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placedeladentelle

Summer of Love by Lovechild Boudoir / UK 4-26 / Top + Brief

lovehotelreservation

🥛 THE TIME HAS COME 🥛

Welcome to the soft opening of the Love Hotel Milk Bar, beloved guests! To celebrate, I’ve created a special stamp card that can be filled out if (collectively) all hotel guests/readers can meet the note quota as outlined above! For each successful fill, I will be providing some nice Ishgardian refreshments–courtesy of our man of the hour, HAURCHEFANT-KUN 🤪🤪

All the written pieces featured in this event will be found within the post as reblogs!

You’re welcome to leave as many comments as you’d like so as long as they pertain to Haurchefant and this event!

This event will run from now up until tomorrow (12/27) night at 6:09 PM PST!

If you have any questions, please let me know!

🤠 In the meantime, LET’S GET TO MILKIN YEEEEEEEEEHAW!!!!!!! 🤠

lovehotelreservation

Baby Fever

Rating: PG-13

Pairing: Reader/Haurchefant

A knight was to never shirk his duties, and certainly a man of Haurchefant’s dedication would ever think to do such a thing.

Especially after managing to survive the encounter with the disgraced Thordan and his Heavens’ Ward at The Vault.

(Continued under the cut!)

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agent-nemesis

Things I have learned about prostate orgasms this morning

I was doing a bit of research (for fic, obviously). This reddit thread is an excellent resource, but not the only one.

For prostate only stimulation, orgasms tend to be dry, but not always.

Multiple orgasms are possible and there is no refractory period if there is no ejaculation.

Prostate milking and prostate orgasms are not the same thing. With prostate milking, the penis tends to be flaccid and fluid comes out without an orgasm.

Combined penis stimulation and prostate stimulation results in a normal, but usually much more intense orgasm with ejaculation.

You can massage the prostate externally and achieve orgasm, but it’s more difficult as it requires a lot of pressure on the perianal region.

It can take practice to “learn” to have prostate orgasms. Sometimes it takes an hour, sometimes it takes 5 minutes. Reported times vary a lot!

There tends to be a substantial, long-lasting afterglow post-prostate orgasm(s), especially after a long session. This is contrasted with “normal” orgasms, where after ejaculation, any sexual interest goes to zero.

Most people seem find it very enjoyable, but were initially very hesitant to try it.

The feeling of the orgasm itself is different from an orgasm from penis-only stimulation.

People seem to prefer finishing off a session with ejaculation. After extended prostate stimulation, there is usually a lot of ejaculate in the final orgasm. I quote, from the link at the start of this post, “Get ready to clean up, because the amount of cum that will come out is unbelievable.“

Experiences vary a lot from person to person. Some people have prostate orgasms easily, some don’t. Some ejaculate every time, and some never ejaculate at all. Intensity of feelings varies. Time taken to achieve orgasm varies. Some never succeed in having orgasms purely through prostate stimulation.

This has been a PSA.

keplercryptids

i’ve been on hold at my library for a book about asexuality for a few weeks and i just read an article about some concepts in the book re: consent. and holy shit. blew my mind. i’ve NEVER read about consent in the context of a relationship with an ace and an allo that resonated so strongly with me, and as a person in such a relationship!! it’s so!!! i’m even more excited for the book now.

for anyone interested, the article is How to Negotiate Better Consent: An Asexual Perspective and the book i’m waiting for is Ace: What Asexuality Reveals About Desire, Society and the Meaning of Sex.

keplercryptids

god okay, just to gush about this more, the author suggests using the categories of enthusiastic, willing, unwilling and coerced consent (rather than just “enthusiastic consent” or “no means no”). i really recommend reading the whole article linked above, but what blew my mind is the distinction between enthusiastic and willing consent. it gets broken down like this:

Enthusiastic consent:

When I want you

When I don’t fear the consequences of saying yes OR saying no

When saying no means missing out on something I want

Willing consent:

When I care about you though I don’t desire you (right now)

When I’m pretty sure saying yes will have an okay result and I think maybe that I’d regret saying no

When I believe that desire may begin after I say yes

and like!!! it made me realize i may have never actually enthusiastically consented in my life, but like, that doesn’t mean i have never or cannot consent! i almost always fall into the “willing consent” framework and i’ve never seen that….validated anywhere. anyway, it’s just given me this perspective about my sexuality and consent in general and better ways to relate to my partner and!!! idk!!! thank goodness for other ace people, is what i’m saying.

queeranarchism

This is very useful and a lot of sex work can also be best understood as willing consent, where the indirect consequences of having sex (getting paid) are what is desired and the direct consequences (having probably-mediocre sex with someone you don’t actively desire) are not considered so negative that they outweigh the indirect consequences.

Which is a definition of consent that gives sex workers agency and sees their consent as a choice made again and again based on the pros and cons, not something that is coerced and also not something that always exists by default simply because they are sex workers.

Recognizing willing consent is probably validating for a lot of people who have consent to sex without meeting the definition of enthusiastic consent.

#oh that's good #that actually really well describes a situation I was in #that line between enthusiastic and willing #CRAZY important

kuroshibacos

So you wander into the gym and find Dante dressed like this… what do you say? Hehehe, this could be fun… do you worst peeps! 🤣

This is the last preview from this set, so if this man in lingerie has left you thirsty for more, 🅿🅰treon is where you needa go!

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kuroshibacos

Icy hot boy is definitely showing his HOT side today.

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thequalityrunaway

https://archiveofourown.org/works/7119208 - Fanart for this Fic “Drown Me.”

“Will you join me to bathe? The waters here are sweet.” The robe fell, catching in folds at his slim hips and teasing Leon’s eyes with the exposed skin.

Had any other attractive male offered such a succulent encounter, Leon would have leapt at the chance without shame. But his dear friend Aerith had warned him of nymphs, their seductive and possessive nature and their wiles to draw in helpless victims into their waters, and he politely shook his head with a smirk of his own, ignoring his lust as best he could.

“I know you’d sweetly drown me.”

The nymph’s expression lit up with mischief, and he turned back into water with a final remark “Indeed I might, lost soul. Indeed, I might.”

Art for an old fic of mine. Please take a look :)

kuroshibacos

“Will you let me drain you, Princess?”

18+ question: What’s one thing you can’t go without when you're😏with someone🔥?

For me it’s biting.

If I can’t bite, or they’re worried I’ll leave marks on them (I will), it’s really distracting for me. I have to consciously keep stopping myself. What’s yours?

P.S. if you LOVE biting, then you’ll LOVE this Lucius set here on my 🅿️🅰️treon.

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