beauty is in the eye when you hold her

38 y/o rad leaning febfem. if im frightened if im high/it's my weakness pls forgive it

[rabiesofficial]

[rabiesofficial]

[bookpdf]

not being productive or relaxing but a secret third thing

[underwaterfraulein]

[kittyit]

i believe that like anything else liking good (for you) and bad (for you) media can be a wholesome balanced experience. i see people who spend 100% of their time with very digestible, simplistic, all pleasure no work media (including fanfiction) building entire social movements around not feeling ashamed and trying to bully anyone who criticizes their habits and to me it's just like. you won't feel defensive if you know in your heart that you have a balanced media diet. for example, i love garbage adult animation. i love south park, family guy, rick and morty. i have venture brothers, superjail, metalocalypse, home movies and tom goes to the mayor on dvd. i do not think this is good (for me) media. it's my treat. it's the cookie sundae of media as food. i don't feel guilty about loving it or concerned in any way because i know in other areas of my life i intellectually challenge myself and i don't tie my self worth to the music or tv or movies that i like. i am consistently able to be critical of what i'm watching and think about it in a larger context. liking slop tv/books/movies isn't bad in and of itself, it's the entire context of what place it holds in your life. and if it's enough of your life that criticisms of the industry or subculture (now intertwined) that produce the particular slop that makes you smile make you unlistening, angry and scared, that is too much of your life

[catfinancier]

im feeling really upset and idk, bamboozled by my property management. the guys who delivered my couch broke a light in the outside hall. I was honest with them and told the property management about it. they insisted I pay it first and have the furniture company reimburse me. apparently this is ridiculous and I should not have paid for the repair. now the store manager is trying to help me, but they don't normally do things this way and would typically require two quotes. the work is already done, so idk if I can get my money back. the woman at the property management I spoke with thanked me for being honest. lol!!! well guess what im gonna do if something similar happens in the future :)

[boupin]

i love when mutuals post every thought they have because i do wanna know

[catfinancier]

the stupid delivery guys who brought my couch busted a light in the outside hallway. it cost over $300 to fix because they had to wire in a whole new light, so im fucking BROKE and trying to get the store to pay for it but they're giving me the runaround and im pissed about it

[chongoblog]

I had an idea last night for a character in a comic/graphic novel who for no reason has obnoxiously huge speech bubbles to the point of everyone else noticing and getting visibly annoyed/worried whenever they’re about to speak. The panel has to expand just to read what they’re saying.

[chongoblog]

artistic rendition

[eebie]

I just ate one

[eebie]

You can lie when you name things

[a-silly-poll-side-blog-yay]

would you still be alive without modern medicine? looking back at your life, would you survive without any to the moment where you are now?

yes

no

barely

yes but it would affect me for the rest of my life

results

Voting ended onJun 2

I'd have my knee fucked up forever 🫪 alive but yeahhhhh

[bushpropaganda]

found this revolutionary paper that analyzes every single case of transgender violence across 25 years in Britain, using data from Trans Day of Remembrance. it is the first study that has ever counted trans perpetrators, and the researchers found that trans people were more often perpetrators of violence than victims of it in Britain.

this paper is very comprehensive and has a ton of sources if you wanna do further research on this topic. i recommend reading it and forming your own conclusion.

[catfinancier]

i linked this article on twitter to someone with a trans flag in their name... LOL

On Hurting Trans Women

How do you measure pain?

[catfinancier]

fred keeps scratching my couch 😑

[swaglet-moved-deactivated202603]

realest shit ever said

[kittyit]

Eris has been living in another person's hoarded, unsafe, and remote house because of very limited options for quite some time. For years she's had no hot running water (seriously, imagine no hot showers or baths), no free access to a kitchen, food insecurity, compromised privacy, and a whole set of frightening, erratic, and unpleasant housemates. Despite this, she's gotten and stayed sober, is working on a degree, and hasn't given up.

Eris is ready for a new start and is willing to make the brave decision to leave and transfer schools to pursue this new opportunity we're creating together. No one should have to live the way she's been living with very few options other than homelessness/living in a shelter. The new place is in a walkable area that has excellent human services, job opportunities, a local college, HOT WATER, food, and most of all friends who care about her.

This fundraiser (goal of 1k) will cover her flight and transport to the airport (which should be 300-500 dollars), the first few months of housing/bills contribution while she gets on her feet, making sure her phone stays on, and medication costs. any more raised over goal will be used by her to rebuild her life (wardrobe, furnishings, many other quality of life improvements) and regain a sense of normalcy.

Eris has done such a good job with such a horrible hand dealt to her. Together, we can change her luck. Thank you so much for reading & supporting the individual women that make up our women's community. Women together are not women alone.

gofundme

[kittyit]

all transportation is arranged, countdown has begun! further donations will help with prepaying housing contributions ($250 a month) & all the other costs that come with moving & rebuilding your life

thank you everybody 🌈🌱🫂💞

[kittyit]

thank you so much to everyone who helped eris get out! due to a change in circumstances in her home, she left early and is now staying someplace safe before her flight to her new home.

because of this change of plans, there have been additional lodging and food costs, and also additional luggage costs for flying. because of this, eris' funds are low, and we talked about it and decided to raise the goal.

funds will be used for:

prepaying monthly housing contributions to give eris time to get on her feet and find a job. the monthly cost is $250, so donations can really buy her a lot of time!

covering some groceries while her benefits are established

buying a (cheap, secondhand) AC unit so her space is temperature controlled

getting her a new ID

thank you for changing her life :)

1243/2500

[kittyit]

Eris has been living in another person's hoarded, unsafe, and remote house because of very limited options for quite some time. For years she's had no hot running water (seriously, imagine no hot showers or baths), no free access to a kitchen, food insecurity, compromised privacy, and a whole set of frightening, erratic, and unpleasant housemates. Despite this, she's gotten and stayed sober, is working on a degree, and hasn't given up.

Eris is ready for a new start and is willing to make the brave decision to leave and transfer schools to pursue this new opportunity we're creating together. No one should have to live the way she's been living with very few options other than homelessness/living in a shelter. The new place is in a walkable area that has excellent human services, job opportunities, a local college, HOT WATER, food, and most of all friends who care about her.

This fundraiser (goal of 1k) will cover her flight and transport to the airport (which should be 300-500 dollars), the first few months of housing/bills contribution while she gets on her feet, making sure her phone stays on, and medication costs. any more raised over goal will be used by her to rebuild her life (wardrobe, furnishings, many other quality of life improvements) and regain a sense of normalcy.

Eris has done such a good job with such a horrible hand dealt to her. Together, we can change her luck. Thank you so much for reading & supporting the individual women that make up our women's community. Women together are not women alone.

gofundme

[kittyit]

all transportation is arranged, countdown has begun! further donations will help with prepaying housing contributions ($250 a month) & all the other costs that come with moving & rebuilding your life

thank you everybody 🌈🌱🫂💞

[kittyit]

thank you so much to everyone who helped eris get out! due to a change in circumstances in her home, she left early and is now staying someplace safe before her flight to her new home.

because of this change of plans, there have been additional lodging and food costs, and also additional luggage costs for flying. because of this, eris' funds are low, and we talked about it and decided to raise the goal.

funds will be used for:

prepaying monthly housing contributions to give eris time to get on her feet and find a job. the monthly cost is $250, so donations can really buy her a lot of time!

covering some groceries while her benefits are established

buying a (cheap, secondhand) AC unit so her space is temperature controlled

getting her a new ID

thank you for changing her life :)

1243/2500

[catfinancier]

this is Fred's first day all alone so now im worrying about him 😔

[the-wanton-house-wife]

You’re welcome 🧄