Hmmm... yes, I believe it is time to Appreciate Arospecs
- Aroallos, y’all are incredibly valid! No matter what any idiot says, you are in no way broken or predatory! You are whole and perfect and should be allowed to be in any sort of relationship you want, or none at all if you prefer that! Y’all are so incredible!!!
- Aroaces, y’all are also so valid! You don’t need sexual or romanic attraction to be perfectly happy in life! As an aroace, I love loving my friends, pets, family, and more! We aren’t broken and are amazing!
- Non-SAM aromantics, y’all are wonderfully valid! You don’t need to separate your experiences with the split attraction model. Your aro-ness on its own is valid and enough, no matter what anyone tells you, and I love you all <3 (no romo)
- Demiromanics, y’all are so so valid! Your identity is not a preference, and it isn’t a choice. You guys are perfect just the way you are, and you’re allowed to experience your attraction in your own unique and beautiful way!
- Cupioromanics, y’all are amazingly valid! It’s ok to want a romantic relationship even if you don’t feel romantic attraction! It doesn’t make you any less aromantic, it just makes you cooler! You are super cool, and, if you wish to, I hope you find an amazing partner!
- Lithromanics, y’all are superly valid! It’s totally valid to not want to experience your romantic attraction, and you guys are most definitely arospec! You’re not any less of an amazing person for not wanting to be in a relationship!Â
Greyromantics, y’all are extremely valid! There’s no rule on how you have to experience romantic attraction! However you experience it is beautiful and perfect. You are so amazing, and whether you are in a relationship, want to be in a relationship, or don’t want to be in a relationship, you are valid!
Frayromantics, y’all are so valid! I rarely see frayromantic representation, but if any of you are reading this, I want you to know that what you experience is perfectly valid and ok! It’s ok for your attraction to fade like that, it doesn’t make you any less amazing! In fact, it only makes you more amazing!
Arofluxes, as y’all probably guessed by now are… also so awesomely valid! It’s totally fine and cool that your attraction and place on the arospectrum fluctuate! Maybe it’s confusing at times, but you guys are so valid, and I support you 100%! No wait, 120%!!!
Apothiromantics, y’all are so cool and valid! It’s ok to be repulsed by romance! Society likes to act like romance is perfect and that everyone should want that, but that’s not true! Your feelings are so valid, and I want you to know that you are amazing and loved! No romo though!
Quoiromantics, y’all are valid as heck! It’s ok to be confused about what you feel, those things are complicated! You guys are perfect the way you are, and the attraction you experience is beautiful, just like you!
Arospikes, y’all are perfectly valid! It’s totally fine to have your attraction spike occasionally! Whether you love your occasional attraction, hate it, are indifferent to it, or feel differently, you are amazing and valid!
Arospecs who don’t use specific microlabels, don’t think I’ve forgotten about y’all! You guys are so valid it’s insane! You don’t need a more specific label, if you feel the word arospec describes you best, then that is amazing and wonderful!
If you are arospec and I did not include your identity on the post, I want you to know you are super duper valid as well! This post is already pretty long, but your experiences, no matter what they are, are super valid! Arospecs are amazing! If anyone has any questions on what any of the words or terms I used, I’m happy to explain! Now go forth and have great days arospecs!
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