Sirius Black is one of the most complex characters in the entire series and his complexity lies precisely in his ability to embody seemingly contradictory traits:
He can be 100% loyal and 100% independent at the same time
He gets people. Like, really gets them ā their boundaries, their emotions, his emotional intelligence is incredibly high ā and he knows exactly how to respect those boundaries, but he can also cut you down with words that hit exactly where it hurts
A very clear sense of whatās good and bad, but with very broad boundaries for the methods he can use to achieve that āgoodā
Total indifference to peopleās adoration, but at the same time a deep-rooted belief that heās not enough ā he thinks he has to be useful to be loved
The ability to love deeply without the need to possess the person he loves
A kind and golden heart, but zero tolerance for pity ā either for himself or for others. To pity means to demean. To pity means stripping a person of their dignity
Heās caring, but never overprotective. He thinks helping someone means giving them tools or knowledge ā making them stronger and more capable, not weaker
He can be the life of the party or the biggest āgrimā in the room, and everyone around him feels it
Very handsome, but he couldnāt care less about it
Attractive in every sense, almost magnetic, but also unapproachable
VERY proud, but itās almost impossible to truly humiliate or offend him (Dumbledore, my love, Iām staring right at YOU. Youāre the one who actually managed to humiliate him ā and not just once, but over an entire year)
Hates his family. Loves his family
Hates being a Black. At the same time ā the most Black Black
This fandom has no idea what they're missing when they reduce him to just an aggressive idiot or a soft clown and crybaby