Cremecheezy

Just a nerd who likes to draw and make comics sometimes. Aroace, nonbinary, and who knows what else but don't worry about that.

[cremecheezy]

I was disappointed when I couldn't see cheerleader Sakuya with pom-poms....so I fixed it with 5 minutes

Hatoful Boyfriend my beloved

[specialagentartemis]

Aro and ace activism is housing reform, is well-funded public housing, is an expansion of affordable housing, is allowing single people to get affordable and public housing, is rent controls to make it possible for single people to be able to afford to live alone on a single salary.

Aro and ace activism is healthcare reform, so that no one needs to rely on a spouse for health insurance, so that healthcare is available to everybody regardless of income, so that no one’s lived experiences or basic dignity are dismissed or overridden by doctors

Aro and ace activism is well-funded and expansive public transit, so that you don’t need to have someone on hand to drive you places if you are incapacitated, so that you don’t have to pay for an ambulance if you need to get to the hospital quickly

Aro and ace activism is disability and elder care services, so that no one needs a spouse to care for them, so that no one needs children to care for them, so that marriage is not a bind for disabled people, so that people on disability who want to and can live alone can

Aro and ace activism is community-building, it’s public events, it’s free social activities, it’s mutual aid, it’s activities that bring community members together without socializing relying on just a romantic partner

Aro and ace activism is developing a culture of believing when people tell you who they are and what they want rather than assuming you know them better than they know themselves

Aro and ace activism means a better world for people without “normative” desires or “normative” social support, which means a better world for everybody

[aro-ace-chaos]

I’m so tired of the “why do people hate aspecs, they aren’t doing anything?” argument. I know that it is an attempt to support us, but it fails so spectacularly to understand aromanticism, asexuality, and any other aspec identity that it’s actively frustrating.

We are doing something. We’re rejecting allonormative ideals and that’s a massive thing to do. We’re actively fighting not just to help other aspecs, but to help everyone, because amatonormativity (and allonormativity as a whole) hurt everyone. Single people who want to find a partner but can’t also deserve to be able to exist.

There are so many issues with the expectation of marriage, including:

A single income isn't enough to get by anymore

Having a spouse is almost necessary under the current medical system

Society shames and pressures people who are single to get into relationships constantly

Rejecting allonormativity means fighting against these things that hurt everyone.

So, no, aces and aros and other aspecs aren't "doing nothing." We're doing quite a lot.

[cremecheezy]

Do you ever just?

[cremecheezy]

as an artist, I can keep growing if I keep making art

as a person, I continue to grow, if I continue to learn

as a human...why can't I grow taller??? huh??? I have the motivation but???

[cremecheezy]

i've been so confused lately and can't keep track of everything. weird. it's like I can't think straight...

this is how I know June is coming.

[cremecheezy]

being straightsplained queer concepts is so annoying. trust me mate I *know* my people more than you assume I do.

"you're so defensive on LGBTQ topics, are you trying to discriminate--" no sharon au contraire I'M CORRECTING THE HARMFUL COMMENTS YOU MADE PRIOR because I'M LITERALLY A QUEER.

[cremecheezy]

Look out for that ball...

Stellaglow x Omori Crossover Series (Pt. 1/5)

Here are the original characters: Popo and Kel

[cremecheezy]

being friends is drawing them in a fit they'd like and in a positive way

being besties is making them shorter to reflect the real-life height difference

[justanotherfanfolks]

Day 14:

How I choose the meme:

Me: *sits thinking super hard about a meme because there are so many*

Me: *jolts up remembering the perfect one*

Boys, girls, non binary pals, and fluid buddies, I give you:

This one is special.

This is mine:

[aspecmemesdaily]

Day 678

[cremecheezy]

happy green day everyone!

i know st patty's is more of an Irish celebration thing but I'm not Irish, i'm aromantic and all I can think is *green* so

green day. pinching people immediately

[a-silly-thing]

I have a platonic crush on my friend and it’s an interesting feeling.

Like I definitely don’t want anything romantic out of it, and I don’t think I want anything queer platonic either. I just want to be closer with him and I want to exist with him in a close platonic context.

It’s not really a bad feeling. It’s just a different feeling. I just care about him a lot and he cares about me and it’s really nice.

I think the only bad thing is that my brain has kind of latched onto him in a way, and it feels a little overwhelming. Like it’s hard to think about much else and it just feels odd and it’s a lot.

IDK if any of that makes sense but I wanted to put it somewhere instead of just letting it sit in my brain.

[grootficguy]

“Every Pokemon is someone’s favourite” I’m making a spreadsheet to see if this is true. Reblog with your favourite Pokemon in the tags.

Here’s the spreadsheet in-progress

[grootficguy]

Ok, mother of GOD that's a lot of responses and I am but one man with Excel. I'll update these ASAP but also some rules:

A Pokemon only counts for itself, not its evolution line.

A Pokemon with multiple forms (like Zygarde) will only be counted for the specified form. A Pokemon with multiple appearances (like Spinda, Vivillon, Sylvally, etc.) count for all their appearances.

I'm literally doing this as a testament to my own depression that not everyone is lovable, so add that to the weight of this post's meaning.

[cremecheezy]

this brightens my Monday

love you tumblr

[cremecheezy]

hi everyone have a box of discount chocolates and celebrate aro week!!

it's so nice of the companies to bring down their prices on our behalf <3

[cremecheezy]

my to-do list this Saturday:

take care of my boring responsible things

send virtual friendship cookies and messages to all my amazing friends telling them why I appreciate them <3

give myself some self-love and sneaking chocolate

hopping on Tumblr and doing my share of raising the aro tag

no reason, just felt like doing all those things today :)

[cremecheezy]

the companies call it clearance after valentine's

i say it's us aros getting a discount on chocolate for our week <3