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Raka|21|Black|SheDepressed on main. Transphobes not welcome

[youaremyeverlovin]

[laurbyboom]

I’m going to be honest, this is probably the funniest thing a straight person has ever said

[psyducked]

a true martyr

[fuckyeahkatnep]

Sir that’s my emotional support homophobic slur

[nevaehtyler]

[gaydux]

What stigma?

[thickness-protection-program]

Stigma foot in their asses

[von-felden]

[mouchefska]

[xmagnet-o]

White people find any excuse to be “oppressed”.

[destroyah]

me when i open some kinnies unreadable 20 page eyestrain carrd

[paristonofcolor-deactivated2020]

[aaliyahbreaux]

Black Trans Woman Survival Fund

hey everyome i know i dont really post much on here anymore but i just recently ended things with an emotionally abusive ex & i could really use some financial assistance as i’ll be recovering from my first gender confirmation surgery next saturday and im really stressing out about how im gonna afford rent without him while being off work for sn entire month. if anyone has it in there heart (and bank account) to send a couple bucks my way i would greatly appreciate it but i understand its tough times for all of us.

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[aaliyahbreaux]

so far $436/$2,000

[tiktoksthataregood-ish]

[compassionlotion]

Help a black trans girl eat this week💜🌹

Hey y’all, I’m in need again. Asking for funds so I can go grocery shopping this week. If anybody could help even with a dollar I would really appreciate it so much. With everything going on in the world right now I 100% understand if you can’t or don’t want to donate but I humbly ask that you boost the fuck outta this so that someone who can help me will see this! Thank you and PLEASE be safe out here!💜

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[hungwy]

another internet thing kids wont experience is toolbar stacking:

[the-real-numbers-deactivated202]

This shit was barbaric even for 2001

[wretchedoftheearth]

white women don’t seem to get that they’re no different than white men when it comes to their whiteness. suffering at the hands of patriarchy and sexism does not negate your white privilege nor your white entitlement.

the peculiar thing about gender as a marginalization is that you still grow up in a household with white men, you generally marry white men, and you still derive benefits and protection from their relatively higher class position than people of color (which includes men of color, you know). and you’re still white, anyway.

so many white women like to talk about white men being The Worst but you’re quite often riding their coattails and trying to be them all while not giving a fuck about women of color

[wretchedoftheearth]

white women don’t seem to get that they’re no different than white men when it comes to their whiteness. suffering at the hands of patriarchy and sexism does not negate your white privilege nor your white entitlement.

the peculiar thing about gender as a marginalization is that you still grow up in a household with white men, you generally marry white men, and you still derive benefits and protection from their relatively higher class position than people of color (which includes men of color, you know). and you’re still white, anyway.

so many white women like to talk about white men being The Worst but you’re quite often riding their coattails and trying to be them all while not giving a fuck about women of color

[santiagonex]

Top 10 Feel-Good Gay Romance Movies with Happy Endings

[mrbenibo]

[microtitty]

[dresdenthemaenad]

Idk how long that game has been in development but trans people have been telling y’all and warning y’all about JK since she had her first transmisogynistic “senior moment” on twitter fuck her and you for signing on to work on a HP project. Fuck ya work, fuck ya pockets, fuck ya bottom line. Anyone who buys this game is my enemy and anyone.

[hundondestiny]

Folx is not supposed to be more “gender neutral” than saying folks. It’s meant to be a political statement in the sense that “x” has represented a lack of something or rejection of something esp. I’m American civil rights movements.

I started seeing it in radical groups for people of color and many of the people who used it were also queer/LGBT, neurodivergent, etc. and although everyone had a different way of relating to it, the common theme was a rejection of some status in some space / not fitting into the status quo of some space.

One of my Black friends related their use of it back to Malcom X using “x” to denote his rejection of his slave-descended surname and they felt it was a way to distinguish politically idenditifable “others” in certain spaces.

Like whether you think that’s necessary or not I don’t think it’s worth mocking to the extent that y’all do like if that’s how someone or some groups want to distinguish political otherness then??? It’s literally hurting no one.

[hundondestiny]

crazy how I said this in 2018 and the jokes never stopped nor got any more creative. get a new bit 💜

[hundondestiny]

Folx is not supposed to be more “gender neutral” than saying folks. It’s meant to be a political statement in the sense that “x” has represented a lack of something or rejection of something esp. I’m American civil rights movements.

I started seeing it in radical groups for people of color and many of the people who used it were also queer/LGBT, neurodivergent, etc. and although everyone had a different way of relating to it, the common theme was a rejection of some status in some space / not fitting into the status quo of some space.

One of my Black friends related their use of it back to Malcom X using “x” to denote his rejection of his slave-descended surname and they felt it was a way to distinguish politically idenditifable “others” in certain spaces.

Like whether you think that’s necessary or not I don’t think it’s worth mocking to the extent that y’all do like if that’s how someone or some groups want to distinguish political otherness then??? It’s literally hurting no one.

[hundondestiny]

crazy how I said this in 2018 and the jokes never stopped nor got any more creative. get a new bit 💜

[eridansheeran-moved-deactivated]

the whole “fiction doesn’t affect reality” argument is actually kinda racist…

[eridansheeran-moved-deactivated]

people talk about like how finding nemo and jaws are great examples but nobody ever talks about how fiction has shaped our perceptions of different racial and ethnic groups like do you think the media has no hand in why alot of ignorant white people think africa is a desertland and not a continent of different countries, full of rich and diverse cultures, beautiful buildings and riches? or why they think asia is only japan, korea and china? when asia is also india, bhutan, the Philippines, nepal, etc? do you think that media and fiction hasnt allowed whites to view black people as ignorant and lazy thru cartoons and minstrel shows? like if you really think what youre seeing on tv doesnt affect reality and how people think then like. you must be fuckin stupid.

[mrsgojosatoru]

there are several studies which prove this by the way. like how black children (and white girls) self esteem is negatively impacted by media.  

studies show our perception about asian americans, and their perceptions of themselves are impacted by media.

there are harmful psychological effects on native americans thanks to sports mascots. 

stereotypes of latino/latina/latines in media have - you guessed it - harmful effects - including political ones 

how about how inaccurate race and poverty images in the news effect our views on welfare?

positive images of disability effect disabled people positively, where as negative images effect them negatively 

the availability of GLB roles on TV positively impacts the gay community

and i honestly i could go on and on and on and on 

i know i know water is wet, all these studies to tell you what common sense could. but like … there is very real research out there that shows fiction has a very real harmful impact on minority communities. and that positive representation has a positive effect on these communities. 

so no. fiction is never just fiction. and frankly people who think fiction is just fiction can fuck off.  

[nutheadgee-deactivated20190314]

Wait this version is better.

[the-final-sif]

Alright, I need to have a chat with the teenagers that follow me, specifically regarding lying about your age and nsfw content. This isn’t directed at anyone, but I think it’s a convo that needs to be had in general.

I was a teenager once. I get it. Everyone lies about their age online. Maybe not to other people, but I’m sure every minor has clicked a ‘yeah, sure, I’m 18+” button at some point in their lives. I’m not here to shame you for that.

What I am here to say is it is vital that teenagers understand the difference between engaging in sexual content independently (ie, entering a fake birthday to access 18+ content), and lying about your age to engage in sexual activities with others online (joining discord servers/using nsfw channels intended for adults only/lying about your age to talk to nsfw content creators/commissioning nsfw art/etc).

Lying about your age to a website so you can look at porn is one thing. It’s an entirely independent experience, where the only consent that really matters is yours. Nobody has any power over you in this situation, and there’s about no chance of legal consequences.

However, lying about your age to other human beings is extremely different. If you’re engaging in nsfw roleplay with a friend about the same age as you, talking about sex with other teenagers, sharing nsfw fics among friends, that’s one thing. But do not lie about your age to engage in sexual activities/discussions. Not only is something that could have actual legal ramifications, and very serious ones depending on what’ going on, but it’s a violation of the other people’s consent. The moment other real people are involved, you need to be respectful of their boundaries & what is and isn’t appropriate for you to be engaging with. If they say no minors, I don’t care if you’re 17.5, you stay out until you are 18 years old.

Examples of situations where it is never okay to lie or mislead anyone about your age online include:

Joining/accessing nsfw channels or servers on discord.

Yes, I know it’s very easy to just click that little red button on discord that lets you access the channel you’re so curious about. It looks just like the one you see on adult websites that you click without thinking.

Don’t do it.

If channels are 18+ then you stay out of them. There are other real life human beings involved who did not give consent to have a minor in an adult orientated space.

Engaging with nsfw creators/content directly

ie, commissioning nsfw artwork, following or talking to nsfw creators who’ve asked for no interactions from minors/flagged their accounts as 18+ only, subscribing to nsfw creators on patron, nsfw roleplay, etc.

Joining/engaging with adult only communities, like Fetlife or cam sites.

Engaging in romantic and/or sexual online relationships

Any time you are talking with one or more other real human beings, particularly any adults, in a sexual context.

I know that adult websites have basically trained teenagers to just say they’re 18 and move on, but it is vital that teenagers understand that it is never okay to lie about your age when directly engaging in any kind of sexual activity. Knowing people’s age is a vital part of consent, and if an adult is found to have been engaging in sexual activity with a minor, they could face life long legal consequences. Not only that, but a basic facet of consent is clear, honest communication. If you are lying to a partner, then you do not have consent. Lying about your age is a huge violation of consent.

That’s not to say you can never mention sex around adults online. There are times and places where you may be asking for advice, or even just making jokes about sex or whatever. That’s all well and good, so long as everyone is on the same page. It’s on adults to make sure that we are behaving appropriately around minors online, and make sure that we’re setting boundaries in those relationships. But it’s on minors to communicate that they are minors, and respect those boundaries that are set.

So, tl;dr,

Lying about your age to access a porn site is fine. Lying about your age to engage in sexual situations/adult-only spaces where other real human beings are involved is not.