the moon is transfeminine

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Hiiiiii, it’s been so long! I apologize if you’ve been waiting for some new posts for awhile. I took a break from tumblr for a long time and recently I decided to say hi again :) I won’t promise that I’ll be super active, but I’ll try you give you guys some new pics every now and then. Love you all and I hope you’re staying healthy!!

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Moon (Oct. 30, 2019)

[trans-girl-nausicaa]

i zeriously don’t give a shit if you’re lesbian and say that you’re penis-repulsed or that you never want to have penetrative sex like obviously these are very very personal things and you have every right to dictate where your personal limits lie with regards to intimacy and sex.

like for REAL there are trans women who are penis-repulsed, who don’t want their own penis touched sexually at all (due to dysphoria or otherwise), who don’t want to have sex at all, who don’t want to have penetrative sex (receiving or giving), And of course there are also trans women who DO want all of these things… (And there are trans women with a penis who are unable to penetrate or maintain an erection due to HRT or orchiectomy or otherwise, And there are trans women With A Fully Functioning Vagina That Is Physically Indistinguishable From An Average Cis Woman’s Vagina, but i digress…)

but the PROBLEM lies in the fact that people view trans women as a monolith! The problem lies in the fact that people assume that trans women are all just the same as the stereotype that you have built up in your minds! The stereotype of trans women as: a deceptive predatory sexually voracious straight man who will do anything to have sex with cis lesbians!

It’s not a problem for you to have your personal boundaries regarding intimacy and sex! What is a problem is when you have a malicious ideology against trans women and place your personal boundaries into this rubric. There is nothing forcing you to do that. There is nothing forcing you to apply malicious misinformation and stereotypes to trans women. There is nothing forcing you to call transgender women male, or men, or trannies, or transmale, or male-to-trans, or transwomen, (as a distinct and separate category from “Real” cis women!!) it is cruel and bigoted and transmisogynist for you to do these things.

However I will never concede the fact that stereotypes influence how you perceive people! And as a corollary to this fact, I can certainly say that there is transmisogyny among cis people. There IS a major phenomenon of straight men, lesbians, and bi/pan people, of any gender, viewing trans women as disgusting and ugly and undateable and To Be Avoided DUE TO STEREOTYPES AGAINST TRANS WOMEN.

This is not simply an issue that has regards to dating, obviously, it is something that informs all social interactions that other people have with trans women.

And, before you twefs jump in with “not being dated isn’t oppression!” I am going to pre-empt you and state that this is a similar issue to how straight women are homophobic towards bisexual men and avoid them and refrain from socializing with them or dating them, this is a similar issue to how white women and men are racist towards black men and avoid them and refrain from socializing with them or dating them. Not equating these issues, just pointing out that social avoidance IS a part of interpersonal oppression against marginalized groups.

My position is that stereotypes and social norms inform behavior towards trans women and you have to take responsibility for how your bigoted rhetoric impacts the people it’s leveled against.

Bi and straight radfems are allllllways talking about how disgusting trans women are and it generally seems that they don’t even have any trans women as friends let alone date them, and I can’t help but beg the question: You don’t actually truly view us as men, do you? In fact, to you, we must be something different than men because you treat us terribly different than you treat men. You treat us much worse than you treat men, which is a major failure of your supposedly self-identified man-hating agenda. Get good, frankly.

Another pre-emptive statement before someone makes an ugly and unnecessary comment: I’m engaged and have been monogamous for 7 years so this is literally not a weird ideological quest for romantic contact for me, regardless of how so-called radical feminists might twist my words.

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girlflux + princess aesthetic and the color pink moodboard for Anon - Helper Alex

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“mogai is why transphobes hate us!” do you think most transphobes know about mogai genders? do you think they have any idea what a tucute or a transmed is? do you think they care about dysphoria or pronouns discourse? no, they hate trans people because they’re transphobic, next.

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oh, and your “cis transmed allies”? they’re no different, they just found a way to be openly transphobic in a socially acceptable way.

[andrew-minayrd-deactivated20220]

I don’t think I’ll ever be as real as you. No one questions you or looks at you like they do me.

[thegaylists]

Trans Music

some cool songs with explicitly trans themes (and with a few exceptions all by trans artists!)

for trans ladies

boy in a dress by namoli brennet

delicate, petite & other things ill never be by against me!

family by she/her/hers

for today i am a boy-antony & the johnsons

g.l.o.s.s by g.l.o.s.s

gender is boring by she/her/hers

genderless by jonesin and the hurt

girl its your time by vivek shraya

i am her by shea diamond

i could use a hug by girls rituals

identity by mina caputo

invertible penis by polythene pam

lined lips and spiked bats by g.l.o.s.s

love is not love by too attached

masculine artifice by g.l.o.s.s

middle age transsexual theme song by polythene pam

outcast stomp by g.l.o.s.s

part time woman by vivek shraya 

salt by bad suns

tall girl posse by polythene pam

targets of men targets of men-g.l.o.s.s

thoughts and prayers by black dresses

touch and go by john grant

trans is love by marissa kay

transgender dysphoria blues-against me!

transworld by girls rituals

transylvania by kim petras

true trans soul rebel by against me!

for trans men

binary by spook school

burn masculinity by spook school

changes by jake edwards

daughter by ryan cassata

daughterson by coyote grace

dysphoria by saint wellesley

fagette by athens boys choir

ftm at the dmv by schmekel

gay shame by schmekel

ghost boy by coyote grace

guy named joe by coyote grace

hold my yod by schmekel

im your man by lucas silveira

man enough by katastrophe

pink & blue by jake edwards

maybe she’s shomer negiyah by schmekel

new men with old man names-schmekel

second puberty by jake edwards

tell me a story by skylar kergil

the binding of isaac by schmekel

the trans slam by ryan cassata

the village by wrabel

you can’t tell me by jake edwards

you’re not the only bear ive fisted-schmekel

for nonbinary folks

am i a girl? by poppy

aquafina by cj run

body was made by ezra furman

gender bronoun by human kitten

gender fluid by elbe

gender queer by lip shit queers

genderqueer love song by schmekel

girl or boy by dani shay

just me (gender binary blues)-jinkx monsoon

precious by jay boogie 

sex:male;gender:whatever-human kitten

they/them by atlas

they/them/theirs by worriers

for gay nb/trans people

aquafina by cj run

fagette by athens boys choir

flirting with her by sir babygirl

gay shame by schmekel

hold my yod by schmekel

homocoming king by athens boys choir

i lost my innocence by ezra furman

return to sender by cj run

spaghetti by cj run

straight boy by shamir 

tangerine by cj run

the metrosexual threw off my gaydar-athens boys choir

you’re not the only bear ive fisted-schmekel

[sapphosapphics]

also: happy women’s history month to every trans woman you’re constantly erased from history and pushed out of women’s spaces but you belong there and you have always been important parts of history. let’s not forget trans women this year.

[celestial-transfem]

Happy women's day 💞💞

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Heavens

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Protect black trans girls!

[1-800kanye]

u know whats wild. everyone on here like 20 and when i first joined everyone was like 14 15. u ask anybody n they been here for years. nobody new on here. staff locked the doors n were all Stuck Inside

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Tag your current age and how old you were when you joined Tumblr

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