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🇧🇷 non dualism user

[divatakesontruth]

https://www.tumblr.com/divatakesontruth/824227453828497408/httpswwwtumblrcomdivatakesontruth82406706649

Alr lets see, i want to get into a certain university for example. why? Because i think it will affect my future. Why do i care about that? Because i want to be successful. why? Because i want money or status. why? Because money or status give comfort/more freedom. Why do i want that? Because i want to feel good, or not worry, etc

Whats after that??? Its all just for the self , i still dont see why not

I’ll help you out

I want to get into a certain university, why? Because I think it’ll help my future, why do you think that? Because obviously that’s what will happen, are you a hundred percent certain that getting into a desired university will impact your future? Well no I can’t be sure about that but it will help even if a little, why does your ‘future’ need to be helped? Because it’s what matters the most, not the now? The now paves the way for a good future, where is this future, can you ever get to it? … no , I can only ever be in the now, so what exactly needs to be helped? Now or a future? Now because that’s the only thing that is, so whats wrong with now? Why does it need to be helped? My life isn’t great, I need to get to a good university… in a later now, that’s still the future… how do you know your life isn’t great? Cause I can literally see it and experience it, yeah but where is the conclusion coming from, where is the story coming from? Me … I guess, where are you coming from too? Me , my experiences and my desires are stories being told but I don’t know where and how they come to be, isn’t that enough to question it? To stop taking it as law? I guess so, besides the stories I can’t find anything else so I’m not sure how to verify the stories, you can’t. So again, why do you need to go to university? I can’t find an actual reason besides the stories, good.

The point is not to discourage you from doing anything, it is to expose to you that Reality isn’t what it seems to be, utter liberation is gotten from the transcendence of concepts, my job is to get you to this point whatever ‘you do’ upon realization is not the topic.

[ko-existing]

i forgot i had an IG and used to post things there so here are a few of them

[divatakesontruth]

Limitations,Lack and Desire

When the topic of fulfillment comes up, I wonder to myself, what is the need for that? What is there to fulfill? If all is but a story/idea and it is, then what confirms “I do not have ____ so I want ____” as correct? Sure it may arise in thought and seeming experience but regardless, what I ‘know’ is not what is. We limit ourselves to what we think we know as though it holds absolute truth but everything I know is incredibly untrue and nothing but a tale, so the ‘actions’ taken to satisfy a hunger of what I ‘know’ I do not have are all nonsense.

____ is nothing, so it can be anything yet it never changes from what IT is. With such a discovery I see that there is TRULY no lack,no desire,no limitations and the taste of freedom is the only flavor on my tongue.

There is nothing going on,nothing to achieve, nothing to keep in mind. This is infinity staring me in the face and I am one with it.

There was never a gap from limitlessness.

[motherofhermes]

[divatakesontruth]

Literally give up, the more you strive the less you see. You are always safe and perfect, nothing at all is wrong or in need of fixing. Rest your weary head, it’s been too long I know you must be tired of living on survival, but luckily for you, you do not have to. You just have to relax and see that you have always been cushioned by the soft waves of Self no matter what.

If you are still tolerant of the game, then by all means keep playing, but if you are tired, this is your pit stop and I have come to let you know that you are okay, you have always been okay and you will always be.

[motherofhermes]

[divatakesontruth]

Heyy

So ultimately, desires, they’re something you ‘desire’ ‘want’ etc which is why part of the concept of non dualism is you don’t have ‘desires’ as it’s all you. There’s nothing to desire if you are it. The i am.

How do you stop desiring though? By just placing your awareness on already having what you ideally want? Because if you already have it what is there to want? Or are it. Like the person with this house or blonde hair idk, anything.

Anddd i know nd isn’t about getting things but i’m not sure how else to phrase it i’m sorry 😭😭because, ultimately anyone living and breathing wants something, even you. I saw your post about caramel skin and how you want it to be smoother or something i’m pretty sure and then you received money from your uncle for your birthday. These are desires right?

But the only reason you now have these things is because your awareness is now on them. They’re in your awareness instead of the absence of said thing.

i want to learn more abt non dualism but i think i’m still struggling with the ‘it’s not about getting things part’ because if nobody’s life changed for the better after learning about nd then what would be the point if it. So i think for you to have a whole blog about it, it must be something you’re passionate about and want to teach and help others in. It must have changed your life for the better as well. Another things is well i like desiring things and i like getting them even more and i think everyone can agree??

So from my understanding of non dualism, it’s not a method that you can use if it’s just the fact of your existence. Everything is your perception and awareness. You created this reality through your awareness, meaning it can change at any moment by placing awareness elsewhere, as nothing can exist without your awareness being placed on it. You are pure consciousness living life as human. everything comes from your imagination and there’s no separation, only what you decide to perceive as ‘more real’. This house you’re living in is only your home as it came from your awareness first. you decided that and know it to be ‘true’. There’s no good or bad as that is also your perception and you’re the one placing labels on those things.

i know it sounds a little jumbled sorry 😭

also i have another question and sighhh its an loa based one

if loa isn’t real then why does it work for others?

i try and answer this myself and im just assuming it’s because in their reality they know it to work. they know that by deciding having said has to be true.

First of all let’s revise your current understanding of what ND and AV is , it is not a person having an awareness in a world with other people who have their own personal awarenesses, that seems to be the foundational problem right now.

there is ONLY awareness in the sense that everything else INCLUDING the “I Am” are (for the sake of this ask I’ll use the word imaginary even though it’s not very accurate) imaginary concepts , they are not real in the way that they are not final/dire. You mentioned I have desires; yes , that is part of the human experience however the glaring fact is that I KNOW that I am not a person having desires (in the most literal sense) but rather I am the awareness of desire , or desire with a story ; such as being a young girl wanting caramel skin.

this recognition is a very powerful one you see because what happens when something is realized to be false? It becomes impossible to take the experience of it into account, I never condemn desires , I have a million desires in one day ranging from as little as wanting a snack or wanting to explore Rome

The point of non duality is simply, as I’d like to say it, removing delusion and that delusion is that ‘your’ seeming experience of being a mortal being in a physical world is truth. If you can recognize this as truth fully then you would reach a place where the appearance of it is not something to bother with

yes, everything only becomes apparently real through the observation of awareness and that is what You are, so if what you appear to be doesn’t serve you then you do not have to bother with it, it is not a death sentence , it is merely just an idea in the vastness of THAT (self/awareness)

if you were in a dark room and you saw a snake and you got scared but soon saw the snake was actually a rope , does the fact that the rope still looks like a snake have any actual effect? If I know myself to be That , does the appearance of desire,worry,fear (whatever) have any effect ?? If it is known that they are unreal

it’s an illusion, it appears , it is experienced , it is felt but it is not real.

nothing changed but perspective.

Because there was nothing here to be changed in the first place, there is just awareness

whatever you choose to do now that you know the rope isn’t a snake is up to you, if you wish to take it out because it still bothers you or simply because you want to , or if you choose to leave it there because really it will not harm you Is your choice to make. There are no rules

whatever rule that exists only does if you want it to

asking me why loa works is equivalent to asking me why eating food leads to digestion, it’s illusion, unreal, a story

just like the existence of a person with desires and a need to fulfill them. the purpose of my blog is only to unveil the truth, to open your eyes and heal our mass delusion

what you choose to do WITH opened eyes is entirely up to you

have fun or don’t , it’s all unreal anyway

but the important thing is that YOU KNOW

That you know life is nothing but an idea in the mind of God.

[divatakesontruth]

Awareness As Only Reality

The only real thing in all of existence is not matter, not you and I , not physics, not space , not earth , not anything perceivable or able to be experienced. The only thing that is with a hundred percent undeniable absolute truth is Awareness

you might be thinking what the hell is Awareness? It is exactly what it sounds like the presence of being aware. Everyone is constantly aware of what they are experiencing, it is so obvious that we overlook it, the fact we are aware has been truth since we became conscious on this planet

everything before you is observed by You ; thoughts,feelings,perceptions, sensations etc all things that shape the “world”, it is impossible for anything to exist outside of awareness, if you do not know of it then it doesn’t exist , the instant anything is brought into awareness, it is given a sort of “reality “, think of it like shining a torchlight on a dark area, take away the torch you cannot see what is there, bring back light you can see it , without the light the thing has no observable existence.

Even prior to you, the character and story of your life are all stories within Awareness so this can only mean what you essentially are, fundamentally and ONLY are is Absolute Awareness

this awareness is the only ‘thing’ in existence because it is the constant amidst the appearance or disappearance of experience, it is the only thing in existence because due to Awareness there is the appearance of experience, if I tell you to think of something that doesn’t exist for example a flying crocodile, before the thought of it did such a thing exist? No it was just blank but now I’ve brought it to your awareness/mind it now IS, it now exists

You could be wondering if it exists why doesn’t it feel real? Well guess what? That is just another observed idea that also now exists

you might say oh okay diva but why do some things remain in existence while others (such as the ludicrous thought of a flying crocodile) seem to disappear when the mind is not on it , simple it is not the thing that remains in existence but rather there is Awareness of the idea “this ___ remains constantly here” and even the effect of that is observed by awareness

one isn’t more true than the other, it is just ideas popping in and out of the observable field

let me get crazy here, the laws of physics are about as real and false as the flying crocodile, the effects of the laws are only observed ,take that away (that’s saying there is no awareness of the effects of the laws then they don’t exist, how could they if they are not within the Knowing

this is why nothing should be taken seriously, it’s all just a big story that Self is Aware of

[divatakesontruth]

https://www.tumblr.com/divatakesontruth/808191921686249473/hi-i-have-a-question-i-have-been-involved-in?source=share

There are no other realities, universes, worlds; you are not limited by what you can imagine. Even if you cannot imagine it, everything is possible.

Please be careful to deeply understand my words before forming an opinion… using the same logic as you have used where you said there are no other realities etcetera then we must regard every determinable seeming thing with the same unreality, that is we should also always say there is no me , you , internet, earth and so on . Of course it is known these things do not have solid substantial existence, however as everything freely appears so also do these seeming phenomena appear as well.

So yes my friend, definitely so ,other realities may seemingly appear—of course! But my followers, readers and those conversant with non duality know that it goes without saying , these things do not have an independent existence

Second of all, when I said “if you can imagine it, it is possible” I am not talking of the mere definition of imagination as in visualization, I am referring to imagination in relation to non duality which is anything that is made known due to the presence of it being within the field of Awareness.

Awareness/Self is the foundation of seeming reality, everything which is and possible is made so because there is awareness of it which therefore means that whatever you can possibly know of (other apparent realities or worlds whatever) exist in the same unreal yet present way everything else within Awareness exists and that is everything.

[lotusmi]

"Ego doesn’t need to be killed because it was never really alive. You don’t have to destroy your false self because it’s not real, which is really the whole point.

It’s just a character we play, and what needs to be killed is that part of us that identifies with the character. Once that’s done—really done, and it can take years—then you can wear the costume and play the character as it suits you to do so, now in the character but not of the character. "Jed McKenna

[4dbarbie-deactivated20230709]

Behave as if you were fully convinced you are not the body and the confidence will come.

Either you are body conscious and a slave of circumstances, or you are the universal consciousness itself — and in full control of every event.

Freedom from self-identification with a set of memories and habits, the state of wonder at the infinite reaches and riches of being, its inexhaustible creativity and total transcendence, the absolute fearlessness born from the realization of the illusoriness and transiency of every mode of consciousness — flow from a deep and inexhaustible source. To know the source as source and appearance as appearance, and oneself as the source only is self-realization.

The acceptance of the unreal as real is your obstacle; only by seeing the false as false and abandoning it will reality be brought into being.

All you need is to understand that you are the source of reality, that you give reality instead of getting it, that you need no support and no confirmation. Things are as they are, because you accept them as they are. Stop accepting them and they will dissolve.

You have never been, nor shall ever be a person. Refuse to consider yourself as one.

Fearlessness comes by itself, when you see that there is nothing to be afraid of. Reality is you alone. You gave it (the person/the world) reality through either your attention or identification.

Start scorching thoughts of limitation by ignoring them. An unrecognized visitor will soon leave. Your past self is nothing more than a thought.

Ask yourself: Who was born first, you or the world? As long as you give first place to the world, you are bound by it. Once you realize, beyond all trace of doubt that the world is in you and not you in the world, you are out of it.

Question the limits, go beyond, set yourself tasks apparently impossible — this is the way.

[4dbarbie-deactivated20230709]

You are Dreaming

You are fighting shadows. You are wasting your time.

You are nothing, have nothing, can do nothing. Yet all comes out of you — the source is you; the root, the origin is you.

Everything you see and experience is only a mental condition, a dream-like state, easy to dispel by questioning its reality. It's you imagining it as real and fighting it with all your might that keeps it alive.

Both sleep and waking are imagined. In the waking state the world emerges because you are conscious of there being one. We are only dreaming. We dream that we are awake, we dream that we are asleep. Treat everything as such and be liberated. As long as you give reality to dreams, you are their slave. By imagining that you are born as so-and-so, you become a slave to the so-and-so. In this dream you imagine yourself to be a process, to have past and future, to have history. In fact, we have no history, we are not a process, we do not develop, nor decay; see all as a dream and stay out of it.

While it lasts, the dream has temporary being. It is your own desire to hold on to it that creates the problem. Let go. Stop imagining that the dream is yours.

"When you see your dream as dream, you wake up. But in your dream itself I am not interested. Enough for me to know that you must wake up. You need not bring your dream to a definite conclusion, or make it noble, or happy, or beautiful; all you need is to realise that you are dreaming. Stop imagining, stop believing. See the contradictions, the incongruities, the falsehood and the sorrow of the human state, the need to go beyond. Within the immensity of space floats a tiny atom of consciousness and in it the entire universe is contained." - Nisargadatta Maharaj

All depends on you. It is by your consent that the world exists. Withdraw your belief in its reality and it will dissolve like a dream.

As you cannot separate the dream from yourself, so you cannot have an outer world independent of yourself. You are independent, not the world. Don’t be afraid of a world you yourself have created. Cease from looking for happiness and reality in a dream and you will wake up.

[4dbarbie-deactivated20230709]

[tetsur0-1]

How i be reading smut wth a straight face in bed

[fraeyyassblr]

: : S / O E X T R A S.

꒰ 𐙚 ꒱ 𝓽hey’re fluent in all 5 love languages when it comes to you, but especially yours.

꒰ 𐙚 ꒱ 𝓽heir eyes soften every time they look at you, like the world stops spinning for a moment.

꒰ 𐙚 ꒱ 𝔂ou often catch them staring at you like you’re a work of art they’ve never seen before.

꒰ 𐙚 ꒱ 𝔀hen you speak, they don’t just listen. They study you; your lips, your hands, the sparkle in your eyes.

꒰ 𐙚 ꒱ 𝓮ven in a room full of people, they only seem to see you. You’re their focal point, always.

꒰ 𐙚 ꒱ 𝓽hey’re incredibly emotionally intelligent and grounded. They never gaslight, dismiss, or ignore your feelings.

꒰ 𐙚 ꒱ 𝓲f someone disrespects you, their voice drops a full octave and they’ll check that person on sight.

꒰ 𐙚 ꒱ 𝔀hen someone mentions you, their face lights up. your name tastes like sweetness on their tongue.

꒰ 𐙚 ꒱ 𝔀hen you’re overwhelmed, they know how to make you feel safe without making you feel weak. they see the strength in your softness.

꒰ 𐙚 ꒱ 𝓽hey physically can’t go a day without touching you in some way; hand-holding, forehead kisses, protective arms wrapped around your waist from behind. (In a way where you're comfortable of course.)

꒰ 𐙚 ꒱ 𝔂ou always feel emotionally held with them, like the world can fall apart, but not them. not with you.

꒰ 𐙚 ꒱ 𝔂ou can talk for hours about everything and nothing. It never gets boring with them.

꒰ 𐙚 ꒱ 𝔂our emotions are sacred to them. they never try to “fix” you, just hold space and hold you.

[eatuniverse]

things im always gonna script

୭ ⋆˚ ꩜｡ healthy relationship with ur s/o

✷ you match each other's freak

✷ when they laugh at a joke, && you're in a group, they automatically turn to look at you

✷ good hygiene

✷ emotional intelligence

✷ communication skills

✷ they can find da clit

✷ you share core values

✷ you balance each other out

✷ they match you in the areas where you lack ; (ex. if you dont have a great sense of direction, they know where to go– && far deeper than that, but thats the first thing i thought of for some reason)

✷ they think you're prettyyy :)

✷ a healthy attachment style

✷ you place importance on similar goals (ex. you're both career motivated) ; or at least respect one another's personal interest

✷ people expect you to show up places together ; you're a package deal ("wait, where's y/n?")

✷ mutual trust

✷ mutual sense of respect

✷ you take each other seriously

✷ same sense of humor

✷ sharing hobbies && interests (reading, sports, a certain tv show, etc)

✷ understanding each other's boundaries

✷ you admire each other as people and want to become more like one another ; it's inevitable that in a relationship, you'll take qualities from them, && so they better be good ones

✷ if you accidentally hurt their feelings, they let you know && you can apologize

✷ no codependency (unless u a freak, && in that case, make sure it's mutually desired)

[lotuzies]

[haveyouseenmae]

Me stopping my self from saying anything when a non-shifter says "I wish that character/world was real"