HEY SO YOU'RE MANIFESTING AN SP??
good, dandy, clean. can u keep em?
kanye manifested kim, ariana manifested pete, jason momoa manifested lisa bonet so on and so forth
Why weren't they able to KEEP it? Why did they all break up?
Cause they prolly manifested the person and they thought they won.
Everyone tells you how to manifest the person but no one tells you how to sustain the relationship. And this is why girls, we can't manifest our way out of healing and self work. Remember, when it's a relationship there's two people and when there's two people, there's triggers and when there's triggers, there's work. There needs to be understanding and empathy and care.
AND ABSOLUTE DISCOURAGEMENT OF EGO.
So hey maybe it's nice for you to think about dating that guy. But here's a thought, right now he's yours, he's right there in front of you, maybe he had a moment of vulnerability or ego, maybe there was an argument (and no, no no don't tell me you'll manifest your way out of it, nope don't do that)
Would you be able to deal with that?
Maybe he'll have some insecurities and some raw aspects of him that you never accounted for. What about that?
You're not just manifesting some arm candy, and even if you don't believe this person has free will in your reality, certainly they have some aspect of humanity to them. Their own flaws and their own thoughts and their own hurt. Will you be willing to deal with that if you were to confront those aspects of them?
Yes they chose you, yes they love you, yes you are their everything. But still, sometimes disagreements happen, personalities differ, sometimes there's disillusionment. Love isn't a very easy thing to hold.
Can you hold that? Is your SP just a pretty face in your reality? Cause it might be nice to affirm oh he's just arm candy and I'm the star.
But then the question really comes down to, is your SP a trophy you want to hold or is this a person you want to hold....in all their ugliest glory?
Are you manifesting them to win something, to feel chosen, to feel like 'hey i finally got the guy'? Or is it coming from a place where you genuinely want to love and care for this person?