalker, that the list of symptoms I often see in him (whether narratively intended or not, I certainly see them!) are pretty spot on. It also talks about what non-attachment means (” Non-attachment refers to allowing things to be as they are.“), how the Jedi’s methods are about psychological flexibility, and how, “it turns out that the Jedi might have been onto something”.
So You Want to Be a Jedi? Learning the Ways of the Force through Acceptance and Commitment Therapy by Jenna Busch and Dr. Janina Scarlet, Ph.D.
Obi-Wan Kenobi: “Master Yoda says I should be mindful of the future.” Qui-Gon Jinn: “But not at the expense of the present moment.” “Mindfulness means paying attention in a particular way; on purpose, in the present moment, and nonjudgmentally.” —biomedical scientist Jon Kabat-Zinn
Sure, it looks cool to wield a lightsaber and fight against the Imperial Stormtroopers, but what does it actually take to become a Jedi? Which Jedi practices resemble mental health practices currently used to help people with various mental health disorders? What are the main differences between a Jedi and a Sith, and how do they relate to mental health? The Jedi Knights study and serve the Force, a mystical energy that connects all things. They fight as a last resort. They are guided by the Force and follow principles of non-attachment and self-discipline. The Jedi also value mindfulness, acceptance, and compassion, all of which have been shown to help people with various psychological disorders, such as anxiety, depression, and posttraumatic stress disorder (PTSD), chronic pain, substance addictions, and other disorders. Therapies that specifically focus on some of these “Jedi” skills are known as mindfulness-based therapies, and include acceptance and commitment therapy, mindfulness-based cognitive therapy, and dialectical behavior therapy. Learning Psychological Flexibility: Mindfulness Each Jedi spends a lifetime training to use and be one with the Force. The Force is a kind of metaphysical power that guides the Jedi. It is said to be everywhere and in everything. The Jedi Masters teach their Padawans from an early age to quiet their minds in order to be able to connect with the Force. This connection with the Force is a form of mindfulness, which refers to paying attention to the present moment on purpose, without judgment or distraction. It turns out that the Jedi might have been onto something. Jedi or not, mindfulness has many physical and psychological benefits. In fact, regular mindfulness practice can reduce anxiety and depression, reduce symptoms of PTSD, improve mood, improve brain functioning, and potentially prolong life. Many people spend a great deal of time feeling devastated about the past, as Anakin Skywalker does about not being able to see his mother anymore after she dies, and worrying about the future, as Anakin does when he fears losing Padmé. Instead, mindfulness focuses on the present moment. This practice may include noticing the sounds that are present in the environment, observing emotions, or paying attention to one’s own breath or other physical sensations that arise naturally in the body. The key is to notice when the attention drifts away from the intended focus and to bring it back nonjudgmentally, accepting the experience as it is. Sometimes when a person is engaging in an unpleasant task, such as cleaning out the refrigerator, or is feeling a painful emotion, like sadness or anxiety, focusing on this experience might be difficult. However, research shows that people who are more mindful of their experiences, who connect with their feelings and tasks, even if they are unpleasant, are generally significantly happier than people who try to distract themselves or focus on something more pleasant. Acceptance and Commitment Therapy Acceptance and commitment therapy (ACT) is a type of therapy that uses similar skills to those that the Jedi teach. The primary idea behind ACT is that mental disorders stem from psychological inflexibility, such as thinking only in absolute terms (as the Sith do)—“If you’re not with me, then you’re my enemy.” To help people who struggle with psychological inflexibility, ACT focuses on the following six skills to increase psychological flexibility:
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This crossed my dash again and I still find it fascinating, as well as it’s my answer to the question of, “Why didn’t the Jedi get Anakin some therapy??” Because their teachings are, in some important ways, analogous to therapy and the whole point, one that’s been threaded through so much of George Lucas’ commentary on Anakin’s fall, is about how he didn’t want to accept it or let go of his fears. Therapy only works if you actually want to apply it to your life, if you want to accept it. “The fact that everything must change and that things come and go through his life and that he can’t hold onto things, which is a basic Jedi philosophy that he isn’t willing to accept emotionally [….]” –George Lucas, Attack of the Clones commentary
Four Elements Meditation
The Earth is beneath me. Roots grow down from my body, thin and thready at first, and reach downward. They snake through my floor, through the foundation of my house, find the Earth, and grow into it. As they grow deeper the roots grow thicker, gnarled, like those of an ancient tree. My roots touch the Earth and through them I feel its solidity, its persistence. I feel a thing of unimaginable vastness, that existed a billion years before me and will exist a billion years after me. In the Earth I touch permanence.
There is Water beside me, flowing in wild rivers and lakes. Veins extend from my body, the vessels of my fingers and toes growing beyond the skin and forking outwards. My veins find the Water and dive into it. My blood pours into the Water and Water pours into me. In the Water I feel something that constantly changes form but never loses its self; frozen, steaming, falling, Water remains Water. You can break an ice cube, but let it melt and freeze again, and you’ll never know it was broken. In the Water I touch resilience.
The Air is above me. Tiny feathers grow out of my skin, reaching upwards, fluttering in the little currents eddying above my body. In communication with the Air I feel how easily it flows from place to place; the Air that touches me has been everywhere in the world, and will be everywhere again. The movement of a single molecule of Air defies borders, cannot be traced, cannot be predicted. In the Air I touch freedom.
The Fire is within me. Every cell of my body is a tiny furnace, constantly burning. There is nothing I need to grow outwards to feel Fire; the Fire is me. Glucose burns, and I live. Every movement, every breath, every thought draws its strength from Fire. A trillion tiny flames dance within me, growing together, and my existence is a single glorious flame in the night. In the Fire I touch power.
Rey Appreciation Week ♡ Rey of Jakku ♡ Day 6: War and Peace
Women of the Jedi (The Clone Wars ver.) Shaak Ti, Rig Nema, Aayla Secura, Luminara Unduli, Barriss Offee, Ahsoka Tano, Adi Gallia, Jocasta Nu
if you follow the paintbrush with your eyes while not moving your head, it forces you to use emdr which is a therapeutic technique to calm anxiety/panic. watching fish swim causes the same effect.
I HAVE BEEN WAITING SINCE FOREVER FOR THIS TO BE ON MY DASHBOARD AGAIN
Reblogging for all my followers with anxiety or stress :) it helps me too