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[lewki]

LEWIS AND BONO - Post Race @ Silverstone 2024

[the-gay-goblin]

Only day you can reblog this

[artistformerlyknownasbutttrumpet]

i was training a young person at work, and she referred to sexual assault as "SA" out loud, and i immediately was like, "no, it's sexual assault, call it what it is," bc idgaf if the algorithm overlords have taught y'all that you should fear direct language, how tf do any of you expect to ever address real issues with any amount of seriousness if you can't even say the words? imagine an advocate looking a sexual assault survivor in the eyes and asking "did he grape you?" it's absolutely fucking absurd, but these young interns and new hires are coming into an environment where we deal with survivors of all different kinds of abuse, and they're coming with the mindset that the words are as bad as the actions, and that makes them shitty at the job and look juvenile af

i HATE self-censorship for a lot of reasons, but being in crisis work makes it even more frustrating. who are you censoring for? like i am being so fr, WHO are you censoring for? have you even thought it through? people who have been raped know that they have been raped. if someone attempts suicide or is grieving someone who did, saying "sewer slide" isn't going to protect them from any of the feelings. a murder victim's family isn't going to feel better bc you said "unalived" instead of murdered. if anything, it's just extremely invalidating and othering. it's saying "what happened to you is so bad that i won't even say the word," which is NOT trauma-informed care. you are not protecting survivors/victims when you self-censor. the ONLY things you protect when you self-censor are the puritanical ideologies that are being encouraged by rich fascists who want your money and obedience

say the fucking words, guys. just say the goddamn words before i go insane!!!

[messsssmer]

"Whimsy" is truly a wretched term. What maketh thee so carefree?

[fireknightqueelign]

thy mother

[messsssmer]

Art thou for fucking real

[throo]

Wh-what do you mean it’s from a birthday cake

[throo]

We could have been eating him

[pcktknife]

having a character you really really like thats permanently attached to some guy you don't care a lot about

[bituin-describes]

ID: A person in the snow taking a drag from a cigarette and sighing out the smoke despondently. They toss it onto the ground and run away. ED

[neyxmessi]

eyebrow slit >>>>>

[qqchurch]

[rickybabyboy]

teach me youre ability

[foxmulders]

it’s crazy how much you can read if you read

[lakevida]

the menstrual cup and menstrual scepter

[lakevida]

your majesty what is upppp

[currentlycryingaboutlancelot]

“yes, I’ve been wanting to read that!” I say with complete earnestness, as I proceed to ignore every opportunity I have to read it

[pelahnar]

“I’ve been meaning to read/watch/listen to that, but the stars are not in position, so I can’t do it yet”

[openingadoor]

[cradiot28]

MY PRINCE

[teathattast]

[swan2swan]

Where's that tweet about how American chants are "let's go [team name] and some other country (Irish?) fans are "I've made up a song about the other team's drinking problem to the tune of London Bridge Is Falling Down one two three"?

[luimnigh]

[ladydevoir]

[cradiot28]

It does not cease to amuse me how these manchildren, "boy mums" and misogynistic pieces of trash act the moment the criminal is a woman in any heterosexual relationship. Is it bad? Yes. But where are all these reactions when the victim is a man and the criminal is also a man?? I never see memes for that as well. Also the whole discourse about not marrying bcs women are scary. There's at least one woman facing domestic violence in the household which promised her safety as I type this.

Not to mention the whole "boy mum" drama about 'we can't marry off our sons anymore because what if she kills him'. Imagine if girl dads start doing the same 'We can't marry off our daughters anymore bcs what if she's raped, burnt to death, mauled to death, sold as a prostitute by her own husband, drugged to death, killed and raped, raped and killed'.

Ik everything is bad rn but the whole villianisation of women comes so fast to these misogynistic trashes whereas there's still struggle to acknowledge crimes against women without it being dismissed as "It's so sad but what can we do, hearing it only ruins the day"

[animalssittingoncapybaras]

Otter sits on a capybara