MY HEAD'S IN HEAVEN, MY SOLES ARE IN HELL

"you cry so i don't have to, you're like the nostalgia critic" —my boyfriend cris | they/he | white | 23 | queer and trans (ftm) | pfp by vsemily | background by moldable

[questionthewitness]

about

im cris, 23, white, queer and transmasc

im ur local weird media liker and audhd haver

i use they/he, misgendering will result in a block

i am currently taken by my boyfriend of three years, i'm not comfortable flirting with others

anyways. yeah

[lycanthropdyke]

incredible development in the outer wilds modding community

[camp-fag]

bruises are lingerie to the enlightened pervert

[setulose]

The one thing about gender is that frankly my ideal gender situation has very little to do with me and infinitely more to do with everyone else on the earth who cannot be fuuuuuuuuucking cool about anything ever

[mousidy]

they should make it easier to get bottom surgery

[mousidy]

special mention to how the BMI requirements are horrific and they need to go!

[mousidy]

I've been thinking a lot lately about how many trans women I've known who come to realize over time that they experience much more bottom dysphoria than they've consciously understood

I think this is partially a problem of trans women being fetishized, a trans woman's value being equated with her penis, but I think it's also partially a problem of availability. personally if something is difficult to attain then I have an internal reflex to unconsciously convince myself I don't want or need it. for this reason and many others it needs to be made easier

[mousidy]

personally it's fucking crazy going through life not even being able to be naked around trusted loved ones or fully have sex because the dysphoria is so bad. it's unacceptable that so many of us have to live like this. it's horrible that for many trans women it's almost impossible to get the care we need. it does not have to be like this

[androfembot]

I wound up going off in the replies, but actually I want to put this here too bc I've often heard the excuse that a higher BMI supposedly increases the risk of complications while healing from vaginoplasty.

Even if body weight directly, straightforwardly increased the risk of surgical complications, it wouldn't necessarily make weight loss an appropriate strategy for risk management. It assumes patients have direct control over their weight in the first place (not true) + disregards adverse health effects of weight loss. Your body doesn't know there isn't a ~real famine; your cardiovascular system is just as stressed by intentional starvation.

The overwhelming majority of weight loss is also temporary. Meaning that folks who lose weight for surgery, who NEED be eating and resting to recover, will often start gaining that weight back during recovery. A surgeon who gave a BMI limit in the first place will absolutely then view any complications as weight-related and the fault of the patient.

This is all without even accounting for problems that are a direct result of a surgeon's incompetence with fat patients. Docs spend less time talking with fat patients and are more likely to skip or skimp on physical examination, so they are less likely to catch problems early with a patient who's fat. That's not a health consequence of being fat, it's a consequence of "I've never even seen this surgery done on someone your size because I studied under someone with an even more restrictive BMI limit."

I absolutely do not judge anyone for doing what they have to do to get surgery, and it's worth noting anyway that it's bad, outdated, stigmatizing practice for your surgeon to demand weight loss. That's why more and more surgeons don't have BMI limits! It IS horrible and it DOES NOT have to be like this.

[ttrpgsmoved-deactivated20240903]

describing commission ideas is so embarrassing. yea this is my guy. and i want you to draw him. jesus just shoot me already

[ttrpgsmoved-deactivated20240903]

ppl reblogging this and adding "especially if it's canon x oc" well you won't fucking believe what prompted this post buddy

[kingscythe]

Insanely based tags by @/carlyraejepsans

[can-i-make-image-descriptions]

[Image ID: Tumblr tags reading: considering over half of my commissions to this day were oc x canon or even self insert x canon, you guys are literally holding me afloat in this economy, i was granted the holy mission of giving people a way to kiss sans undertale and by god i took up my sword and fought /End ID]

[dougwalkerofficial]

I Created This Blog in 2017 And I Forgot To Post This Picture For The Tenth Anniversary. I Didn't Remember.

[dougwalkerofficial]

All You Fucking People Do Is Disrespect Me

[awritersbro]

if you see a Jabberwocky in an American National Park i cannot stress this enough you HAVE to report them to the nearest Park ranger. I know, I know, they fill human hearts with terror and whimsy in equal measure, but they are an aggressively invasive species in the Americas. Jackalopes are at risk of becoming extinct because during shedding season they have no natural defences against jaws that bite and claws that catch.

You don't have to worry about them killing it, they're actually endangered in England due to Victorian Era overhunting, so the British government's provided the National Park service with Vorpal Tranquilizer Darts so they can safely transport them to their native British Countryside where they can feast on borogroves and jubjub birds to their hearts' content.

[edgar-allan-possum]

Jabberwocks are starting to really intrude on the territory of the Snallygaster and crowd them out. Please report when you see them and help preserve our American monsters!

[tlaquetzqui]

Biologists prefer the term “fearsome critters”, just FYI. They resemble monsters but only due to convergent evolution.

[omegaversereloaded]

Tumblr used to be so fucking funny before nsfw ban. I remember a dude said something crazy on a joke post of mine and i went to his blog and his first post was a video of him shitting into his underwear up close. We used to have it all

[anarqueeen]

Evil macklemore (mackleless) song about buying brand new shit you don't need called Gift Shop

[estrogenesis-vaporeongelion]

i spend your granddad's cash

i'm buying drop ship trash

[galaxywarp]

[liebelesbe]

attaching something to an email is so scary. what if i accidentally put hard-core porn in there. i don't think i have any downloaded but what if i do and i attached it to the email. what then.

[adorableanimus]

"its still racist even if you act like youre joking"- something a shockingly few amount of people understand

[cat-mermaid]

After learning his cult '90s RPG influenced Undertale, this Japanese developer finally got 'the courage' to make another RPG decades later t

Yoshiro Kimura's new game Stray Children is a spiritual successor to Moon: Remix RPG, but it has more than a little in common with Undertale

Moon Designer Credits Toby Fox With Motivating Western Release - Kotaku

If you’re enjoying Moon: Remix RPG Adventure’s newly released Switch port, you probably have Undertale creator Toby Fox to thank. In a recen

A Game Without Killing: The Story of Moon's 22-Year Journey to Leave Japan

There is no 'Undertale' without 'moon,' the so-called "anti-RPG" that took the many tropes of the JRPG and turned them on their head.

Putting all these interviews here to emphasize the importance of Moon Remix RPG Adventure's in inspiring Toby Fox, and how Undertale in turn inspired one of its devs, Yoshiro Kimura, to take a chance and make a game like Moon again

i just think thats beautiful to find out that a little known game you made when you were in your 20s inspired a kid (who was like probably fucking 7 years old when it came out) who grew up to make one of the most beloved games ever made

[piranes11]

how it feels to stop tossing and turning and get up to piss

[chilewithcarnage]

[docholligay]

I know there's a lot of particularly lady blorbo feelings in the realm of "she wouldn't like kids" as a response to the easy, sometimes lazy tie up of "blorbo has kids and is a great mother" but consider the other options of:

She likes kids! But doesn’t want kids, and so doesn't have them.

She doesn't like kids broadly, but she does like hers.

She's an awful fucking mother who never should have had kids who didn’t like or want them but had them anyway.

She desperately wanted to have children but it didn't work out.

She didn't have kids or particularly want them but she's a good stepmother.

So many options that vary in domesticity but aren't a black and white "loves/wants/has kids vs hates/doesn't want/doesn't have kids".

I know all of these women by the way! The feelings around this can be much more complex! This isn't even me arguing against your blorbo hating kids it's just 'noooooo don't buy into a false binary you're so sexy!"

[oysters-aint-for-me]

do me a favor and plz reblog with your five most recently used non-face, non-hand, non-heart emojis