[littlejohndescendant]

Littles are supposed to be childish

Recently i have stumbled across a submissive, and she is a good friend of mine now. It upsets me to see her cry, get angry, and feel neglected by her Dom. I don’t know the whole story so i am not picking sides. But:

•Littles in general are supposed to be clingy, i wouldnt have it any other way if i had a little •Littles are supposed to be “cutely annoying” at that point its not even annoying, wake me up by poking my cheeks 17,000 times. I will hug the stuffing out of you •Littles do have a lot of anxiety, i mean come on, if you had a paci, a stuffies, and quite possibly a diaper, and you had to leave your home and go be “big” it kind of ruins your mood •Littles have a tendency to think you are off gallivanting with someone else if you don’t text them at least 3 times a day “good morning” Afternoon i am still alive" and “Goodnight Cutie, sleep well” (this is specifically to distance) •Littles are some of the most precious things on the planet, when they light up about something they are happy about, it is the most adorable thing of all time.

To all the “Daddies/Mommies” out there who dont take the time to take care of your littles, you should probably stop being their Dom for their sake. You probably just like the name during sex, where as being a Daddy/Mommy means to be their Role model, teacher, and Care Giver, this is more then a sex thing. This is CG/L, this is important to me, and a lot of us out here.

[love-affliction]

- I want bedtimes - and be told what to eat - I want to be told what to wear and helped get dressed in the morning - I want to be bathed and made sure I’m all squeaky clean - I want to be able to throw my little kid tantrums and then be punished for it - I want to be stubborn and get warned about following the rules - I want to be told exactly what to do and when/how to do it - I want to have affection constantly shown to me and remind me - I want to be able to please my daddy everyday and make him extremely happy

[immabitchprincess]

It'd be better to color sitting on a lap and getting praised about it 🥺

[onelittlekingdom]

Reasons Why Little Girls Need Rules:

1. Rules give structure which is very comforting to a submissive mind. To be able to see what is expected, and what is forbidden, allows a little girl to navigate the relationship easily, and with less stress. 

2. Rules remind a submissive who is in charge. Whether she is obeying them, or breaking them, Daddy put them there, and she is reminded that every time she navigates around them, or takes one off the shelf and breaks it. 

3. Rules are useful tools to improve your submissive’s life, and make her a better person. Don’t like that she keeps a messy room? Make a rule that changes that. Don’t like that she eats sweets before bed, and that it makes it hard for her to fall asleep? It must be rule time. Rules help Dominants take care of their littles, because we can’t expect them to take care of themselves all the time.

JD🌹

[sirsadistic]

12 Reasons I need to have a Dominant in my life

1.) I need the structure and rules in order to feel fulfilled.

2.) I need to have someone to care for and be valuable to

3.) I crave the intensity of D/s interactions

4.) The feeling of ownership makes me feel safe and free

5.) Having someone in my life who is willing to push my boundaries has made me a better person

6.) I need someone who craves me and wants me just as much as I do them and I have not found that in the vanilla world

7.) I need to be held accountable for my actions in a way that only a D/s relationship can provide

8.) I love having a person who will take me down dark paths of desire

9.) I have desires that require absolute trust in order to be fulfilled

10.) I crave that moment when I can finally let go and fully submit and my mind finally quiets

11.) Sometimes I just need the feelings of hands on my throat or buried in my hair and the whisper of “You are Mine” in my ear

12.) Pain is an incredible turn on and I have yet to meet a vanilla who understands why I want it

[quinndarkness]

🖤💜

[yoursubmissive46]

[queersadistic]

I want you to sit in my lap while you’re scrolling your dashboard, with my hand between your thighs and my chin on your shoulder, whispering soft things into your ear. Sometimes casual commentary on the posts you’re seeing but mostly - and more likely - I’d be asking if you like what I’m doing, with my hand between your legs, stretching you open and working you with incessant, insistent speed; telling you what a good pet you are, rocking up into my fingers and against my palm -

I want to do this for hours. I want to let you relax and thumb your phone while you’re grinding back against me, until you can’t even focus on what you’re looking at. I want you biting at your lower lip and squeezing your thighs together and arching your back so I can get a better angle on you, so I’m hitting all your favorite spots. I want you to forget what you’re doing and just fuck yourself on my hand, rough and desperate and needy.

Tell me when you’re close, so I can keep you there, in the span of hunger between heartbeats, aching and needing. I like it best when you want it so bad it hurts, when you’re sobbing because you need it, because you want it, because it’s all you can think of –

I want to do this so much that even when I’m not behind you, you can’t help but think of me when you start scrolling your dash.

[onelittlekingdom]

Dinner with Pip

080818 • Camera A • @tooprettytolive

https://onlyfans.com/tooprettytolive

[cutie-bootie-chronicles]

Sometimes I think I'm making progress as an adult. Other times I get depressed and sleep in my contacts for 3 days in a row 🤷‍♀️

[cutie-bootie-chronicles]

Or weeks and weeks in a row with no end in sight

[just-shower-thoughts]

The longer we interact with someone, the sadder we’ll be when they’re gone

[herliegespetkitten]

Or happier, it all depends

[sashaburns]

HOW HE TREATS YOU IS HOW HE FEELS ABOUT YOU. DON’T TRY TO DECODE IT OR MAKE EXCUSES ITS SIMPLE. IF HE ACTS LIKE HE DON’T CARE, HE DON’T CARE.

[lg-secretsx-deactivated20240808]

What do you guys think about the D/s hierarchy?

sub’s needs

Dom’s needs

Dom’s wants

sub’s wants

Opinions?

[soulformyowner-deactivated20250]

I used to subscribe to this, but my thoughts have evolved in the last few months as my Master and I lean evermore into our partnership, relating as two human beings rather than grounding our relating in our power-exchange roles.

I hold that 1 & 2 are equal. If both parties aren’t getting their needs met equally, what’s the point? Sometimes Doms are under immense amounts of pressure to perform well for their subs; a service Top can easily get swept away or deprioritize their own needs (especially when the Community mythos, as displayed in this hierarchy meme, revolves around making sure the sub specifically is taken care of). IMO, a Dom should be able to get their needs met simply by nature of their station (just command what you need, lol). Likewise, a sub should be self-aware enough to know their needs and self-possessed enough to advocate for them getting met.

[lg-secretsx-deactivated20240808]

Interesting. By this logic I feel like everyone’s wants should also be weighed equally? Or do you think Dom’s wants should be prioritized?

[amysubmits]

I occasionally share the hierarchy because I believe it has some beneficial uses. Mainly, I think it is a good tool for recognizing when a dynamic overall is rather imbalanced. 

For example, if a dom is trying to convince their sub that the subs needs and wants don’t matter, then the hierarchy can help the sub t recognize that their dom is being a douche. 

Or, in other cases the sub may think that they are basically the little princess and that their dom should cater to their every whim…and so being reminded that the dom’s wishes come before the subs wishes, can be helpful for that, too. 

But…I also just feel like if taken at face value, applying the hierarchy in a realistic way requires a lot of nuance. 

In my view, the goal of any loving relationship should be to try to meet everyone’s needs and wants. I think the hierarchy really only needs to come into play when needs and/or wants contradict each other. 

So the only time that the dom’s needs would be put on the back burner would be if they can’t meet the subs need and the doms needs at the same time. And then hopefully once the subs needs are met, then the next priority would be to circle back to the dom’s needs and meet those. 

But the other aspect is that not all needs are equal, especially with the way we talk about needs within D/s. Nobody needs D/s to survive so of course it’s never literal needs…D/s needs are more about what we need to be as fulfilled as possible. So if a subs needs and doms needs contradict, but the doms need is like a basic human need or survival need (like…he’s sick or injured and needs to rest), and the subs need is a fulfillment need (like ‘I need an orgasm’ or ‘i need a spanking’) then the doms need should come first in that scenario because it’s clearly a more important need. 

So to me…the hierarchy has a place…but it’s only when needs contradict, and only when needs that contradict are of equal weight. Which in practice is pretty rare. For us it has been, anyway. 

[mockiatoh]

You can’t deserve a person’s love. You’ll drive yourself crazy thinking like that. They either love you, or they don’t. That doesn’t mean you weren’t good enough for them to love you, because love isn’t something you earn by being good enough. It isn’t something that can be quantified or doled out. Don’t blame yourself for not being loved how you need to, just teach yourself how to look for love where love lives.

[mockiatoh]

This isn’t just about romantic love, or even skewed towards romantic love, although it does apply there too. One of the hardest things I’ve ever had to accept is that my mother simply wasn’t someone who was capable of loving me, and there is no version of me that I could have ever been that would have earned that love. But with acceptance came healing. I was able to love myself more instead of resenting myself for not being more than any one person could be.

[mockiatoh]

Are you listening? Even love for yourself isn’t earned. It is a kindness you give yourself.

[the-majestic-cheese-turtle]

Love is a decision.

[lildinonugget]

😏😌💔

[thirsty-girl-stuff-returns-deac]

We are very simple easy to please creatures 🥰

[cutie-bootie-chronicles]

If you're too "busy" to give them the tiniest bit if attention you probably shouldn't have a little to start with

[dressedincotton-deactivated2022]

He steps out into the rain and jogs around to the passenger side to open my door. Holding the umbrella he offers me his hand. “Lets go. They’re here already. Oh and girl? Watch the gutter” Hearing him call me girl in this strange context causes a warm feeling to wash over me and it’s not embarrassment. I feel truly seen. Valued. At home.

Looking down at the gutter a small river has formed and I awkwardly step over it. We huddle together keeping as dry as possible.

The bookstore is so warm inside and I’m unable to help myself from running my fingers along the rows of cloth covered spines, feeling the debossed titles. I can see he is in a hurry so I follow behind in a ridiculous trot to keep up with his large strides.

The restaurant is at the back. It’s dimly lit with candles on the table. He gives the maître d the booking name and we are directed to the table where our company are already waiting. There was a time where these kinds of occasions felt like “playing vanilla” but I have come to see and appreciate all the ways Master is still Master when we’re out in the world and going about our daily lives. We have our own language, in a way.

Our company are studying the menu. I’m daydreaming when I feel his hand on my elbow. Once he has my attention he taps his wine glass subtly. I fill it feeling grateful that he didn’t just give up on me and fill it himself for the sake of convenience. When the waiter arrives Master orders for me and for himself. I ask him “wine?” with slightly raised eyebrows and he nods so I fill my own glass along with his. The food arrives and I wait for him to take a bite before I start.

When it’s time to go I ask if we can look in the bookstore on our way out. He agrees and tells me to choose some things to buy, too. “Okay, thank you” I say absentmindedly as I start to wander away from him. He grabs me by the wrist roughly and pulls me in against him so I can nuzzle into his chest.

“Thank you what?” He says, his voice stern and low though his eyes are sparkling.

“Thank you, Daddy.”

[cutie-bootie-chronicles]

1 year.

Its been 1 year since I've posted anything personal, anything of substance, anything "meaningful". It's been a year and nothings changed but somehow everything has.

Someone asked me today if 2021 has been better then 2020 and I genuinely couldn't answer.

I dont recognize myself or my life anymore. I'm no stranger to hard things but for some reason I keep avoiding them. Maybe it's time for me to put on my big girl panties and get my shit together.... now only if I can remember which corner I flung them into...

[a-sweetheart-being-40-deactivat]

This. Always this!!!

[blue-eyed-country-angel]

ALWAYS

[paganscissors]

I was finally able to get some cage time this weekend 🥰

[paganscissors]

To everyone saying it looks cozy, it really is 😭 Some fuzzy blankets and stuffed animals make a world of difference (but can also easily be removed for less comfort when necessary 😈)