Well it happened again....for the 3rd time now. I was officially ghosted/abandoned by my bf of 3 years on July 28th, 2021. I have not heard a word from him. I have messaged him on every single app I know that he has I have called him & left him voicemails & I even sent him an 8 PG letter in the mail. None of the messages I have sent him on FB Messenger have ever been opened...he has been active on the app though. He has added & accepted new friends...he’s been on TikTok & on Instagram. So at least knowing that I know he’s alive. I have reached out to certain ppl I know has contact with him & have heard nothing from them either. I spent 3 years of my life with a 41 year old man all to be forgotten. I have never been so hurt in my life & the shitty thing is is that I still love him. I want him to miss me I want him to reach out to me & tell me what happened. I have not reached out in almost one month which has been very hard for me. All of this has been an excruciating hell for me. How could someone who said he loved me do this to me? I don’t understand how anyone could ever do this to anyone. It is so cruel & fucked up to just wake up one day & decide to never speak to someone you spent so much time with & someone you claimed you loved & cared about. I don’t think I’ll ever recover from this.
