How to Secure A Bag Via Dating Apps
So inbetween studying and securing the bag, I’ve been writing again. I recently gave online dating a (half-hearted) second chance and was able to secure a first date shopping experience and $2.5k a week allowance. I wrote all about my method and the process which I will soon be posting on my website as a guide for members. Below I’ve summarized the main things I said/did to get to this bag:
I personally have very little patience for cheap men and I don’t like wasting my time. I have developed this general script as a time saver and it hasn’t failed me yet:
Him: what do you like to do for fun? I would love to meet you sometime. When are you available?
You: when I’m not studying, I enjoy shopping and trying different cuisines. I’m available x if you’d like to get together for some shopping and lunch/dinner at x.
He may be unresponsive, try and low ball you, suggest something else, or flat out agree. Either way this is his first test and a way for you to save time and weed out the stingy/broke men. I actually don’t go out to meet anyone from dating apps unless the first date includes shopping or something of monetary gain for me. Now that I’ve found that this works and men will either step up or step out of the way, I will never waste my time again.
Your dating profile doesn’t have to include 100xs how “high value” you are, how much you “enjoy the finer things in life”, or how you’re looking for a “generous and established gentleman”. Let your pictures do the talking so you don’t have to!
During the first date, make sure you are flirty/feminine. Use Top Questions I Ask A POT On The First Date to break the ice. Your job now is to find out just how generous he’s willing to be. Sure he took you on a fancy date and spent some money taking you shopping but you’re looking for an allowance no? Stay on task and pay attention to his answers about women. How does he see women, how has he treated them in the past, is he a provider.. these will all be indicators about how he will treat you.
Getting to the Allowance Conversation on Date #1
How do you get a vanilla man to agree to an allowance? What if he’s not into that?
Firstly, you cannot be shy, timid, or scared to ask for what you want. Men aren’t and you shouldn’t be either. Practice in a mirror or on a friend multiple times until you can comfortably speak about money. Any indication of fear in your voice and the chances of a successful outcome are greatly reduced.
Wait until the food comes or until dessert and say:
You: So what are you looking for?
Him: blah blah chemistry, blah blah sex, blah blah blah
You: I like to think that I’m pretty openminded... I agree chemistry is important. As far as traits someone kind, adventurous both in the bedroom and in life *look him in the eye* and generosity is a must! In a previous relationship, an ex supported me financially every week and I liked the dynamic. It allowed us to explore each other and the connection to grow. It was a great experience, and I’d like something similar. Is that something you’d be into?
Him: That makes sense, I’m interested. How much was he giving you? How much would work for you at this time?
You: *enter negotiation script* (this is too long for me to type right now. The full script and walkthrough will be available on my website soon)
You: I understand my dating style may be a bit unconventional but it works for me. (No need to press and try to convince him why he should be giving you a weekly allowance. He knows he’s dealing with a dime so again he will either step up or step out of the way.)
You don’t need to overdue it but you want to show him your personality but do not act overly impressed.
You do need to show him that this is something you’re used to.
The moment they realize you don’t have a clue what you’re doing, they will try to low ball you/act cheaply no matter how much you’ve impressed him with your personality. So it’s important to remember to keep a mysterious air about yourself.
Never go to his house. Not after date 1, 2, or 3.
Don’t become his texting buddy. Call him instead. Keep things sexy and mysterious in all your encounters with him.
Use your life situations to your advantage. He ordered a bottle of one of their finest wines and the congratulations dessert because I told him I had 2 exams earlier that day and aced both. If I had said I was feeling down about the exams he would’ve likely done something similar to “cheer me up”. Including him in your life situations will have a lucrative 💰 outcome for you if done correctly
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