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Ø BEFORE FOLLOWING K/E/L/L/Y she about | me 21 disabled white transgender lesbian Ø

[lezgem-deactivated20160104]

I’ve said it before but seriously how dare someone specifically target gay/bi/pan people as “not appreciating the importance of non-romantic relationships enough”

we understand the importance more than most

we are the ones that face disownment by our families and rejection by our life-long friends

we are the ones who are told that our genuine romances are friendships and our actual friendships are predatory

we are the ones with a long history of emphasizing our chosen family and building up communities and relationships and, yes, friendships - because we know how important and vital they are to our physical and emotional survival

and telling the people who risk every other relationship we have by just being open about our romantic lives - telling us that our priorities were wrong that we just didn’t appreciate friendship enough

how fucking dare you

[badsjw]

The first question the professor asked in one of my classes was “what are your preferred pronouns?” That’s how I knew I was in for a fucking ride.

[runawayufo]

cis people get offended by the funniest things

[tsukishimashukuro]

a professor who wants to refer to someone with the correct pronouns??? Wild amiright

[prepdenile]

No it’s just that it’s a bad sign. Like badsjw does explain this I swear they aren’t a dick ab it.

[badsjw]

That’s what I was going for. It’s not that asking for pronouns is a bad thing, it’s just that it was a sign of how needlessly politically correct the class was going to be. I later discovered that I was completely justified in my hunch after the teacher went off on a Marine in the class for not being pc about his deployment experience.

[imoved5643347-deactivated201510]

why would i pay to get high when i could just listen to some of the shit that cis ppl churn out on this site bc yall r an experience

[counterreproductive]

what the fuck wow. asking for pronouns is good but asking for pronouns is bad. right..

[peaceloveandutility-deactivated]

being bi or pan isn’t ~more progressive~ than being gay lmao 

[spice2nite]

ok but it does present its own set of challenges, primarily people who try to erase the identity or people who try to discredit the identity like u

[peaceloveandutility-deactivated]

all of that happens to gay people too…

[chinese666-blog]

but bisexual and pansexual erasure is done by both gays and straights. they always think (dont give me the not all —– thing rn please) bi and pan people are just ‘confused’ and have to always be ‘one or the other’. thus bi/pan erasure exists even within the LGBTQAP+ community making it a problem that needs MORE fixing than the problems gay people SHARE with bi/pan. not putting oppression into competition here by saying bi/pan erasure > gay erasure, please dont mistake this.

[peaceloveandutility-deactivated]

literally all of what you said happens to gay people, even from bi/pan people.

[lookskindadeadinside]

*states that bi/pan issues need MORE fixing than homophobia targeted at lesbians or gays* “im not making oppression a competition tho”

[chinese666-blog]

aah sorry if i confused you! i probably confused alot of people with that. what i meant through the “bi/pan problems need more fixing” thing is half wrong (i read something someone wrote) but my overall argument was just that bi/pan people are taken more lightly for their self-assurance of identity than when a gay or lesbian person comes out.

[imoved5643347-deactivated201510]

Im a trans lesbian and when I come out literally no one respects my identity

[alwayshumancomic]

Why hello there OTP, long time no draw <3

[counterreproductive]

this is such a cute korrasami drawing oh my gaawwd looove this

[counterreproductive]

disabled people: please stop harassing us when you think we aren't disabled enough. we end up hurting ourselves in a bid to Function enough so we don't have to deal with you.

able people: no..... i have.. . you don't understand..... i have to ..... defeat the FAKERS

[imoved5643347-deactivated201510]

mogai blogger: yea im a cis guy dating a cis girl bu our relationship is still queer bc we dong have sex

[goth-sansa-deactivated20151109]

anyone who denies that gnc women experience a unique form of misogyny for not conforming to feminine beauty standards is gross and also wrong 

[counterreproductive]

police are a constant offense. theyre very existence is violence and the structures they uphold are violent. using law or europe or famous philosophers or absolutist morality to legitimize that violence is epistemic violence and only works to stifle armed resistance and self defense which are not distinctly separate things. principled antiviolence only legitimizes the ideologies of oppression. the oppressed have never made gains by appealing to their oppressors morality but have made gains by violently resisting the violence of domination that pervades most of our lives. murdering cops is self defense and absolutist nonviolence only stifles that already existing struggle just to survive from becoming effective collective armed struggle against the state.

[24karatdead]

jfc that pride-flags-for-us blog got a message that was like “im a partial woman and im only attracted to female aligned people what am i” and some mod on that blog was like “oh ur womasexual, it means ur attracted to women” like buddy theres a word for what youre talking about and its not fucking “womasexual”

[historian-bibliophile-deactivat]

If you want to be friends with me you don’t have to be “Hi, um, can, ya know, we be friends?”

It is 1000000000000000000000% percent ok if you just go into my inbox can go. “Man, I am so fucking pissed off at fucking Michael.” And I’ll most likely respond with, “Oh shit! What did Michael do now?“ 

[veinitas]

this is such a good post because asking ppl if you can be friends can make them feel so uncomfortable but if you approach them like this its SO EASY to start a conversation and let a friendship develop naturally

[homojabi]

honestly, if you feel attraction towards men but don’t want to date or be with them and instead want to date and be with women then you can be a lesbian. lesbian doesn’t need to mean “only experiences attraction to women”, it can mean “only feels comfortable, only prefers, and only prioritizes women & relationships with them”

[smuganimebitch-deactivated20170]

can people who are still using ‘monosexual’ as a serious word please stop pretending to give a shit about trans women 

when the language they use in grouping straight men and lesbians together is one that hurts trans women immensely and perpetuates ideas that the medical establishment has used to delegitimatize our womanhood and sexuality for decades

grouping straight cis men and trans lesbians together is exactly what the proponents of autogynophilia do so maybe if you’re gonna keep calling people “monosexuals” you can at least admit that you hate trans women too

[smuganimebitch-deactivated20170]

no i really want people who are still using “monosexual” as a coherent descriptive category to understand this 

telling a doctor you are a lesbian while being a trans woman can be fucking dangerous, we can be denied treatment, abused, have our womahood denied to us unless we agree to “try’ heterosexuality. Whenever I see someone talking about monosexuals and grouping straight men and lesbians together, all I can think of is the abuse that so many trans lesbians have gone through because their doctors do exactly that to them

you are hurting trans lesbians so much when you talk about monosexuals as if they’re one coherent class of people

[volcainist]

[dreamybrowngirl-deactivated2015]

Okay we can all have a good laugh and cheer at what went down tonight but in all seriousness what she was doing was calling out a white woman on her horribly patronizing, racist behavior. A white woman tried to silence and belittle a Black woman’s pain because she didn’t like how it was presented and proceeded to dismiss it because she was too angry. Miley condescended to her, telling a black woman how best to deal with something that she as a white woman will never have to deal with. And Nicki clapped back. On national television. In front of a live audience, in front of the world, on air.

If you think the media and its industries aren’t going to punish her for it then I need you to pay real close attention to her the next coming months, because you can bet she won’t have as many appearances or invitations, you can bet she will get even less recognition and even more criticism, you can bet most mentions of her will associate her with the Angry Black Woman stereotype without ever addressing why she was angry or recognizing that her anger was justified. They are going to make Nicki out to be the ultimate bad guy when the reality is she was defending herself-and by proxy, Black women in entertainer everywhere-against some serious displays of ignorance and racism. But you watch. Watch what’s going to happen to Nicki after this.

The clap back was hilarious, yes, but there is a reason Black people are celebrating it; because Nicki showed some serious courage. Black people, Black women especially, are expected to shoulder any and all abuse silently. She refused. At the end of the day, to these people, she is just a Black woman who is supposed to shut up and take whatever bullshit gets thrown at her. She isn’t supposed to defend herself, especially not if it means hurting white women’s feelings. Protect Nicki Minaj at all fucking costs. Support her at all costs, because she’s going to come under serious fire.

[sufjansontag]

my new inclusive acronym for our community is BBBYABNOYAFOS

[sufjansontag]

Blocked Blocked Blocked You’re All Blocked None Of You Are Free Of Sin

[bearnomadwizard]

20 minutes into activism and chill and he gives you this look

[boycottscps]

[counterreproductive]

if you can please find him and destroy him

he’s also a pedophile