ʚBut It Sounds Like Falling In Loveɞ

♥︎ Bunnie ♥︎ ♡ 21 | She/Fleurself/Bunself ♡ ✡ Femme ✡︎

[cherrryblossombabe]

Hi there, I'm Bunnie

I'm a 21+ year old disabled Jewish intersex transfemme doll, and this is my lesbian trans blog. It chronicles my transition and also realization that I am, in fact, a dyke!

My wife, love of my life, my butch is @sub-butch-blues 💞

I'm currently on T to help with bottom growth, and eventually get bottom surgery (but I also hope to have breast implants too). 🌸 9/17/24

*＊✿❀ DNI ❀✿＊*

This should hopefully be obvious but do not interact if: minors, antisemitic, transphobic, TERF, anti-he/him lesbians, anti-male lesbians, transmeds, anti-MOGAI, anti-radqueer, anti-para, etcetera. I have the right to block whoever I want, this is my blog not yours.

[that1milesclone]

i want to remind our fellow femmes that our femininity is not defined by how straight people (especially men) define femininity.

you don't have to be skinny, or white, or clean shaven, or cis, or covered in frilly clothing from head to toe to be femme. you could go out in sweatpants and an oversized shirt 90% of the time with no makeup and still be the prettiest femme on the block.

i hope my femme queens, princesses, knights, and little creatures stop limiting themselves in their femmeness. you are GORGEOUS and POWERFUL so keep being a fucking DYKE that REJECTS GENDER ESSENTIALISM!!!!!!!!

[muldyke]

NOBLEBUTCH: a term for butches who follow the roman/romantic stereotype of chivalry, where a noble (knight) is fully dedicated, submissive to, and in love with their femme. this may feel knight-like in nature, but feeling that way is not needed to identify with this term.

NOBLEFEMME: a term for femmes who follow the roman/romantic stereotype of the object of chivalry, where a woman (often a princess or higher nobility) is fought for, worshipped, and put on a pedestal by their butch. this may feel princess-like in nature, but feeling that way is not needed to identify with this term.

[thingsfromthedirt]

[bambibonnieboo]

Love to butches who:

-are on T

-are subs

-are butch4butch

-aren't cis

-are on E

-are loud and confident

-are quiet and shy

-are easily embarrassed

-have trouble defending themselves

-don't use feminine terms

I love all of u butches!!!! Mwah mwah mwah!!!

[ilvjrb]

[sagaofthevalley]

Its butchtober and next month os butchvember and then butchcember and then butchuary and then febutchuary and then march and then butchpril and

[tropicalscream]

You have to love the fat tgirl who sucks at living, or who isn't pear shaped bombshell curves.

T4T all the way but does your praxis extend to the ones with the double chins? the thick necks? the flat asses/chests? the boxy fugure & flat waistline? the small dicks & the cellulite?

it Has to. it Must

otherwise your love/praxis/solidarity is non-existent & hypocrisy

[starlingsongs-deactivated201608]

When trans women are mocked and made into jokes in the media, I get very upset, and I am often told “Kay, you can’t go through life getting offended every time someone makes a joke.” And I sputter and object but they don’t hear me. So I want to be clear for once, about why the jokes make me angry.

I learned to hate myself for being transgender before I knew I was transgender. I laughed at the jokes in stand up comedy routines, and prime time sitcoms, and animated comedy shows, and in the movies, and in books, and in games, laughing at trans women for existing, about “men in dresses”, about people who “got their dicks chopped off”, and I learned to think that was worthy of ridicule.

And then a day came when I felt a pang of envy at what my female classmates were wearing and I repressed it, and felt guilty, and a day where I felt incomplete because I had no breasts and I repressed it and I felt disgusting And a day when I realized the only images of romance that made me feel anything showed two women together and I repressed it and I felt like a monster And a day when I realized I felt sick when I looked at myself in the mirror after every shower before work and couldn’t bear to look at my own face, and I hated myself. And then there came a day when I hated myself so much, and I thought I could never understand why, and so I just wanted it all to end. And it was just a miracle that I swerved my car back into my lane in time.

And all of it started with a joke that I heard on TV, and then kept hearing from all the voices from the ether, over and over and over, worming an idea into my mind before I was old enough to realize I was absorbing it, the idea that a man in a dress is funny, and that changing your body parts makes you a freak, and that women who have penises instead of vaginas are liars and hurt men. And they’re still making these jokes. And somewhere out there right now, just like all those years ago, there is a little girl in a t-shirt and cargo shorts with buzzed off hair watching the TV, hearing that joke and absorbing it without knowing it, who will someday have to pry herself apart to tear it out of her head, just like I did.

That is, if she doesn’t kill herself first.

[starlingsongs-deactivated201608]

I know this is a really heavy post but if you read it and you appreciated it, I’d appreciate it in return if you reblogged it. This is really important to me and I want people to read it and understand it. Thank you.

[angelsaxis]

I haven't seen this version anywhere so I made one!

[angelsaxis]

This flag is pissing off TERFs of course but i am seeing so much colorful JOY from trans lesbians and other lesbians in the notes like I've never seen a set of tags so happy before omg

[butchcockweilder-deactivated202]

everyone should reblog the bipoc transbian flag. It should be law.

[txttletale]

truly loathsome to accuse transfeminised people of "convincing ourselves" that the world is not safe for us and that our best bet is solidarity with each other. yea sure we just made that all up for fun. the organised international political machinery mobilizing against us is powered by faith--like tinkerbell!--& us silly hysterical harridans ought simply to stop imagining it so vividly

[txttletale]

might one perhaps consider that other things might have "convinced us", perhaps events in our own lives, lives in which almost every gal i know has faced has faced tremendous violence, socially or interpersonally? but no, we are known irrationals, & surely we are just jumping at our own campfire stories... just very cruel and thoughtless stuff innit

[brainstemz]

"gender i was assigned at birth" and "gender i was raised as" and "gender i want to be seen as" and "gender i am seen as" are all different things. sometimes none of them line up with eachother. some of them change multiple times throughout life.

[brainstemz]

This post has been reblogged so much, that perisex rebloggers have lost the point. This post is—very specifically—about the fact that intersex people can, and often are, assigned one gender at birth, raised as a different gender, and then forcibly treated as a different gender again after puberty. This post is about intersex experiences.

[lurkinginthecorner]

the problem with being an intersex nonbinary person is that you have experienced both uniquely transmasc and transfem things, but because you are neither you can join neither conversation without being told “you’re afab you can’t have experienced this!” or “you’ve not medically transitioned so this can’t happen to you!”

intersex trans people exist. intersex nonbinary people exist. regardless of what our “agab” is, or whether we’ve taken hormones or not, we have experiences that need to be included in your conversations. by gatekeeping these conversations you’re leaving vital voices out of the narrative.

[what-even-is-thiss]

“Well you wouldn’t be discriminated against if you just hid everything about who you are from everyone”

Hey. Hey. Listen. Come close. Closer. Yeah. Listen.

*blows an air horn in your ear*

[gaywitchybitch]

For any Black Trans/LGBT+ who needs some help!! ❤🧡💛💚💙💜🤎🖤

[sharkcloset]

THATS MY BESTIE!! Ery is amazing and i can 100% vouch for them/their services! They were a long time user on here before the fucking cops (tumblr admin) nuked their account in the Black blogger purge. Definitely reach out to Ery if you need help!!

[bumgall]

@wolfertinger666

[gayestcowboy]

it’s necessary to fight back against adult content bans obviously because it leads to queer bans, but also, you cannot forget that we must fight back against these bans because adults have the right to make and enjoy adult content. no credit card company has the right to censor what we look at. yes, this includes the “problematic kinks” and stuff you think is gross and bad. just as we deserve to be openly queer online, we deserve to enjoy adult content without fear of total censorship, and it’s absurd how few places there are to do that online nowadays

[wilderbas]

selkie studies for a warmdown