Sensitive- you are not afraid to feel what is inside you. You are able to understand the pain of others as if it were your own.
Jealous- no one is completely mature. If you are jealous of a friend whose time is spent with one besides yourself it shows how important that friend is to you. If you are jealous of another’s belongings or opportunities, it only shows the inherently human desire for growth.
Stupid- you don’t know a lot? Its never, ever to late to learn. And if you think you are stupid because you struggle to learn, or simply do not know how to approach learning, know that there are easy ways. Find a topic that really fascinates you, something that you know you will be motivated to pursue. If you have trouble reading articles, listen to them (or podcasts). Need more sensory input to understand/process the media? Documentaries. Pbs.com has loads of free ones. Go at your own pace.
Quiet- There are so many reasons to be quiet!! Some of us are neurodivergent, and have trouble understanding social cues, or struggle to focus on the topic. Some of us are afraid of saying something wrong, or accidentally going on for far too long. Others have anxiety, and conversations cause us stress. Why submit yourself to pain? Other people are just shy. Others simply prefer the company of themselves or those they already know they like. There is nothing wrong with that.
Ugly- just because you do not conform to society’s standards of beauty does not mean you aren’t beautiful. Think of all the creatures that are not traditionally “”“beautiful”“” that so many people think are stunning. Think of all the non-traditionally beautiful things you find be breathtaking!
Annoying- You act in a way others find irritating. Everyone is irritating sometimes. Sure, you might irritate people more often than the average person, but what harm is that? If people dislike or disrespect you for that, that is their problem. When you are annoying, it is you being your genuine self. Those who do not value that do not deserve your time anyway.
What im trying to say is, emotional control, pure maturity, intelligence and wit, beauty, extroversion, and being interesting to everyone is both illogical and unattainable.
Think about all the people who have seen your sensitivity to this struggles/struggles you share, and felt understood. Who have realized they were not alone.
Think about all the friends who have been touched by how much time you spent/seek to spend with them
For all we know, Einstein didn’t know how to change a tire. To call yourself stupid because there are things you do not know implies that all cognizant being are stupid because one can never know everything, seeing as new facts are produced but the second!
Im not even gonna try on this one. If you’re quiet, thats who you are. Personally, im loud. Really. Loud. My natural voice is a yell, and im always scared that i talk too much.
Ugly implies not good-looking, and seeing as beauty is in the eye of the beholder, calling yourself ugly implies that you somehow surpass every single human being’s perception of beauty and are not attractive to anyone? Cmon.
You act in a way that is “"annoying”“ annoying to some people. For example, you going on and on about space might be boring and annoying to one, but to someone (like myself) who is fascinated by all astrological sciences, would be riveted by the conversation
Here’s my point: you are not the apex of who you are or who you could be. To you, that is something to mourn. To me, that is your inspiration. Use that knowledge that you can always better yourself as fuel to that fire.
If you need someone to help you get there, reach out to me. I will help you as best i can.
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