Mean Feminist Blog

[chad-bian]

Small about-

I’m 25 and I use he/she pronouns

I’m a tme nonbinary lesbian

This blog is explicitly pro transfem. TERFs and “gender critical” bullshit will always be blocked

While this was originally created as a discourse blog I’m mostly using it now for feminist posts and posts that critique harmful rhetoric

I am a whole ass leatherdyke now 👍

[sparklingbog]

You will never abolish lesbophobia by insisting it can include attraction to men. A prevalent element of lesbophobia is the insistence that we are secretly attracted to men, scared away from them, or broken in some manner. Being bisexual is equally as gay, complex, and amazing as being lesbian, often overlapping, but it's simply different for a reason. You don't need to buy into homophobia.

[pitbolshevik]

trying to find a way to phrase this in a way that doesn't make me sound like an ass but i think some of the things yall claim are trans culture are actually just things you and your friends like that you've decided are universal for some reason

[pitbolshevik]

i need everyone to know that this post was inspired by seeing a transmasc claim that making fun of bad ukulele covers is transandrophobia because it's transmasc culture

[furryprovocateur]

no but for real so many white trans people make japanese culture and aesthetic their whole identity while making very little effort to actually learn about japan. like it's about anime/manga and the occasional tentacle porn art piece to them.

[furryprovocateur]

like it's very obviously fetishism for the concept of japan and japanese culture and simultaneously seeing anime/manga as liie, subversive art forms to center your identity around instead of commercial products. like imagine if someone was really into western animation like avatar, ben 10, etc. and only consumed that. wait they already exist and they're annoying too nvm.

[darkspaceboytoy]

Like not for nothing but yeah, there should be consequences for sexually assaulting someone. We don’t have to believe in punitive carceral systems to say “committing a violent act against another person will have social repercussions for you”. Am I insane here?

[chad-bian]

Idk how much I want to post about the isff situation but her posts from today are just so upsetting. This exact rhetoric is why I never told anyone what my ex did to me. Throughout our whole relationship she’d mention how easily trans women can be accused of rape by people afab. So when the sex WAS coerced I didn’t say fucking anything because I didn’t want to ruin her life. There’s nothing I can do now though.

[anglaised]

like i don’t speak in That crowd often but im glad the people in that crowd consistently go mask off about what they are actually about like thankyouuuu for admitting u dgaf about trans girls or protecting them and ur only actual goal is protecting abusers and forming networks of people to celebrate predation …..cuz everytime me or anyone else said it before we were constantly met with “ur reading her wrong ur putting words in xyz bloggers mouth” no….them ppl are predators and predator enablers…thats what this has been from the start, that pro pedo essay she endorsed shoulda woke yall up but it didn’t, i truly wonder how That crowd is gonna spin “its ok for a trans woman to rape other trans women and if u dont like her ur a bigot” as a woke position…….genuinely disgusting ppl using transfeminism as a trojan horse to not only garner victims afraid of disagreeing bc they dont want to be labeled a bigot and to form networks (cults really) of dangerous ppl to head pat echo chamber each other into oblivion…..ridiculous

[plum-soup]

How is your takeaway from this "oh no! They are banning asexuality!" They are banning being LGBTQIA+. They are just using a modern woke version of the acronym to define who they persecute. De facto they will only go after asexual people that go to pride parades or start advocacy groups or something. They're not gonna arrest you for not filling your sex quota lol

[furryprovocateur]

tbh it's very difficult to take any opinion on callout culture on tumblr seriously if it fails to acknowledge how it arose out of necessity

[cyberpunkpavlichenko]

The very first callout post I saw on this site was of a cis man in Florida who had abused his position as a ~cool educated anarchist~ to rape several women.

The first callout of a transfemme I didn’t see until years later and it was directed at monetizeyourcat for financially abusing and pressuring young trans women into sex.

Callout posts did have a purpose - there were indeed many people using their online persona as a means to abuse people.

[trans-girl-nausicaa]

many self-identified left-leaning people seem to have recently adopted a strange attitude of “maybe we should only believe victims if it’s politically convenient” which is basically the same ideological conditions that allowed Cesar Chavez to escape accountability while he was alive. This is a dangerous mindset that lays the groundwork for future Monetizeyourcats and future Cesar Chavezes.

[pitbolshevik]

isn't teaboot a rent-a-cop or something

[pitbolshevik]

paul blart would like to weigh in on lgbt discourse

[elierlick]

You wouldn't know it from mainstream media, but cis lesbians are the most supportive group of trans people... even more than trans people ourselves!

Media doesn't present reality: it creates it. The moral panic over trans women in queer spaces is a contrived conflict invented to drive our community apart. But our movements are connected at their core, and we are stronger together.

[chad-bian]

Idk why I spent years on this blog trying to tell people the Japanese High School Experience is not what they want. It’s just so fetishized they’ll never see how awful it is when you’re actually part of the system.

[chad-bian]

The way many people are so blasé when talking about adhd and autism in public has gotten really difficult for me. I’m absolutely a person who has a special interest but recently a lot of people have called me out specifically asking or saying if something is my special interest. It just feels so pathologizing and dismissive when I’m talking about something I genuinely have passion for. These are not people I’ve disclosed my diagnosis to and by saying“oh is that your special interest?” They’re basically demanding I tell them I’m autistic. Please just try to have some consideration for the people around you when you’re talking about aspects of marginalized identities or, you know, aspects of their private medical information.

[chad-bian]

This pride month I’d love to see people advocating for and supporting their nonbinary friends more. It’s so often I see nonbinary people left out of trans discussions and spaces. In a time where it is very scary to be visibly trans please try to remember that there are those of us who will never be able to pass.

[chad-bian]

Imagine honestly going to bat for cishet rights rn what an insane move for several major bloggers

[calamity-corner]

"a woman who's willing to fuck men is actually more queer than a lesbian" actually i think you just hate women

[calamity-corner]

i'm not interested in making space for trans men in lesbianism. there's no reason they have to suddenly give up their lesbian friends, their "community", but Lesbians do not need to make a special little bioessentialist seat at the table for straight men. it does not ever need to happen. this shit pisses me off so bad

[calamity-corner]

yknow what post i hate? that post about how "sometimes a dyke will mistake a twink for another dyke and vice versa and they'll make out and it's not actually straight it's Extra Special Queer, even more Queer than usual!" no what you just described is at best a silly mistake. it's not More Queer for a lesbian to make out with twinks. it's not Extra Special 5D Gender Chess for a lesbian to kiss a man. why are you so obsessed with making sure every lesbian knows she should really kiss men? why is making straightness Queer the hill you want to die on? why do you hate lesbians so bad

[quantumshade]

also can’t get over that guy who said he WOULD just identify as a straight trans man but he doesn’t like straight women/thinks straight dating is “icky” so he identifies as a lesbian so he can date lesbians. how am i supposed to react to a guy saying that with his whole chest. what am i supposed to say to that