Before I go on a rant, I would like to give you some background and some context as to why I’m ranting. To begin, I am a dancer here in Philadelphia. Now, like any dance community in every city, there are of different categories--i.e. the underground/battle scene, the choreo scene, the breakers, etc. And I have chosen not to stay in a certain scene in the dance community. I love my choreo-based dance company and they’re my fam but I also like to battle. Now, if you don’t know me, I am an Asian woman of short stature. I’m Filipino standing 5 feet tall. Although that makes me hella cute, it can come with some certain disadvantages including people not taking seriously. As if being a woman is not already a challenge in being in a very male-dominated scene, being short isn’t any help. As a woman in the dance scene, you have to be twice as good and have to work twice as hard. People have preconceived notions about you and what you are capable of doing. So most often, at first impression, I’m not taken seriously. I constantly have to prove myself which, honestly, gets really tiring and really old real quick. Which brings me to the topic of why I’m ranting in the first place. So, here in Philly, every second Sunday of the month, there is a jam held in Silk city called “Second Sundae.” It’s where Philly dancers gather and just vibe and battle and whatnot. So the past Sundae, I had signed up to battle. Mind you, I am the only girl that battled that whole night. I had battled this guy and I won against him. It was a good battle, made it to top 8, battled a good friend of mine, he won, but it’s all good. We had a lot of fun. Fast forward to today (July 26, 2015) when my best friend told me what the guy I battled had said about me. So, the Philly dance scene is very small and everybody knows everybody. So my best friend told me that the guy I battled, let’s call him “Spade”, had approached him and my other friend (and teammate) and vented to him how he got cheated by an “Asian bitch”--Asian bitch being me--when he should’ve won the battle. He said that he felt cheated because they only played “girly” songs.