Water Signs: Make The Choice
Water signs have a reputation for experiencing their emotions fully, being sensitive, creative, and intuitive. Signs in this element has a lot of good qualities, but share one absolutely horrible flaw.
They donāt take responsibility for their emotions.Ā
If something rubs them the wrong way, a water signās first reaction isĀ āwhy is this happening to me?ā If you say or do something that happens to hurt their feelings, theyāll think,Ā āwhy is this person doing this to me?ā
It doesnāt occur to them that no one is out to get them, and everyone is just trying to be themselves. Sometimes, people are accidentally blunt or inconsiderate. Even if someone tries to hurt you, that is a reflection of their own shortcomings. The best thing to do is ignore such people.
If you tell a water sign that they can choose how to feel about something, detach and observe negative emotions, and that they are the true source of their emotions, theyāll immediately go on the defensive.
āOh, so now youāre blaming me for feeling this way?ā
āIs everything my fault?āĀ
And other such statements, which completely miss the point and once again place them in the role of theĀ āvictim.ā
Unevolved water signs trap themselves in this cycle of negative emotions. They canāt differentiate betweenĀ āblameā (which is disenfranchises) and responsibility (which is empowering). They choose to play the victim.
Evolved water signs have the power to free others from negative emotions, with love, empathy, and their natural healing ability. Evolved water signs know they can choose how to perceive reality, and take responsibility not only for themselves, but those around them. They choose to be the savior.Ā
Remember, you have the power to choose how to feel. Other people have nothing to do with it. Take responsibility for your reactions.Ā
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