cookie-mandarin

Toddler alter blog. 3-4.and other child alter blog his freind is his manadrin. he like cookie monster and his mandarin. he also likes hippos.

[forgetmenotfaery]

“littles are complex and can be much more mature than their physical age” and “some littles are mentally just like their age” are sentences that can coexist peacefully

[blueplushpup]

📺 TV/Movie Age Regression Moodboards 📺

[relatable-system-things]

The indescribable urge to protect the system Littles at all times because they are the sweetest and the best ❤️💕💜🧡💛💚💙💗💓🤎🖤🤍💘

[bimbopawz]

reminder for all friends, systems or not, please don't publicly share your triggers because people can use those to harm you! you can tell mutuals and friends you trust to tag them, but that's it for your safety!

don't publicly share your positive or negative triggers, don't publicly share your triggers in general!

[cookiemandarin]

okay i littles and i make post about being littles hards sometimes

littles it is okay to struggles

littles can have eating disorders

littles can hurt themselves

littles can have traumas

traumas hards

memories hards

feelings hards

littles can have food troubles

littles don’t has to like other littles

littles it okay if it hard to love self

it okay if it hard to love body

you don’t have to like things when you where littles

littles can has stuff like tummy troubles and back pain

littles can be scared

it not all fun sometimes

if you play with toys sometimes you don’t wanna play they will understand

littles can has sensory issues

littles can be angrys

littles can know big words

littles can struggle with big words

littles are strong even if they struggles

it okays if you cry’s

it okays if you not hurt for a while but then you nots

its okays i prouds of you’s

its okays to tells other alters how you feels they wants to keep you safe

staying safe is hards but it gonna be okays

sometimes it hards to say how we feels so sometimes arts and crafts helps or vent/trauma arts

find a alter you feel safe with

i loves you and i proud of you

we are strongs and i has hards days it okays to have hards day sometimes

-🧡🧡🧡

[peculiar--princess]

Christmas reminders:

It is 100% okay to not celebrate it traditionally or spend it with your family if they provide an unhealthy environment.

You don’t have to talk about anything you do not want to. You are allowed to set boundaries or politely say you do not wish to answer said question.

You ARE allowed to eat all of the holiday treats. I promise it’s okay.

If this holiday is hard for you, that is okay. You are valid in what you feel and you’re never alone.

If you are with other people and need breaks, make sure you take them. There is nothing wrong with going for a walk or excusing yourself to another room to recenter yourself.

For anyone who celebrates, I hope you have a safe holiday filled with love. <3

[glitchblackmusic]

Juggling Cutebot / Glitch Black

IG: @glitch_black

[cookiemandarin]

treat your child alter how they want to be treated

i have seen some mixed thoughts about how child alters wanna be treated. i feel if they wanna be treated older than treat them like that. personally we have child alters who love being treated like babies.that’s okay because we didn’t have that as a child. they love toys and stuffed animals and use sippy cups. now if your child alter wants to be treated older and you trust them with adult activities or jobs then go ahead. if they like bugs and dirt and gore that’s okay .you have the right to keep your alters safe in your own ways. also they may not know or it’s a mix of both. take your time figuring out your child alters some are more traumatized than others so it might take more time. i don’t think we should argue about how we should treat child alters. you do you.

- written by a protector

[cookiemandarin]

its okay that if you only wanna believe in holiday for s/nta its okay family can be your family alters not the family that hurt you. we usually re wrap gifts from moms and make it from each other and have a happy holiday. but others likes family and sometimes it difficult so ask and support each others because everyone is like a rock my other protector says it shines different and has different edges and spikes we are all different rocks and we went through different things and cope in different ways.

system without trauma dni

[ghost-cage]

Here is to littles who are largely ignored and often, ostracized by the community at large.

The littles who are not cutesy

The littles who are traumatized in unslightly ways

The littles who are sexual

The littles who enjoy grim things

The littles whose cognition does not match their age

The littles made to feel like they should not interact with anyone

The littles whose existence is erased from public fronts

The littles called not child-safe

The littles who do not fit the common perception of what we should be like

The littles who feel unfit and unsafe in their own spaces

The littles who are told they are unsafe FOR their own spaces

We are not any lesser. We are not undeserving of a place to be ourselves. There is no wrong way to be a little. We are not broken, not dangerous, not people that need to be hushed, hidden and supressed. 

We owe nothing to ideals such as purity.

A space for system littles is for all of us, so let’s not be afraid to be earnestly ourselves, with all oddities that our existences have accumulated.

[dadas-lil-babi-boi]

How to help a kiddo who struggles with self harm

heya, here is some tips on how to help a kiddo who struggles with self harm. This is from personal experience, as i am a caregiver and protector in this system and there is many regressors and syskids in our system that struggle with this. Keep in mind that every kiddo is different and one thing that may work for one, may not work for another. I hope this helps. :)

- [ ] do not punish them for relapsing or self harming.

- [ ] reward them for staying “x” days clean

- [ ] carry around bandaids, bandages, etc with you (if you’re with them) or put them in their bag just in case. especially if they’re going to a stressful area such as school where they could do that and get hurt.

- [ ] do not forcefully try to look at their wounds. If they say no, then do not look , it will only make them feel worse. Unless you are cleaning the wounds.

- [ ] remember that this is not because of you, do not blame yourself for them doing this. If you are their cg, i’m willing to bet you’re helping them cope by helping them when regressed or them in general.

- [ ] do not get angry at them

- [ ] You need to encourage staying clean but do not shove it down their throats

- [ ] don’t make them feel guilty for relapsing or doing it in general.

[the-cabin-complex]

My name is Jake, I’m a kid in a system, and I have an uncle named Jon. Today he told me a lot about buckets. He said that there are love buckets and tough buckets.

I already knew about love buckets, they’re buckets everyone has and they’re buckets that need to be filled with love, or else you feel empty and can’t give anyone else love.

But tough buckets are buckets that you don’t want to be full, or else things spill over. Some tough things are big and bulky, and some are small and like a bunch of beads.

Some people have bigger tough buckets, and some people always have stuff in their buckets, like my uncle Jon. Kids have smaller buckets, but they usually get bigger when they grow up. They can be filled with sad things, and angry things, and painful things, and other things that are tough to deal with.

And when they get too full, people get too sad or tired or hurt to be okay. Sometimes you can’t take all of those things out so they’re not full anymore, but sometimes you can help take others out, if your bucket isn’t full too.

And sometimes, when you take other things out, they get turned into love, and that fills the person’s love bucket a little more. I think a lot of adults think it’s hard to explain hard things to kids, but it seems like talking about tough buckets and love buckets make it easier

—Jake

(Edit: this post can be reblogged :) )

[cookiemandarin]

I made macaroni necklace !!!

[cookiemandarin]

i has an imaganry friends we talk and we hang outs togethers. im getting a toy thats coming in for my birthdays but it early for birthday but says i can still play with it. it chatter the telaphone and blue vtech baby phone. we also finnaly got new therapist and she seems nice and understanding of what we go through.

[pupk1dd0]

🎃 with halloween upon us, please keep in mind a lot of children will be visiting your home.

- the child who is grabbing more than one piece of candy may have poor motor skills

- the child who takes forever to pick out one piece of candy may have poor motor planning skills

- the child who does not say "trick-or-treat" or "thank you" may be non-verbal

- the child who looks disappointed they see your bowl might have an allergy or diabetes

- the child who isn't wearing a costume at all may have sensory issues (SPD) or autism

be nice

be patient

it's everyone's halloween. 🧡

source: https://images.app.goo.gl/xutvcH5bLi1WwxAP9

[cookiemandarin]

had bad day its okay cuz i has list on holiday gift list it early but i exited

[celesse]

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