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Ellie | 21 | slut for cute shit | tiktok @bebecarat

[ursulaklegun-deactivated2024122]

To this day it blows my mind that when Naoko Takeuchi and Yoshihiro Togashi started dating, Togashi looked haggard to the point where he told an assistant that police regularly stopped him on the street for looking “suspicious”. And Ferrari-driving, couture-wearing Naoko still gave him a chance. The man was swimming in a pile of trash

looking like THIS

And he still married THIS WOMAN

His personality must be great

[ursulaklegun-deactivated2024122]

@nightstitcher that picture never fails to kill me. Like...the scene in hxh greed island arc with the trash...that was real...

[thecrow1994]

Her taste is exquisite to say the least

[jeunnie]

Momo & Nayeon in The Feels BTS

[writhe]

i have a hill to die on real quick

[writhe]

phrases like “you don’t owe anyone anything” and “relationships aren’t transactional” have the power to be used in ways that are very backwards and harmful

for example, no you don’t owe anyone anything in that if some creep is trying to get with you, you can block him without feeling bad. you don’t owe kindness to people who are transphobic or racist or bigoted.

but, you can’t use this as an excuse to fuck over people who have helped you. “you don’t owe anyone anything” isn’t an excuse to allow yourself to forget compassion and basic empathy, it isn’t an excuse for you to be an asshole just because you find it easier to be one

relationships aren’t transactional in that if your partner does something nice for you, you are indebted to them. they do these things because they love you; it is their choice to express love through these gestures

but they are transactional in that you both actively need to be putting time and care into the relationship. ignoring the dynamic of one person caring too much (and putting in excessive (emotional an literal) work and labor) while the other does nothing isn’t healthy. one person can’t solely take and the other person can’t solely give- that’s dangerous, and you can’t put the bandaid of “this isn’t transactional” over a relationship that is draining you in all capacities

i’m tired of seeing these things being misconstrued and used as an excuse to hurt people, while framing it as a way of taking care of yourself

[seraappreciationday-deactivated]

there’s so much of the “grizzled old man + young lively daughter” trope (last of us, horizon zero dawn, logan) and i think we as a society should move on. instead, i propose a new dynamic: extremely corny and optimistic father figure and his edgy rebellious teen daughter

[cryptiidcas]

[honeyboo-boochild]

[boybarrett-deactivated20211126]

love how quickly my brain goes from “no more wasting money on doordash” to “but i’m a special boy who deserves calzones”

[5hyuks]

[noahnomore]

[aquleo-blog]

when you type oaky instead of okay

[saythefisherman]

“you can’t make a lawful good character interesting and enjoyable”:

[thebloggerbloggerfun]

[itchycoil]

could you be any more annoying.. lol

Easily

[computersloth-blog]

I’m blowing u a kiss it should arrive in 3-5 business days

[twentythousandvolts]

i dont think you get it. 1980 was twenty years ago. 1990 was 10 years ago. 2000 was 10 years ago. 2016 was two years ago. 2018 was also two years ago. 2017 was last year. 2014 was four years ago. do you understand me now?????

[thcgummy-deactivated20211107]

[homunculus-argument]

ADHD and autism spectrum is funny in a way that isn't funny. Like hello, welcome to society, your brain is hardwired to function the most efficiently within certain parameters you'll almost never end up in. You're either so good at switching subjects that other people don't enjoy talking with you, or you're so good at sticking to the same subject that other people don't enjoy talking with you. Fuck you and good luck.

[chismosavirus]

oh butter FUCKS. this is so groovy!!

[aturnoftheearth]

the idea of john cena sitting down to watch supernatural, getting to the gunnar lawless episode and being like “oh dean is bi for sure” and then getting to later seasons and saying “oh he’s bi and in love with his best friend” and then getting to 15x18 and feeling so strongly about it that he tweets about love confessions said too late and then follows a bunch of destiel accounts is so. so funny.

[shining-dawn]

Tumblr sure is a good way to learn about what's happening on twitter.