Kiss Computers. They Know.

it/they/fae/pup // 23 human years // nonhuman // disabled // lover of technology, plushies and humans once in awhile. // only follow if you're 18+ (this is still a sfw account)

[cathodefvkr]

Intro:

Call me Unclean

23 years old

Nonhuman/Therian Identities: Canines, ILOVEYOU Virus, Divine Machinery, Aliens, ETC.

Gender/Sexual Identities: [Flags In Order: Agender, Pupgender, T4T, Plus Others Not Shown]

Not So Fun Facts:

- PF-DID haver [I keep my struggles of this off the Internet for personal reasons]

- Autoimmune Disorder/Chronic Pain haver [Possible RA/connective tissue disease. Still going through treatment/diagnosis stages]

- Cane User [May also be getting a standing up rollator in the near future]

- Memory Loss [Mix of causes]

- DPDR haver [I still enjoy Dreamcore/Weirdcore]

[murderousangels]

† CLEMENTINE . . .

A presentation term for those who present neutrally or in a gender-non conforming way, and attribute such presentation to a cluster b disorder. This could be a result of mood swings, a skewed self perception, or anything else that the user may see fit.

[cathodefvkr]

I hope I get this office job so I can kiss all the computers and printers ... Shmoochin' on a puter ....mmfghh...

[koritzu]

[droideka-exe]

NB 👏 Does 👏 Not 👏 Mean 👏 Woman 👏 Lite

[naruhate]

I feel so bad for Jose :’((( that line “women who identify as non-binary” is disrespect to the concept of non-binary in of itself… just say women only if you’re not welcoming non binary people…. And it’s doubtful whether they’d even accept trans women or not in these spaces….

[cathodefvkr]

My cane that I temporarily decorated with stuff from my room (fabric belt, wallet chains, craft chain, kandi beads, bandana, keychain, and a few little things to hold it all together). I'm gonna eventually spray paint it and decorate it again but this will do for now!

[cathodefvkr]

Outfits from the past week and today. Currently in a PHP program for ED recovery but I still dress up!

[braaainwaaash]

[cathodefvkr]

I'm like if a dog was an angel who was a computer who came from space who has the inner workings of a machine but mixed with flesh and rot. Dead but alive but divine but mortal but inanimate but existing but nothing at all. Hound-headed mechanical angel who came from another world. A soft puppy who's also a violent wolf. A fearful fawn who's also an angry buck. A naïve bunny who's also a vigilant hare.

Anyways, gender is complicated and happy pride month.

[cathodefvkr]

Used my cane in public for the first time today and I was so nervous for someone to comment on it but no one did

[disabilityaidpositivity]

Not entirely positivity thing just a quick reminder

If you can, don't forget to change out your crutch / cane tips ! Worn tips increase risk of slipping and can throw off your balance ♥️

Actual positivity submission, I've become comfortable using my crutches now and my mom doesn't make comments on them anymore! She even makes sure I can fit them in the car and that I'll be able to traverse wherever we're going, which she used to not do

Yes! Very important reminder! Please, everybody make sure your cane/crutch tips aren't wearing through. They're pretty easy and cheap to replace; it's definitely worth it.

And yay! So glad to hear you're getting more confident and that your Mom is relaxing about your crutches, too!

Thank you for sharing 😁✌️

[murderousangels]

† DEAD DOG. . .

A presentation term for those who are outwardly seen as constantly “dead to the world.”

This is often shown through comments such as, but not limited to, “You always sound so sad,” “You never engage,” and, “You always look so done with everything.”

While not necessary, this behavior often comes from being beaten “like a dog.” Whether it be metaphorical or more literal, the user most likely has a past of constantly being shut down from things through force.

[chr0nically-river]

MOBILITY AID TIPS!

This post is for people who are getting a mobility aid/have one but are struggling with using it because of fear and/or internalized ableism.

These are things that have helped me personally feel more confident using my aid.

(credentials: I've been physically disabled for roughly 5 years, and a cane user for 4 [consistently for 3])

★ Decorate your mobility aids/find one that matches your style.

- I find having a cane that I find pretty rather than one that is plain and medical makes me more excited to use it than if it didn't reflect my interests

★ Remind yourself that you know your body/needs better than anyone else

-It's extremely easy to worry about what other people think about your aid. Whether it's strangers or people who you personally know. Especially if those people directly make comments on your aid. Do your best to remind yourself (and them, if you're able to/want to do so) that you know your needs better than they do. You got this aid for a reason, trust your judgment(/doctor's judgement if they were the ones who recommended an aid.)

★Simplify it for yourself

-Sometimes telling myself "I use this metal stick to help me walk" makes it feel less scary

★ Do it scared

-There's a real chance you'll never be "ready" to use your aid. So do it before you're ready. The confidence can come later. I was terrified of using my cane at first, but now I rarely notice stares. (And if you're never confident/always scared. That's ok too)

★ Come up with what to say when/if people ask about it

-Sometimes it's overwhelming when people ask questions about your aid. So I like thinking of what I'll say if someone asks. This can be, disclosing your disability, disclosing the symptoms you use it for, simply saying your disabled, making up a funny story, or simply saying you don't to answer that.

This is all I can think of right now. Feel free to add any more suggestions in the comments/reblog with more suggestions 💕

[daftpatience]

this is what i wanted to make! feel free 2 use this for whatever i love you

[eptck]

you have to be kinder to people with memory issues.

you have to be kinder to people who are slow processors.

you have to be kinder to people who don't understand your jokes.

you have to be kinder to people who forget important dates.

you have to be kinder to people with cognitive decline.

you have to be kinder to people who were always this way, too.

you have to be kind. you have to be kind.

[kyotoprotocols]