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(Val)entino - He/They/Any

[catboyspells]

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♥ Val(entino) ♥ mid-20s ♥ any pronouns ♥

my actual reblogging activity is pretty sporadic, but I do check asks/messages daily! usually when I login it's just to chat, I am Rarely looking at my dash tbh

that said, I do use a queue! I don't use a queue tag because I don't have that kind of energy, but if my reblog pattern seems strange or I just Like a post then it's probably in the queue (except for vents ofc, that would be weird)

considering changing my hermit behavior and actually doing tumblr things like reblogging my interests instead of misc posts, posting my art to this blog, etc., but We'll See <3

please lmk if you need smth tagged, sometimes I forget but I do try!

[evilvillain123456789]

step one: replace entire personality with open, festering wound

step two: contort absolutely all stimuli in my environment to relate to the my wound in some manner, ideally one which justifies random acts of unbridled aggression and vengeance

step three: marry a girl with generational wealth

[depsidase]

[j-swin79]

I would come into the shop an hour before my start time to vacuum, clean up, etc. every day at my old job and the one time I asked to leave 30 minutes early to pick up my kid I was asked if I was going to come all the way back to lock up afterwards. I suddenly realized no matter how much extra you do it’s never appreciated.

The next day I came in at my official start time and left at my official quitting time and it stayed that way until I quit a month later.

Don’t let them take advantage of you.

[eixd-deactivated20150710]

The rest of the space is going to be pretty pissed when they see this. 

[thesassycat]

did you google how to take a screen shot

[segamascott]

[lokh1]

‘how would other people describe you’ why would i know this

[cottagecub]

[wizardarchetypes]

found some pages crediting this photo to David Silverman. I couldn’t find the exact photo, but here are the same bears (mama and baby) from another angle <3

[duckprintspress]

Pick up your ticket for Pride!

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[polyamandhellaglam]

Polyamory is safe for work. Polyamory is safe for kids. Polyamory is safe for day time tv. Polyamory isn’t more sexual than any other relationship and it can be just as romantic, sweet, and healthy.

[jaci-serigala]

insisting that polyamory is exclusively or primarily sexual in nature is just an extension of the idea that gay people are not suitable for kids

[robotblues]

the brothers Area

[friend-crow]

[birds-in-posts]

Kelp gull (Larus dominicanus)

[cruel-hiraeth]

if you build “community” around hating other people, just know that the second you step out of line—regardless of your moral uprightness or the hypocrisy on their part—you’re the next person they’re going to tear to pieces.

[thedeafprophet]

I think "People are always allowed to critique media, even indie media, for things that are lacking, ill thought out, or straight up bigoted" and "You should have reasonable expectations for indie creators capabilities, and really need to manage what you say to actual human beings" are two thought processes that really need to coexist

[thedeafprophet]

stealin your tags for a sec here but this is an extremely apt comparison.

because we have people who act like someone making any critique of a piece of media on a tumblr blog is equivalent to harrasment

and then we got the complete opposite of people thinking they can say straight up threats to people directly to their twitter/bluesky accounts

and so we end up in this space of a conversation talking about two different subsets of things that happen, that are not at all equivalent. when, where, and how is so important to keep in mind

[frodo-of-the-nine-fingers]

you can just feel the self-congratulatory glee of whoever named this paint this color, like they truly thought they were so funny and i think you're so funny paint color naming man good job paint man

[the-real-seebs]

never use this color on a wall you're going to be living with for a while, it looks okay at first but holy shit man

[boomcomplains]

Okay, but don't leave this in the tags, man.

[technikki]

new personality test dropped

[depsidase]

[phrear2]

sad feeling to try to mutualbait when the mutual you wanted to bait already finished their tumblr shift for the day

[eptck]

you have to be kinder to people with memory issues.

you have to be kinder to people who are slow processors.

you have to be kinder to people who don't understand your jokes.

you have to be kinder to people who forget important dates.

you have to be kinder to people with cognitive decline.

you have to be kinder to people who were always this way, too.

you have to be kind. you have to be kind.