To understand reality you must first understand Consciousness.
Consciousness is that which experiences itself in all ways imagined through form manifestation.
Consciousness is the only thing that can fundamentally exist and be experienced. All experiences that anyone has can only be experienced within one’s own Consciousness.
Consciousness can only experience itself through the process of self-reflection, you cannot experience anything outside of your Consciousness.
You cannot have an experience of anything other than YOU (as Consciousness). The external world is merely a created projection; reflected focal points of consciousness created and imposed from your internal (subjective) reality.
Everything you see and experience are nothing but a mirror of yourself that simply reflect back to you, in order to give you a subject/object experience (relationships).
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