About: Fun and games mostly, but I'm an iconoclast who loves the bizarre and erotic, so I will occasionally post things that are VERY triggering and/or NSFW (Nudity and kink, drug mentions, medical photography, etc...). That means that NO MINORS ARE ALLOWED, so if you're under 18, then see yourself out! I am NOT a babysitter.
I am also pretty political, so while this blog will never soley be a political discourse blog (discourse blog veteran. I served my time in hs, lol. never again), I will share politically-charged posts here and there. This blog is like my digital dorm, and the posts are like note sheets and trinkets scattered across my desk. Here, you WILL see what fascinates me and strikes me as important.
Excluding my No Minors rule, I don't have a DNI list. I'm not 5, and I know how the internet works. I am respectful of DNI lists however, even really fucking stupid ones, as it prevents unnecessary headaches. If I think you or your blog sucks, I will just block you and move on. I suggest you do the same to me, should you find my tastes and opinions unpalatable.
TL;DR: Interact at your own risk, follow if you dare, seriously.
Now, let me save YOU from a headache:
Excluding Flashing Images, I only tag potential triggers on original posts, not reblogs. Sorry :\
Privilege does not work like PokĂŠmon types or rock/paper/scissors. ANYONE could be an oppressor or side with one at some point or another (yes, even some of the most marginalized people). Being a dick to ANYONE about something that is personal and outside of their control for ANY reason makes you a prejudiced, dumb motherfucker. If you don't want the shoe to fit, don't put it on
I am queer and this is a queer blog. I blog queerly and queer is not a slur. Fag is though. FAGS AND QUEERS FOREVER!! <3 <3 <3
I probably AM the freak in your DNI list. I am pro-kink, ALL kinks, because to me kink is something that is practiced between consenting adults in sex safe spaces. Real life harm of real life non-consenting individuals (ANYONE who doesn't consent or can't consent) is not kink, it is ABUSE. Don't bother trauma-dumping in my inbox if you find me or my interests unpalatable, I don't care about your trauma, and you don't speak for all survivors. Your trauma is YOURS and while whatever happened to you wasn't your fault (and I genuinely wish you the best healing has to offerđđź ), it also wasn't mine either so leave me out of it.
How you treat and handle REAL LIFE people and situations will ALWAYS matter more and speak louder of your character than how you treat FICTIONAL people and situations. Full stop. I'm not arguing with anybody about this. I'm too grown and got a real life job and real life bills, you are NOT gonna pull me into some silly-ass argument about My Hero Academy or whatever it's called
I don't owe anyone online any personal, identifying information I don't want to share (and neither do you, btw) at any moment. I don't have to meet anyone's "list of qualifications" before speaking on something that I think affects me or my respective demographics. I, like anyone, could list everything about my background and body for more "credibility" in an online fight.....and I could also just be lying the whole time sooooo....stop caring maybe ÂŻ\_(ă)_/ÂŻ ?
If you see me using the pronouns We/Us/Our in any of my posts or tags, just go ahead and auto-correct that to I/Me/Mine in your head. I'm pretty sure that what I have been experiencing for years is some form of monoconscious plurality, stemming from how my personality disorder and dissociative traits intersect. I am not professionally diagnosed with DID or OSDD, and I do NOT consider myself a system. I probably won't post about my plurality very often, as I'm not too interested in attracting too much attention for it, or in interacting within larger plural communities in any significant way. If you see a post on here tagged in a plural manner, it was posted, tagged, and approved (to varying degrees) by ALL of us. We very, very rarely experience spells of amnesia, and we share ALL of our memories (or lack thereof). The only differences between us are how we interpret shared memories/experiences, our philosophical perspectives, and some of our personal preferences ( like fashion, pronouns, sexual interests, etc...). We're kind of like a very small jury in a single trench coat, all of our opinions and tastes average out into concise verdicts and expressions (more or less). Think of me as a fairly stable gem fusion from Steven Universe.
If you've made it this far down and haven't come to think me the antichrist, HAVE FUN!!!
My hornyposting is NOT an invite for a relationship of ANY kind. I don't mind sexually-charged discussions or jokes, but I won't respond earnestly or sincerely to ANY genuine flirting attempts. I am in a monogamous relationship with a wonderful partner that I adore. đĽ°
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totally didn't forgot to post this here what
saw this screenshot in my pinterest and automatically though of them.. (tho I did felt like trying appledash but I just figured that rarijack would fit better)
also we have GOT to collectively come to terms with the fact that me or any other stranger online disliking or even making fun of something you like is not saying âno fun allowedâ âno one can ever enjoy thisâ you have simply got to grow a spine and be able to like the shit you like. you donât even have to defend it! like 90% of the media i really enjoy is divisive and half my friends actively hate it. i really donât give a fuck though because i like it. you can write whatever you want! youâre allowed! even if itâs MY least favorite genre or style of writing and i have active distaste for it!
I think itâs weird and annoying that thereâs this societal push for âlet women be feminine again!!!â when there has still never been any acceptance for masculine women
Even if some of us are still in denial, we wouldn't want it any other way.
Don't think I need to say this but ofc some of us are more vivid and distinct than others, but really, so many of us are subtle in the way we present. We also didnt draw aaalll of us at the end, too lazy to draw all of us lmao. Way too many.
You'll have a single mother of three who's fleeing a DV relationship. She has no recent work history because her ex kept her barefoot and pregnant. She's struggling with depression+PTSD while trying to find work in a horrific job market.
Now I have to be the one to tell her "Dept of Social Services insists every child over the age of 5 have their own bedroom, so you'll have to get a 4 bedroom, which will likely cost $5000/mo. You will get a housing voucher that covers 50% of the cost, so $2500/mo. You will need to make $90k/yr to comfortably afford this"
You and her both know a full-time minimum wage job comes out to $32k/yr in your area and most of that is going to go towards child care so she can work a job that will never pay enough to cover her living expenses. Even if she worked two full-time jobs, she'd still be ~$30k/yr short of the required income.
She can do everything right, she can work her ass off, she can get benefits, and it still won't make a difference. Her abusive ex is going to get the kids in the divorce simply because he has a steady income and home.
You see, in that moment, the woman start to consider going back to a guy who'll probably kill her and/or the kids someday and there's really fuck all you can do. Like " uhh I can help you apply for SNAP, you'll probably get $200/mo. Sorry for all the systemic issues"
If you have ever known anyone with a kink for being hit, or beat up, or raped and you're okay with them, you also gotta be okay with the people who's kink it is to do the hitting, the beating, or the raping. At the end of the day, we're adults playing pretend, and that's it.
With every single sub i have the first thing we ever do is establish the safe word (stoplight system), and the non-verbal safe word in case they can't talk for any reason. If I can't tell where the sub is at, I will ask them point blank what is their color, and if they can't give a response, we stop. The goal is to make the other person feel good, including pain, and the most important part us knowing your subs limits and LISTENING to them. I will *never* hurt a sub in a way that they have not explicitly expresssed interest in.
