Hello, i've just found your blog, I hope it gets more popular. Could I request how the SDC gang would be as parents?
Thank you, I really hope so too! Popularity would mean that people actually like my work and that is all a writer could ask ever ask for!
⢠3 words: pampering, pampering, pampering. He is going to pamper and spoil his child to infinity. Theyāll have all the new toys, clothes, bottles, food⦠Everything. He knows he can afford all the best and that is exactly what heāll do.
⢠Heād feel a bit weird at first, but would deal with being a parent pretty well. Itās not his first time, so heās got plenty of experience up his sleeve.
⢠One thing he wouldnāt be prepared for would be the long nights though. Holly was a pretty calm baby and would only wake up once, if at all, throughout the entire night, so hearing his second child scream at half past four in the morning would come as a great surprise to him and, honestly, even as a slight annoyance at times. He would be quite stressed and would thus have slight troubles putting them back to sleep, but would soon find it worth it when heād manage to put them into their bed, all tiny and absolutely adorable.
⢠His favorite period would probably be when theyāre a toddler, still small and innocent, but growing more mischievous by the minute. Heād play with them all day long, causing all sorts of trouble, until they both become so tired they just collapse and fall asleep someplace together.
⢠Heād hate dealing with them when theyāre a teenager though. He canāt stand the drama and mood-swings, and would probably end up making someone else deal with that instead of him. When he does have to deal with it, heād act very annoyed at first, but would quickly get caught up in all the drama and would start throwing in his own remarks here and there. Theyād badmouth his childās classmates and acquaintances alike for hours at a time, and heād soon start coming to his child to vent about his own problems. (Theyād continue with this habit for the rest of their lives)
⢠Heād be a pretty amazing dad, really. He might not act very serious at times when heās supposed to, but that will only work in his favor. His child will be able to relate to him more like that and it would definitely be the key to them becoming as close as they do.
⢠(Slightly angsty, just warning you)
⢠Honestly, Jotaro would be pretty bad at parenting.
⢠When his childās still a baby, heād be too afraid of hurting them to hold them long enough to just put them to sleep. He can be quite rough and is well aware of that, and would try to stay away from his child while theyāre still so young in fear of somehow bringing harm upon them.
⢠Heād only muster up some confidence to hold them properly when theyāre already old enough to support their own neck, and by that time theyād already feel much closer to their mother. (or a nanny, if the mother is gone. Jotaro would feel too insecure to raise a child alone and would definitely get one)
⢠Heād soon realize his child often cries while in his arms, doesnāt fall asleep with him as soon, or doesnāt eat as well, and would leave almost everything back to their other guardian. Heād feel like he doesnāt deserve to be in his childās life and like he would just do an awful job at being a parent, and would only grow more and more distant.
⢠His child would grow up thinking he doesnāt love them, and heād grow up thinking they donāt love him. Itād be a really bad relationship overall.
⢠He would have to receive an enormous push from someone close to him to try and fix their relationship. Itād be really shaky at first, but theyād both soon realize they have more in common than theyād like to admit.
⢠Theyād only grow closer from that point onward, eventually reaching the bond only a father and child can share. Theyād realize the bond is equally as strong even if achieved later in life, and they would be really grateful for that.
⢠Their relationship wouldnāt be a usual one, and definitely not a good one at first, but would grow into something great in time under the right circumstances.
⢠The best father ever.ā¢
⢠Heād be very gentle and cautious with his child, the most when theyāre a baby. Heād be able to spend hours just carefully holding them in his arms, telling them how much he loves them and how thankful he is to have them in his life. Heād have the softest look on his face, just looking at them, feeling the happiest heās ever been.
⢠Because of how alone he felt as a child, he didnāt really get the chance to live out his childhood the way he was supposed to. He would try to make up for that by doing as much as possible with his child as an equal.
⢠Theyād have lots of fun when his child is younger, playing all sorts of games and doing practically everything together. Theyād often be found walking together, eating ice cream (always with cherries on top for the both of them) or some other sort of sweet and planning out how theyāll spend the rest of the day. Theyād be each otherās closest friends and itād really be a sight to behold.
⢠Heād have a way of cheering up his child when theyāre feeling down, knowing exactly what they want, that no one can really understand. Heād see them moping around and would immediately run off somewhere without letting out a single word, only to return later with just the thing they needed. Then heād sit them down and ask them to tell him whatās wrong. Heād patiently listen to their problems and suggest ways to fix them or make them better. Those conversations would always end in his child thanking him with the biggest smile on their face and running off to follow their fatherās advice. Kakyoin would be watching them from where he sat in pride with an equally happy grin on his face.
⢠Heād have a lot of trouble dealing with the mood-swings that come with puberty, not knowing what his child needs for the first time in his life and feeling like he canāt do anything right by them. The bond they built up before would become truly crucial at this point. Itād be his turn to sulk now, and his childās to cheer him up. It will be like what they did when his child was younger, except it would be them to give him reassurance now. Just like he is able to comfort them, theyād never fail to convince him that heās the best father anyone could ever ask for.
⢠Theyād stay close for the entirety of their lives, removing every obstacle they come across and, most importantly, doing it together.
⢠Heād be his childās best friend throughout their entire life.
⢠He would be a very caring and protective father.
⢠When theyāre a baby, heād spend a lot of time cuddling and cooing at them. Heād take lots of joy in feeding them, bathing them and playing with them. Heād roll over in laughter every once in a while, not being able to resist the urge to do so at their cute antics. Theyāre just so adorable.
⢠Itās another thing entirely when it comes to burping them and changing diapers though. The first time his child pukes on him after burping would cause him not to willingly attempt to do so for a while. When he finally makes up with the fact that itās unavoidable, heāll start burping them again, but the distaste would be very obvious on his face. He will never get used to the diapers though.
⢠When theyāre older, heāll still love playing with them, but would also grow to love talking to them. Theyād be able to hold decent conversations at this point, and heād ask them about their day every day after they come home from school. The closeness theyād build up at this time would be the thing that gets him through the teenage years in one piece, really.
⢠Heād soon start teaching them how to fight, trusting theyāre old enough not to use the abilities they gain for bad. Heād only teach them self-defense at first, still a bit worried, but heād make it his task to eventually teach them everything he knows so they can hopefully even surpass him one day.
⢠When his childās a bit older, not much has changed. Theyāre still as close as ever, maybe even closer. They talk to each other every single day and do a lot of things together, a lot of Polnareffās interests and habits rubbing off on them.
⢠Heād be an amazing father, just a tad overprotective, especially if his child is a girl. He would be in constant worry that the same thing thatās happened to his sister will happen to her too, and would refuse to let her out of his sight for a single moment.
⢠Heād be much less protective of his son, but would definitely start teaching him how to fight at a really young age, just to make sure he can properly defend himself.
⢠The best father ever. No one can hold a candle to Avdol in terms of parenting. (except Kakyoin, those two would make absolutely amazing fathers)
⢠When his child is still a baby, his first instinct would be to shower them in affection. He would be a really loving father and there would rarely be a moment when heād let them out of his arms.
⢠Heād do everything he can for his child in order to spend as much time with them as possible. (and to help the mother, if sheās alive/with them) He would feed them, burp them, cuddle them, bathe them and change their diapers, no matter how much he dislikes that last part of the job. It comes with being a parent and has to be done, so he wonāt complain.
⢠Nothing would give him as much joy as putting them to sleep though. Even if it could sometimes be a task quite hard to carry out, and could last for hours at times, there is nothing quite like feeling your own child lay their head against your shoulder and fall asleep. Heād feel an overwhelming bond between them at that moment, relieved they trust him enough to fall asleep against him. He would truly feel like the love is equally strong on both sides at that moment, even though one is still too young to fully comprehend it. He might even shed a few tears of happiness the first few times this happens.
⢠Heād be a really calm and seemingly strict father, but under that mature mask hides just a little bit of mischief. He will scold his child for doing something bad or pulling a prank on someone in public, but would occasionally give them tips on how to improve and not get caught the next time afterwards.
⢠He would be the wise father. (if such a thing exists, but even if it doesnāt, it does now) His child would really look up to him and think of him as the wisest person in the world. Theyād be in awe of how he can easily answer every single question they throw his way. Theyād feel incredibly lucky to have a smart father who is never too harsh with them, and even when he is, heād make sure they fully understand why heās being hard on them.
⢠He would bond with his child as they grow and get more and more mature, because the more grown-up they get, the better they can understand him. They would become truly inseparable later in life, and his child would often come to him in need of advice, or just someone to talk to. Avdol would be more than happy to oblige both.
⢠In conclusion, thereād be a really strong bond between him and his child thatād last an entire lifetime.
⢠I think Joseph would only have one (legitimate) child other than Holly, and I have a feeling it would be a girl as well.
⢠I can also see Jotaro having only one more child along with Jolyne, but being equally distant towards both. Heād make sure their name starts with a āJoā too because itās become pretty much a family tradition to do that at this point.
⢠I can see Kakyoin wanting a lot of children, but at the same time being very afraid heāll leave at least one feeling unloved or like he doesnāt spend enough time with them, so he would just tell himself itās a bad idea. His S/O would have to be quite convincing to get him to try for more, but when his next child is born, heād feel like heās in heaven. Heād find that he can balance both really well and would ask his S/O if theyād be willing to try for one more not too long after their second child is here.
⢠I think heād have 2-4 children, his first child would be a boy and at least one would be a daughter.
⢠I can honestly see him having twins, but if not twins then an older daughter and a younger son. Heād definitely end up naming his daughter Sherry, after his sister, or at least making it her middle name. or heād name her Marylou because of Michel Polnareffās song
⢠I can see him wanting a lot of children, just like Kakyoin, but without the fear of them feeling left out by him. Heās full of love and not afraid to share it. Heād just be slightly worried about finances, but thatās nothing to worry about when you have a big and happy family. Heād be alright with having 6 children at most, but is really more than alright with it if his S/O wants much less lol
I wanted to write how theyād be with a child who also has a stand ability too, but I realized itād be just too long if I did that⦠šš
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