No longer pleasing people this 2023 and fking setting my boundaries.
My boundaries:
- no physical touch: if you touch me without my consent, i won't hesitate to move away from you because you're invading my personal space (even if you're just putting your arm over my shoulders)
- no last minute invites: if you invite me the last minute, i will simply say "no"
- forcing me to go somewhere with you: if i don't want to go, stop forcing me, i already said 'no'
- no jokes about my physical appearance: i dare you to say "you should go on a diet" or "you're too thin" i will floor you
Remember, setting boundaries will sometimes make people dislike you but they don't matter anyway. Respect yourself, filter out people who disrespect you, and you'll live life peacefully.