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finnxymiwi

“i asked chatgpt” “i asked google gemini” well i asked conan gray and he said it’s my world and it’s my life

my take on the whole situation with michael kovach and ashley nichols (as a black fan of tadc) is that i'm not shocked, nor do i believe he deserves to be "cancelled." i honestly expect most white people to have made a racist "joke" or two, which isn't me saying it's a good thing. also, i'm tired of seeing white tadc fans trying to tell black people how to feel on the matter; "it was years ago!! get over it!!" i don't think kovach is a racist or anything, he's just the average lame white guy who made a haha n-word funny "joke" and again, i'm not surprised at all. y'all like putting these people on pedestals and getting shocked when they do bad things, as if they're these ethereal beings who can't do any wrong. especially some random white dude in his 20s, i 100% expected this kind of behavior from him LMAO

michael and ashley both already apologized and there isn't much else that can be done. at the end of the day, they're two lame white people who do what every other lame white person does in their life; and that's make a "joke" with zero substance that is just "omg this word sounds like a racial slur... funny..." again i don't think either of them deserve to be cancelled or anything, but don't think that black people "have" to forgive these two simply because "oh they apologized, so it's okay!!" we're allowed to be upset because it's instances like these that make fandom spaces feel so unwelcoming for black people. we shouldn't have to constantly worry about creators being racist and ignorant. this is something white fans never have to worry about, and thus you have no idea what it feels like, and it's not something for you to speak on either. so no, i don't think black people "have" to forgive michael and ashley, and we have every right to be disappointed.

#tadc #💬#ok that's enough tumblr for today. i'll blog again in like 3 months when i wanna complain some more about the next hot topic #i ranted abt this enough to my circle of friends but i'm making a tumblr post anyway la la la

muthur6000

If this is what happens in digital circus, I might actually watch it

nonbinarystarlord-deactivated20

whenever i see a post about someone wondering how an asexual and a sexual can be in a healthy relationship there’s always someone being applauded for saying well asexuals can have sex too or just because someone’s asexual doesn’t mean they won’t have sex but i have never, not once, EVER seen someone say well hey, some sexuals don’t have sex. you can have a full relationship without sex. just throwing it out there

applesandbannas747

Everyone in the notes saying polyamory and open relationships are great fixes for this too are missing the point. Ace people can have sex—and, yes, some enjoy sex. Yes, open relationships can be loving and healthy for ace people too. But ultimately you’re saying asexuality needs to be fixed by access to sex somehow. To quote op ‘you can have a full relationship without sex’. Your suggestion to find sex outside of the relationship with an ace partner completely misses that point.

answrs

sorry but you’re not hiding this in the tags:

#it may be surprising to learn this. but allos can choose to be celibate. famously there are entire religious orders where this is a thing #and a catholic nun who stays celibate her whole life can in fact still have a very full and meaningful life with important relationships #it’s not the end of the fucking world #there are people who don’t drive too. there are people who have never seen a mountain. there are people who don’t play video games. #human experience is too wide to be like ohh if you never do This One Thing then you are sufferinggg like chill maybe

salithemage

the way ozempic has finally made the fact that eating healthy and exercising doesn't necessarily make you thin well known and society's reaction to this is not "oh i guess being thin or fat doesn't actually show if you're healthy" but "oh i guess everyone should be on this drug"

toydrill

i need people on this website to stop being scared of the n word like i seriously need white people especially on this website to stop being scared of following black people who say nigga or songs that say nigga or movies or books or essays or whatever.

like why is it that it is easier for some of you on this website to become acclimated to the queer people around you reclaiming slurs like faggot or dyke but as soon as a black blogger has the GALL to say nigga you start getting scared because for some weird reason the concept of someone around you using a word they have the right to use and you do not scares you? GROW UP

toydrill

to be honest i think some of you are just afraid of someone around you using a word that very bluntly makes you think about the fact that you (YES YOU, WHITE PERSON!) descend from people that benefitted off of killing and raping and exploiting black people on a mass scale (and this goes for non-american white people too i have no idea why people from european countries do not think this applies to them. my grandparents were born in an english colony... when it was still a colony!!!!! there are places that are still being colonized RIGHT NOW!!!!!!!)

toydrill

blackcharacterpolls

DO NOT GO IN THE NOTES LORDDDD

allfriendswelcome

just wait and see, it’s not the end of the story 🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈

egrisales

eleventhirtythoughts

maybe it's all in my mind

i swear if i saw you tonight

we could make peace with it

not have to sleep with it

haunting me all of the time

i'd take back the shit that i said

when i was so pissed that you left

i could make peace with it

finally sleep with it

finally wish you the best

don't think anyone will see this, but i'll make this post anywayz. but i don't really use tumblr anymore outside of my art blog. i don't interact with my mutuals/friends here very often anymore, so i don't think me abandoning this blog will be too bad, though i don't intend on leaving it behind just yet. i'm much more active on discord, twitter, and dreamwidth.

i feel more comfortable rambling on dreamwidth, my twitter is 90% conanposting, and discord is my primary form of communication with online friends at the moment. my discord and twitter usernames are the same as my tumblr and my dreamwidth is here.

i don't feel very attached to this blog anymore, and if anything i've become very averse to using it. it feels like it's this part of my life i'm no longer attached to, and i want to get away from. it's weird though, because i don't feel that way about my discord account? but something about tumblr rubs me the wrong way. i open tumblr and i'm reminded of everything that's happened between 2023-2025; good and bad, but mostly bad. again, i don't intend on abandoning my blog completely, but i doubt i'm gonna be too active. shits weird. idk. i do intend to keep posting my art to my art blog but that's about it lolz

if you care at all about what i'm up to, then feel free to follow me on twitter or read my journal entries on dreamwidth. and if you want to talk to me, add me on discord or somethin.

#i forgor my tags </3 </3