Your favorite fic author is probably over 30.
(Yes, this is a response to a post going around how maybe itâs okay if adults are in fandom as long as they understand that fandom is for ickle kiddie-boos and walk on eggshells. Um, no. Back in my day, we kicked yâall off our yahoogroups so we could post adult material, and rigorously didnât post adult material if the list allowed you.)
So, back in the day, several of the authors of an LJ community that posted NSFW fic met up and had a group photo, which they posted. Apparently, some of the 18 year olds said, âEwwwwwww! Theyâre all, like, oooooollllld!âÂ
Thereâs actually a good reason for that.Â
Writing is part being good with words and part being good at turning your life experiences into something that other people want to read. Remember my previous rant about how you canât assume a mystery writer is a homicidal maniac, and you canât assume that a reader who likes a character has the same personal flaws as that character? Thereâs a reason people assume these things about authors.Â
See, if youâve never fallen in love, you might think romance is when the other person brings you a dozen roses and a box of chocolates. And thatâs fine! Thatâs romantic, too! But if you have fallen in love, you might remember the time that you woke up and went to go to class and found a bunch of wildflowers and a plastic ring from a bubblegum machine tucked under your windshield wiper. And you might remember the half touched, half about to burst out laughing expression on your sweetieâs face when you showed up to class wearing that tacky plastic ring. You might think that love is thinking the other person is the best-looking person in the world, or that love is wanting to spend your life with someone else. Thatâs love, too! Well, at least the second one is (the first is probably just infatuation). But if youâve been in love before youâll know that love is also hurting all over because your sweetieâs abusive parent died and theyâre unexpectedly destroyed over it. The latter is worth a million flowery declarations.Â
Now, Iâm not saying that no one under 30 can write. Some young people have had very full lives. And some young people have a natural talent for extrapolating from their own feelings. Virgins can write convincingly about sex, even. But the more life experience you have, the easier it is to extrapolate, and the easier it is to come up with the specific details that make things feel real and true. Â
If you want to become a better writer, the best things you can do are write a lot, share what you write, and live a full life. And remember, before you say adults should be banished from fandom: your favorite author is probably over 30.Â
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