Bullshit Space

posting whatever the hell I want since 2/20/18 You may address me as "his eminence" but, frankly, I likely won't address you back. Be greatful that you were graced with my glorious, unyeilding insight.

[transgymbro]

You Might Not Be Normal About Trans Men If...

You think we all pass 100% of the time with no issues or effort

You don't think feminine trans men are "real" trans men

You assume we're all transitioning to escape misogyny

You think we aren't oppressed by society

You think our problems are inherently transmisogynistic

You think it's okay to reduce us to our genitals for any reason

You think masculine trans men being themselves are inherently toxic

You think us demanding to be seen and heard and have space within our own community is us being "MRAs" and "transmisogynists"

You think transandrophobia (the idea that trans men experience oppression based on their specific intersection of transness and gender) doesn't exist or inherently is transmisogynistic

You're only okay with trans men if they don't go on T and/or get surgery

You actively try to discourage trans men from going on T and/or getting surgery

You think the previous two points don't include bottom surgery

You think all trans men are bottoms

You think gay trans men are fetishizing gay cis men

You think all transmasc artists are inherently cringe/bad at what they do

You think transmascs only exist to uplift transfems

You think anyone presenting as masculine is inherently dangerous

You think that only men/masculine presenting people can be dangerous

You think that women/feminine presenting people are always safe

You don't think trans men are in danger when forced to use the women's restroom

You think that any oppression/discrimination transmascs face is "run of the mill transphobia" or "run of the mill misogyny"

You think anything I've said on this post means that transmisogyny isn't real or matters less

You're about to leave a comment on this post accusing me of being a transmisogynist or wanting attention or wanting to be oppressed

[crazybullshitspace]

Okay, real talk though,

Trans masc artists are like... on average really damn good artists? It's actually pretty weird. I mean, there is nothing about being trans or being a guy that would make you better at making the pretty lines, (you will be judged in your own time if you disagree, I see you.) but the pretty lines arise regardless from the seemingly unextrodinary soil.

I have genuinely seen more trans men in art spaces than I have anywhere else and they're all hella talented.

It's scary. Stop it.

[fuddlyduddly]

I love when trans people look back on their earlier art, its always so interesting

[crazybullshitspace]

Bianary trans woman are so facinating cause like, I both get it and do not at all get it.

✔️ Crushing feeling of existing that was so vauge until you spin it the right direction and then it's there. Plain as day. It all makes sense finally.

❌️ You want to be a *woman*? Why? For what purpose? That's appealing to you? Are you mad? You're upset with *masculinity*??

I just sort of assume they feel the same about me. They're all like "Ew, why would anyone want stubble? Men are gross! Beards are gross Dx" then I say "I like my stubble :D" and they all look uncomfortable and horrified, it's pretty funny ngl. Like, what are they gonna do? Argue?

[crazybullshitspace]

I hate my stupid ass banner but it's also just funny. I have absolutely no clue where I got it from 6 years ago so it's illegal to change it.

[fillejondrette]

can someone let boymoms know that these are normal baby things that pretty much all babies do regardless of sex

[fillejondrette]

this glorification of baby boys/being a boy mom actually has a lot in common with the "male loneliness epidemic." both rely on the idea that male feelings are deeper and more important than female feelings.

i see content from many sexist mothers on instagram. they tend to portray boy children as males who will love and appreciate you more fully than any man ever would. typical childhood exuberance is painted as male-specific; girls are too boring to rough house or get dirty. girls are portrayed as "mini besties" who you get to dress up and bring with you to starbucks or the nail salon. they're also useful for taking care of your younger kids!

[jeunefillerangee-deactivated202]

I believe a lot of women use their sons as a substitute for the love they don't receive from their husbands. That's what creates this weird relationship dynamic.

[crazybullshitspace]

"Emotional incest is the father's fault, aktually"

If one hell of a "woman can't have personalities and opinions. Everything they do is just based on how they're interacted with by men." Ass take.

Dumbass above her isn't any better.

"Male loneliness epidemic is just men thinking they feel more than woman" is either a take given by a vampire who has been asleep since 1940 or someone who genuinely also believes that "black lives matter" means "black lives matter more"

But, who am I kidding? When someone internalizes trauma (or just propaganda which, let's be honest, is actually where most of this is coming from. These aren't poor victims of anything other than radicalization) instead of working through it they can create moral blindspots that are obvious to anyone who isn't feral and insane. "Um, no it totally is diffrent. The people I hate irrationally are actually really evil" ass brainworms.

Blame it on the boggieman.

Just a shame that most people are unwilling to call that out until it gets too big.

[crazybullshitspace]

No, your favorite fantasy character would not look like a half baked portland barista in modern day. They have those in the fantasy land. Your favorite fantasy character has already shown the necissary quality of character to not look like that.

[crazybullshitspace]

I just saw an autistic person call neurotypicals fae and holy shit that's great.

I mean first off just the idea that unspoken social rules are like faery magic is hilarious to me.

Then on top of that you have the irony of where it's presumed the origional fae legend of stealing and replacing babies came from.

Then going off the rules thing, what are neurodivergent people who can read social cues? Are we human wizards communing with fae who may slip up sometimes? Are we half-fae who have elements of both fae-folk and non-fae?

(On top of that, do you think that the ideas of faery rules came from a misunderstanding of noble ediquite? Facinating.)

I love it, truely, unabashedly. If I had anyone to share it with I would share it.

Thank you random stranger. You made my day. I'll be thinking about this too much.

[kanelia]

Thinking about Maria MacLachlan's (PeakTrans) latest video and how she excellently described the process of a feminist left-wing women (like JK Rowling) becoming critical of the trans movement.

At first, you are basically in what she called a 'blissful ignorance'. Your opinion of the trans movement is "live and let others live". Then you start to notice little things that are just plain wrong, like men stealing trophies from women and lesbians being told they are not allowed to tell on a dating app that they are into females only.

So you decide to voice your opinion. You say something like, "I have nothing against trans people who just want to live their lives, but i find this [particular thing] harmful and unfair". You are assuming and fully expecting in your blissful ignorance, nothing more from it. Maybe a bit of debate, but mostly understanding since all these points you made are good points after all, and this is the self-proclaimed feminist LGB+ "be kind" brigade so the rights of women and gay people should matter, right?

Instead, you receive abuse. Not just any abuse, but misogynistic abuse, threats, doxxing, lies, twisting your words, and attempts to make you lose your lifelihood.

First, you are shocked, but then you start to feel angry. Angry and betrayed. You start to wonder how many others like you have been shut out and silenced by trans activists. You may start by looking up "that one woman" who you think was not entirely treated fairly, but you had earlier decided to accept the trans activists' version that she is just "a bigot".

You find out that despite trans activists vehemently claiming some things never happen, they do happen. They just willfully ignore them. You find out people criticising trans movement are feminists, LGB people, concerned parents, medical experts, and even trans people themselves. Trans activists just lie when they claim they are far-righters and conservatives. You find out they do not want trans people dead. It is the trans activists who send them death threats and show up to their events to "punch terfs".

And you become angrier, so you decide you will not be silenced. You decide to talk more and raise more awareness. The more you criticise and the more you share, the more abuse trans activists send to you. And the angrier you become.

Then the useful idiots see your anger and are convinced you are just a hater that should not be listened to. Why else would you be so angry?

[crazybullshitspace]

Yeah, really not all diffrent from the way that other right wingers get radicalized.

You have some basic design flaws, some misunderstandings like "men are taking trophies from woman" and try to express that.

Now, the left is rude. Full of assholes who have no idea how to reach out to people who are slipping into right wing ideologies. Completely disregard them, really. Sensitive people tend to be like that.

But people who think they are left wing tend to be like that too, so when two groups like that, terfs being wrong and sensitive and left wingers just being sensitive, you get fighting.

That drives the sensitive idiots, those who are most ready to become nazis, into the arms of nazis.

Big, bang, boom, you get the dumbass who made the video and the vast amounts of idiots who support her.

Do you think that's legitiment? Do you really believe you are any diffrent from those guys on the alt-right?

You're identical.

Bigoted, selfish, facist, and identical.

I find it a bit funny, really.

[kanelia]

Lol. These half-assed clap backs would be so much more effective if any of you even bothered to read the original post first.

First of all, I am not identical with 'other right-wingers' because I am not a right-winger at all: I am a leftie, and I guarantee I know a lot more about what makes someone a left-winger than you.

Contrary to yours and other pseudo-lefties' beliefs, the definition of a right-winger is not actually 'anyone who blindly does not agree with me and my pals'. People can and should look critically anyone or any movement no matter how much they are (or claim to be) within their political spectrum.

Men taking women's trophies is just a misunderstanding now? Come on. Anyone can easily fact-check that and find out it has happened. I am sure you can lie better than that.

Why do you just spawn to word vomit the same old tra nonsense? "You are a fascist, you are a bigot, you are a nazi, this never happens!!!" When will you learn it does not work on people who have had enough of your bullshit? You have eroded the meaning of these words so badly, that anyone getting called a nazi or a bigot or hearing someone else getting called those things on 2024, is just going to roll their eyes and move on. You have no idea what the big words you use actually mean, but you keep on throwing them around like spells.

"The left is rude". Thank you. This attitude is what made me actually become disillusioned with the modern left. You constantly scream about right-wing misogyny, death threats, homophobia, racism, disinformation campaigns, and so on, but when it happens on your ranks, you call it "being rude".

Lies are lies even when they are told by you. Political violence is still political violence when it is committed by you. And misogyny is misogyny even if it is against women you have deemed to be those who 'deserve' it . If you really had any core values, they would not fly out of the window the second it becomes convenient.

And still, you have the audacity to think you are so different from those far-righters you claim to hate.

[crazybullshitspace]

Try and think about it again, I see no reason to type out the same thing twice.

[kanelia]

Thinking about Maria MacLachlan's (PeakTrans) latest video and how she excellently described the process of a feminist left-wing women (like JK Rowling) becoming critical of the trans movement.

At first, you are basically in what she called a 'blissful ignorance'. Your opinion of the trans movement is "live and let others live". Then you start to notice little things that are just plain wrong, like men stealing trophies from women and lesbians being told they are not allowed to tell on a dating app that they are into females only.

So you decide to voice your opinion. You say something like, "I have nothing against trans people who just want to live their lives, but i find this [particular thing] harmful and unfair". You are assuming and fully expecting in your blissful ignorance, nothing more from it. Maybe a bit of debate, but mostly understanding since all these points you made are good points after all, and this is the self-proclaimed feminist LGB+ "be kind" brigade so the rights of women and gay people should matter, right?

Instead, you receive abuse. Not just any abuse, but misogynistic abuse, threats, doxxing, lies, twisting your words, and attempts to make you lose your lifelihood.

First, you are shocked, but then you start to feel angry. Angry and betrayed. You start to wonder how many others like you have been shut out and silenced by trans activists. You may start by looking up "that one woman" who you think was not entirely treated fairly, but you had earlier decided to accept the trans activists' version that she is just "a bigot".

You find out that despite trans activists vehemently claiming some things never happen, they do happen. They just willfully ignore them. You find out people criticising trans movement are feminists, LGB people, concerned parents, medical experts, and even trans people themselves. Trans activists just lie when they claim they are far-righters and conservatives. You find out they do not want trans people dead. It is the trans activists who send them death threats and show up to their events to "punch terfs".

And you become angrier, so you decide you will not be silenced. You decide to talk more and raise more awareness. The more you criticise and the more you share, the more abuse trans activists send to you. And the angrier you become.

Then the useful idiots see your anger and are convinced you are just a hater that should not be listened to. Why else would you be so angry?

[crazybullshitspace]

Yeah, really not all diffrent from the way that other right wingers get radicalized.

You have some basic design flaws, some misunderstandings like "men are taking trophies from woman" and try to express that.

Now, the left is rude. Full of assholes who have no idea how to reach out to people who are slipping into right wing ideologies. Completely disregard them, really. Sensitive people tend to be like that.

But people who think they are left wing tend to be like that too, so when two groups like that, terfs being wrong and sensitive and left wingers just being sensitive, you get fighting.

That drives the sensitive idiots, those who are most ready to become nazis, into the arms of nazis.

Big, bang, boom, you get the dumbass who made the video and the vast amounts of idiots who support her.

Do you think that's legitiment? Do you really believe you are any diffrent from those guys on the alt-right?

You're identical.

Bigoted, selfish, facist, and identical.

I find it a bit funny, really.

[iamlessierad]

person basically forcing other people to like all genitals and if you don’t attracted to one of them, „you are not valid”

what about lesbians? what about gays? straight people? you’re basically forcing the whole society to become bisexual 😭😭

[crazybullshitspace]

Real post is still up, and this person was shown a shit ton of disagreement. Downvoted to 0. Ratioed to shit.

Top comments dismiss her, comments agreeing are downvoted.

This sort of "crop out the engagment" thing is what chuds do all the time. It's a propaganda tactic to make the "enemy" seem stronger than they really are.

Here, you can look yourself:

[iamlessierad]

Why can’t person just wear “feminine” glasses without changing their gender?😭

[crazybullshitspace]

You can, this person wasn't. This person decided to explore this concept and wearing intentionally feminine clothing helped her do so.

She then came to the conclution, seperate but related to the glasses, that she wanted to be a woman.

In other words:

"I like this computer background :D I tried to change just the background initially, but I wanted something else in the end. Changing my operating system really helped! I like this new background a lot, and I think it goes well with my new opperating system's layout :D"

Complete fucking moron: "Why didn't you just change your background? 😭 You know you can use the old opperating system with the new background, right??? 😭😭😭 Your computer had windows built in! I only know how to change my background so that's all anyone should ever do!!"

I know metaphores are SUPER DUPER HARD but I believe you can at least whine about the real point if you try a little more.

[iamlessierad]

what happened to “I always feel that something wrong with me. oh and yeah, I played with dolls when I was a kid so I know from the very beginning I am trans”?

[crazybullshitspace]

Yes, bianary trans people do tend to idealize the experiance of being raised as the gender they identify as.

When trans woman do it you guys call it a fetish and when trans men do it you guys call it misogyny.

When a psycologist sees it they call it something like "a symptom of gender dysphoria"

When a normal person sees it they call it "a sympathetic longing for a fullfiling childhood"

And when another trans person sees it they can usually relate.

But what would all those silly doctors, humans, and related parties know about those things you think too much about?

🙄

[magicspeedwagon7]

i hate nothing more than transmasc pick-mes who compare other transmasc speaking about their oppression to 'men yelling at women'. if you're not capable of basic solidarity, you don't deserve to have a community. go fuck yourself!

[crazybullshitspace]

Correct but god I hate the term "pick-me"

At least give people the borderline respect to assume they're sincerely stupid and self distructive.

[sundazesun]

[crazybullshitspace]

You're allowed to say you are a woman because you were born a woman. This is a bit childish due to conflating sex and gender, but there's absoluetly nothing wrong with it. Plenty of people are cisgender. In fact, most people are. You should give some introspection a shot just to confirm with yourself and figure out what gender actually means to you, but you can still be a woman. Have fun.

You are, however, not allowed to say that sex is the only thing that determines gender. That would be something called "incorrect" or "stupid". Gender is an internal process and a social construct. Gender is also our societies understanding of what it means to be a "man" a "woman" or anything else. This is why trans people exist, because sometimes sex does not determine gender.

If you then harrass other people for a having correct understanding of psycology and sociology which you lack, that makes you even more incorrect and stupid.

I hope this helps.

[crazybullshitspace]

Still have no idea how to look at responces on here cause it just takes me to a blog when I click one, but a few dumbass terfs did call me a man ("men like you 😤😤😤!!1!1!1!1!!!" Kinda shit) in the first couple of words so that's hilarious.

Just assuming that I'm a guy (they're right! I'm a trans man!) because I'm better/smarter/cooler than them and devaluing their idiot ideology at the same time is adorable.

Loves, woman can also be smarter than you. I just happily happen to not be one. You should really deconstruct those sexist assumptions. 🤭

I hope they can still see what I say after I block them! I don't usually block them, but when I do it would be nice if they just had to live with it.

[crazybullshitspace]

Did figure it out, either gotta dig through the account or stumble upon the post again.

There is some beauty to this, some grace.

[evilwomendefender]

🤣🤣🤣 assuming you're a man because you're being an aggressive asshole isn't "cool" but whatever you want to believe go ahead

[icedoatmilkmatcha-deactivated20]

the adorable in pink lol. tell us more how you've decided to devalue and patronize women the same way misogynists do in the name of being a male. i want to rip your head off

[unsentimentaltranslator]

So these women gendered you the way you want to be gendered and…you’re still mad?? I’m starting to think y’all just don’t want to be called out when you say and do misogynistic things.

[crazybullshitspace]

Here's the thing: I never said I was a man. I never even said I was trans.

The fact that these woman are defaulting to sexist language against men because they don't like me, when these are the same people who were "gender critical" in the posts I was responding to, is funny. It's really funny. It shows how fundimentally flawed and bigoted the people who use radical (conserviative) "feminism" as an excuse are.

You can't even see past your own noses.

Disrespecting you in a way that makes you want to tell me to kill myself and threaten violence is just a tool to rile you up because it's funny too. Your whole idiot ideology centers around bioessentialism so really anything I say critisizing you will be seen as misogyny by people like you.

So, is pink feminine? I like pink. I think it's a cute color. I don't see why it would make you upset. :) Everyone's insides are pink.

I'm not really a nice person anyway (This is irregardless of gender) so I'd much rather just make you people unsettled and uncomfortable rather than failing to be reasonable.

And if I wasn't having a good time I wouldn't be doing it.

[sandwichsugarbong]

Joanne casually engaging in holocaust denial because she doesn't like acknowledging the fact that trans people have always existed and been oppressed.

It's honestly a matter of time before she outs herself as a nazi.

[antiyourwokehomophobia2]

Idk who needs to hear this, but that girl in high school who was mean to you is not proof that women commit the same atrocities that men do

[crazybullshitspace]

Honestly, this did make me think.

It made me think about the type of person you have to be to confuse a whole ass gender with systematic oppression instead of understanding what a social construct is. (And it made me think of how shallow you have to be to make that mistake.)

It made me think about how screwed up the gathering and interpriation of statistics can be if you fundimentally have bias and how much that has historically and contemperarily warped psycological and sociological data.

It made me think about how disrespectful and demeaning someone has to be to a group reduce real, genuine issues that people experiance to anomolies while taking similar issue levied by their in-group seriously.

It made me think about how similar misogynists and misandrists (and really all bigotries) are at the end of the day.

[crazybullshitspace]

Still have no idea how to look at responces on here cause it just takes me to a blog when I click one, but a few dumbass terfs did call me a man ("men like you 😤😤😤!!1!1!1!1!!!" Kinda shit) in the first couple of words so that's hilarious.

Just assuming that I'm a guy (they're right! I'm a trans man!) because I'm better/smarter/cooler than them and devaluing their idiot ideology at the same time is adorable.

Loves, woman can also be smarter than you. I just happily happen to not be one. You should really deconstruct those sexist assumptions. 🤭

I hope they can still see what I say after I block them! I don't usually block them, but when I do it would be nice if they just had to live with it.

[crazybullshitspace]

Did figure it out, either gotta dig through the account or stumble upon the post again.

There is some beauty to this, some grace.