hi! this is kinda weird but im just realizing i like this stuffing thing just a little, even tho im SUPER sex/kink/fetish repulsed :s so im feeling rlly weird. i saw you are sex repulsed too (or maybe it was something old??) how do you manage to call this a kink and not weird urself out??
I go through waves of shame for it, but ultimately I feel like, for me, it’s a part of me. Something outside of my control and harmless. The only shame and disgust is self-imposed which means that part is something I can control! Being sex-repulsed doesn’t exclude you from having a libido (sadly aaa) so it’s something that you just have to accept as a natural part of yourself even if it can set off that repulsion.
I’ve found separating the particular kink you’re into from sexual spaces as much as you can really helps in that respect too. I avoid anything that gets nsfw with it for that reason because it kind of,,, sets off my repulsion reaction (which is my throat closing up and sometimes a full panic attack), but also there are plenty of ace and sex-repulsed people in the community and learning I’m not alone has probably been the MOST helpful part! Kinks are pretty natural, almost everyone has one, and it doesn’t invalidate what you know about yourself, it just adds another layer to understand and explore (including what are your hard limitations/things you don’t like)! \o/
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