Yes, this is a callout post.
So i’ve been around for a very long time on here. I’ve not been doing the best emotionally but there is someone who’s basically been creepily stalking me for a long ass time now and recently they did something which is super not fucking OK. I don’t want to do this, but after their recent behaviour, I am sick of dealing with them.
This person is StimminArtio, a.k.a @apex-star​ on tumblr.
For those who don’t know, early last year I dated them for a month after being friends for awhile. Fine right? Until they tried pushing me into having a family with them and mentioning marriage in a barely month old relationship- which I wasn’t comfortable with, so I broke it off.
Only, they didn’t really get the hint. To summarise a very drawn out story, I really tried being friends, and they continued to be overbearing to the point they were sending anonymous requests for fanfics back when I wrote them. I did such a thing, and they picked it apart and tore it to shreds for details that weren’t 100% accurate.Â
I blocked them on all media platforms, not wanting to talk to them anymore as they had become a drain on my mental health and I was already in a very dangerous suicidal mindset because of my own issues at the time. Did they listen and respect my wishes?
NO. They went to EVERY MUTUAL FRIEND WE HAD AND ASKED THEM TO SEND ME MESSAGES ON THEIR BEHALF. I have SO many friends I can get to vouch for this happening! So fucking many! In the end, I had to unblock them and put it bluntly why the fuck I didn’t want to speak to them Let me show you the messages I sent to them as a result. That’s right ladies and gents! I have RECEIPTS.
Did they listen?? Of course they didn’t.
So. This individual ignored literally EVERY SIGN to leave me alone, to stop talking to me, completely disregarded my mental health despite me having been HOSPITALISED. FOR SUICIDE WATCH.
Oh, it only gets even worse. In the past week, they found out I was dating my gorgeous boyfriend. Not only do I get their partner Mags or whatever the fuck in my DMS trying to ‘warn’ me about my boyfriend (who by the way lied to me about adding me randomly from an apex server), but then they start making fake accounts pretending to not be them and harass my boyfriend, THEN OFFER TO BE FRIENDS AGAIN AFTER TELLING THEM TO BREAK UP WITH ME BECAUSE ITS SELFISH????
They then had the audacity to tell my partner not to tell me. Which, i think fucking not? We tell each other literally everything. So, you can understand my problem that this piece of human garbage after causing my boyfriend so much harm, is STILL IN THE COMMUNITY. LYING ABOUT ME, SAYING I WAS THE ONE WHO MADE THEM AFRAID TO BE POLY. Which is real funny because they told me their ex before me was the one who did that.
They’re actively trying to sabotage people, and had absolutely no reason to contact my boyfriend previously until they saw they were with me!!!
If you need more evidence, I have so fucking much of it. I have archives of messages saved, witnesses and testimonies from so many people I know about how fucking terrible a person they are. All in case this parasite ever came creeping back into my life again, Guess what? They did, along with their shitty little partner. So now they forced my hand.Â