It's too late to save me

The problem is that I fall in love with words, rather than actions. I fall in love with ideas and thoughts, instead of reality. And it will be the death of me. INFP-T. 18. Spain.

[daethsticks]

If Carol and Susan aren’t your 90s lesbian aesthetic inspo, you’re not watching friends right

[zeldaspeaks]

cleaning with ADHD is a nightmare. it’s an endless cycle of finding a half-finished chore and stopping the one you were already working on, then remembering that something else needs to be done and getting started on that, then finding half-finished chore and

[jumpingjacktrash]

i have the solution! i call it ‘junebugging’.

have you ever seen a junebug get to grips with a window screen? it’s remarkably persistent, but not very focused. all that matters is location.

how to junebug: choose the location you feel you can probably get some shit done on today. be specific. not ‘the bathroom’ but ‘the bathroom sink’. you are not choosing a range, you are choosing a center; you will move around, but your location is where you’ll keep coming back to. mentally stick a pin in it. consider yourself tethered to that spot by a long mental bungee cord.

go to your location. look at stuff. move stuff around. do a thing. get distracted. remember you’re junebugging the bathroom sink and go back there. look at it some more. do a different thing. get distracted. get a sandwich. remember you’re junebugging and go back to the bathroom sink.

nt’s will go crazy watching you, and if they demand to know When You Will Be Done you will probably have to roll them in a carpet and stuff them up the chimney. you’re done when you feel done, or you’re too bored to live, or it’s bedtime, or any number of other markers, you get to pick. but the thing is, by returning repeatedly to that one spot, you harness the ‘hyperactivity’ part instead of wasting all that energy battling with the ‘attention deficit’ part.

not only will the bathroom sink almost certainly be clean, and probably the mirror and soap dish too, you might’ve swapped in a fresh toothbrush, a new soap, you might’ve unclogged the drain – you will probably also have cleaned or fixed up several things in the near vicinity, or in the path between the sink and where you get the fresh toothbrush, or maybe you did your grocery shopping cuz you were out of soap, or maybe you couldn’t find a clean hand towel and ended up doing laundry.

this is good. you got shit done! it wasn’t necessarily Cleaned The Bathroom in the way nt’s think of it, but screw ‘em. things are better than they were.

plus you worked off enough energy to be able to sleep. which is not small potatoes when living the ADHD life. :D

[spoonie-living]

Don’t let the adorable name fool you—this is some Seriously Good Advice. May be useful for brain fog and depression, too!

[elodieunderglass]

on the validity of recognizing emotions

[gstringofsuburbia-deactivated20]

in 1994 when green day first became famous, they invited pansy division, an openly gay punk band, to open for them for the entire dookie tour knowing full well the responses would be mixed. in 2016/2017, on their revolution radio tour, green day chose only female led punk bands to open for them to help create recognition for these artists in a male dominated scene. this band has always been using their voices for the right reasons and i love them so much for that.

[larry-david-lynch]

And Against Me! Is opening for them too! A band fronted by a trans woman! Fuck yeah Green Day

[frances-still-needs-her-revenge]

If I’m not mistaken, there was a prom somewhere that was cancelled one time because a lesbian couple wanted to go, so Green Day rented a venue and had a prom for them. Not sure about accuracy, my mom told me about that

[gstringofsuburbia]

yes this is true as well!! green day helped to fund and organize this second prom when the first one was cancelled. the second prom was actually open not only to the students of the school, but also to any other lgbtq+ students as well as supporters in the state of mississippi who wanted to attend as well!!

[paxpinnae]

Billy Joe Armstrong once literally leapt into the crowd at Green Day show and drop-kicked a guy who wouldn’t leave a girl alone.

[commandtower-solring-go-deactiv]

This exemplifies how do to representation right. Being a straight ally doesn’t mean creating things for LGBT+ people. Its about giving those who are already creating a better stage. 

[stilesisbiles]

He’s not a “straight ally” he’s bisexual.

[enbyofdionysos]

He’s not a “straight ally” he’s bisexual.

[sadmac356]

Oh my god it got better

[wlwellbutrin]

real power is going outside knowing you look ugly and also knowing that if you chose to perform femininity in accordance with patriarchal standards you could look attractive, but genuinely prefering to look ugly and not feeling bad about it. feels good feels organic

[anarchohellenism]

True, honest, genuine power is going outside knowing you look gorgeous bc you don’t need to perform hyper femininity the way men want you to and that you can be stunning despite patriarchal ideals

[wlwellbutrin]

i appreciate the intent but i actually made this post in direct response to the liberal feminist tendency to widen the parameters of “beauty” rather than challenging the concept itself and specifically the notion that women must be beautiful to be valuable, and as such my choice of words was very deliberate—i have no interest in being assured i am beautiful and a great deal of interest in existing without being told i must be such. this post is not self-deprecating and does not call for bathroom-stall platitudes. ugliness in women is threatening and i embrace that.

[vendetta06]

are you a bad at math gay, bad at sports gay, or doesn’t know shit about cars gay?

[spiroandthelacktones]

i sure am

[angstalottle]

Skin

Lana had always been taught to cover up. To hide and be ashamed of her body. She had been taught that it was her responsibility to keep men from staring at them and protect herself. Of course until she was twelve she didn’t listen to the warnings. She would wear shorts and vests out in public when it was hot. But after pubity hit men started whistling at her and making lude comments she began to cover up more. However it wasn’t until she was groped on a bus did she really get scared of showing any skin. After that happened she started to wear her brothers cast offs, her frame swallowed in baggy layers to hide her curves. She was thankful of the Garrison uniform being unisex which helped her cover. Even in space her armour was very conservative, flattening her chest and making her appearance seem so male that most Aliens they met assumed so. Lana would of been happy this continuing, however after Shiro returned Allura announced there would be a ball and they would all be expected to wear formal clothing. “Allura are you sure I can’t just wear my armour?” Lana pleaded as the Princess routed through her closet for something the blue paladin could wear. “Of course not Lana, this ball is to celebrate peace. It is traditional that the Paladins do not wear their uniforms for such an occasion.” “But” “But nothing, it will be fun. Here this will look lovely on you.” Allura cut her off tossing her a blue gown. Just by looking at it Lana could tell one very important thing. It was tight and was designed to show off flesh. Lana opened her mouth to argue but Allura was already pushing her out of the room to get ready. ———————————– Keith was not happy. He was stuck talking to some diplomat in a dark red Altean tux and was honestly the most uncomfortable thing he had ever worn. Allura glared at him as he pulled on his collar for the hundredth time trying to loosen his stupid bow tie. Shiro was currently at the princess’s side trying to not look as uncomfortable as Keith, but it was clear he hated the monkey suit as much as Keith did. Hunk seemed to live his dark yellow tux and was happily chatting away with Slav about god knows what. Pidge had some how been coaxed into a light green dress that ended halfway down her shins and already was stained with what Keith hoped was motor oil from the robot she was gushing over. The only one Keith hadn’t been able to spot was Lana. He had assumed she would of jumped at the chance to be the centre of attention and bask in the praise that the Paladins were reviving. However she was almost twenty minutes late and Keith was staring to worry. He was about to go looking for her when the doors creaked open and Keith felt his heart skip a beat. Lana was stood in the doorway her dark down hair was swept to the side over her shoulder, curled and filled with a silver mesh dotted with dark blue gems. Her dress was the same beautiful blue as her eyes and clung The the curves Keith never realised she had. It was high necked but sleeveless and backless with only a slim piece of silver fabric covering her tanned stomach. There was a slit up the left side showing off her long elegant leg and heals. Keith didn’t even realise he was staring until he made eye contact with her and she blushed before darting out of the room. “Lana wait!” He yelled chasing after her. ———————————– Keith ran all round the castle looking for the blue paladin. He wasn’t sure what was wrong. But he was staring to get worried. Right when he was about to give up and call in reinforcements he heard a soft shuffling noise from inside a closet. Keith slowly opened the door seeing Lana curled up in the corner with tears staining her cheeks. “Lana… what’s wrong?” Keith asked sitting next to her. “Please talk to me.” “My papa would be so angry with me….” Lana whispered. “How come?” “He always said it was a woman’s responsibility to make sure no one looks, that showing skin means I’m asking for it to happen again.” Keith felt a flash of red hot anger go through him. He was mad at Lanas dad and however the hell touched her to make her think such a thing. “Listen Lana… I was only looking because I was surprised, but it had nothing to do with the fact you have skin on display. You could of walked in there dressed like a nun and I still would of stared. Lana tilted her head up to look at him "how come?” “Because your the most beautiful woman I’ve ever seen. And that has nothing to do with what you wear, it’s because of who you are that makes you so amazing.” Lana sniffed wiping her eyes “thanks” “Any time ” Keith smiled standing up and offering her his hand. “Now how about we go show these aliens how to party.” Lana took his hand letting him pull her up laughing “best idea I’ve heard all day.” Keith couldn’t help but grin as he led Lana back to the ball room and the two spent the rest of the night dancing together and having the time of their lives.

[ulti-mal]

I just really wanted to try and draw a fem lance in my style.

[mariedisgrace]

Three fine ladies

[faitokie]

heal the gf + protect the gf

[voltronic2000-deactivated201808]

Another parallel ✌️

[h0munculi]

01.01 x 03.05 

parallels 

[flagmean]

Keith and Lance are going to save Real Shiro from the astral plane together and here’s why:

Yes, this is a reach, and I know it is wishful thinking, and I have a feeling I’m going to get let down anyway because it’s Voltron after all. 

But let’s get into it! 

(This is going to be really fucking long so I’m putting it below the cut ;o)

Seguir leyendo

[goodbye-bingeeating]

“The happiness you leave for others, becomes your happiness. The pain you leave for others becomes your pain. Be aware.”

— (via psych2go)

[goodbye-bingeeating]

“Live for yourself. Love those around you - but realise they have their own agendas.”

— Alex Gaskarth (via purplebuddhaquotes)

[media-student]

07/09/17

so I’m not back to school yet, and it sucks cause I’m bored I’m binge-watching the expanse and reading a hella lot I love scrapbooking, cause I can like “get things out” creatively without having to draw cause I’m possibly the worst drawer in the entire world also I’m spending a lot of time at the movies (unlimited movie theater cards are a blessing to this universe ok) anyways, I really liked 120 BPM and the history it reflects on, and there was a cool article in a magazine with reproduction of old AIDS prevention campaign posters, and also cool visuals from the movie. also when I went, members of Act-Up where there and gave us flyers. so with all of this on my hand, I absolutely had to make a collage about the movie and about Act-Up and this period of LGBT history in general. I’ve done nicer ones but anyways, here it is. just to show you I’m not dead, just waiting for school to start.

xx jo

[chooserecovery]

hi, i remember going thru the directory a long time ago and looking at the alternatives for sh if you want to see blood and found it really helpful. recently, i realized that the juice from black cherries looks INCREDIBLY similar to blood and it helped me resist the urge to sh a couple times. idk if thisll help anyone, but i figured it doesnt hurt to mention. also, this blog is really such a great source for so much info and insight, i cant thank you enough for it!

Thanks for the tip, friend. I’ll add it to the page in a bit. :]

–Luke