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[queersadistic]

R.S. | 40s | they/she

you may call me Sir

queer | bi dyke, die mad | t4t

switch by nature, Dom/me by choice

wizard with words ready to wreak havoc

☆In July of 2023, I began investing heavily in my community. If you want to kink with me, I'm not hard to find.

sideblogs: queerdomsuggestions | monsterfuckerunlimited

+ : sadomasochism, shibari, impact play, knife play, edging, denial, overstimulation, praise, worship/deification, marking, ownership, free use toys, hypnotism/conditioning, bimboification, monsterfucking, somnophilia, piss play, musk

DMs from mutuals encouraged, I won’t apologize for wrecking you. (if we arent mutuals you can send me an ask)

{anything tagged #toy bait: i want to do this to you}

DNI:

cishets

minors (this is a NSFW blog)

My OC is tagged #q speaks; all the asks I’ve responded to are #q answers.

BDSM safety is important to me.

[nutbuster7000]

(shouting over the loud music to the guy next to me at a crowded bar) no no listen. there's two types of piss kink, okay? there's the wetting kind and the golden showers kind. the wetting kind is all about loss of control. desperation. it's about surrendering yourself to your irresistible physical urges. it makes pissing a submissive act. sit back down i'm not finished. the golden showers kind is about pissing as a dominant act. it's about degradation. objectification. turning a person with agency into something dirty to be used for relief. there's overlap between the two but both can be used to reinforce different power dynamics in bdsm contexts. where are you going

[otarope]

Wonderful sounds from Stapler_Teeth. Stapler_Teeth の素晴らしいサウンド。 ผลงานเพลงอันยอดเยี่ยมจาก Stapler_Teeth

[godiscoming]

I need someone who is desperate for abuse. I want them to crawl back to me after I kick their ribs in. I want them to kiss my hands and up my shoulders while I caress each scar I messily carved into their flesh.

I need to transform them into something pathetic and vile. I need to make them cry themselves to sleep while I rest peacefully. I need to isolate them socially until they depend on me for interaction. I need to completely ruin their life.

[biteriskgirl]

dick from a girl thats trying to chew through her muzzle to get at your neck

[biteriskgirl]

you invest in a stronger metal muzzle (smart), the frustration makes for great sex but it is a little unnerving feeling the cold bars pressed against your jugular all the time and hearing her teeth going chomp chomp chomp chomp chomp

[yourgodvalentine]

btw using a vibrator on a bruise right after impact play is a great way to keep the pain going. it can even be more excruciating than actually receiving the bruise <3

[hdbgdvnxf]

oh my fucking god

[karmicthoughts]

I'm keeping that in mind.

One of the toys I own have a very strong vibration on a precise spot (hyphy from lovense), it sounds perfect for that.

[fromthebloodychamber]

Ok now imagine slapping me

[peachincubus]

Hop in the shower with me?

[sapphiccstuff]

you know what i like? when you are fingering a girl and she starts cumming really hard and tries to pull your hand away so you have to tighten your grip on her throat and remind her that you will tell her when you are fucking done

[fleshengine]

Okay because I am horrifically indecisive,

Do I make those 3d printable ankle cage?

Yeah do it

No, that's dumb

Voting ended onMar 20

Found them through this post but here's pics of them.

Thingiverse link

I think this would be a fun thing to have, but sizing it for my feet and wrangling my 3d printer would be a hassle. Plus it might be a waste of filament.

[fleshengine]

This having 28 votes and two reblogs is annoying. What ever happened to "reblog for reach" I'm trying to do the funny public humiliation that all the cool girls do on here.

Anyway uhh... reblog for reach I guess. If I get enough I might consider wearing them long term.... >~<

[littlespacecaseart]

Open for Commissions

$25 an hour for things to be used for personal use DM me or email me for commercial use art Contact: [email protected] I prefer to work with marker, great for badges!

I can also create telegram stickers! (Usually $25 each)

I can also do reference sheets!

Other art examples:

[d3monl0ver]

“whatever you want” is not an expression of desire, it isn’t even a surrender, it’s a withholding of desire and an offloading of the work of communication and negotiation onto the other person.

[softdomsworld]

being dominant about consent

“look at me.”

“you don’t get quiet when something’s wrong. you use your words. i need to hear you.”

“does this feel good, sweetheart? tell me.”

“i won’t guess. you’ll guide me. that’s how this works.”

“may i touch you here?”

“if you hesitate, i stop. immediately.”

“i want your yes. not your silence.”

“say it clearly for me. green, yellow, or red.”

“good girl. that’s it. always tell me.”

“you trust me because i make it safe to.”

“i’m in control, but you are never powerless.”

“if it stops being good for you, it stops. no questions. no disappointment.”

“your comfort is not optional.”

“you’re mine to guide, not to harm.”

“now come here. and tell me exactly what you want.”

[puppygirllaika]

I'm not experienced enough to speak authoritatively of this, but I feel like if you're doing RACK stuff that's potentially harmful either physically or emotionally, both domme and sub alike should have people in their lives besides each other that they can talk to about it instead of just each other. People whom they can both trust to take it with the nuance and understanding it deserves, and to not treat it like an inherent reason to dissolve the relationship or spread information about it around. Like, if something bad happens, it's probably gonna fuck *both of you* up. and you might not have the capacity to be fully emotionally available to support each other through that right away. and having outside people to go to who you can trust to say "oof, i'm sorry that happened, I know you knew the risks but it still definitely sucks when things go sideways. let's get you healing up a bit so you can discuss it with each other safely and figure out how to move forward." seems kinda important. It feels like an important part of addressing those risks.

[ace-trainer-alice]

it is kinda a problem though. someone will show a particularly cute pain response. squirming, whimpering, quivering, writhing, even crying sometimes. and i will be visibly thinking about those noises for the next half hour or until I get distracted. which isn't usually considered to be polite.

[ambroseaphrodisiac]

god im still thinking about the show dog thing. being strapped down and put on display and just being soooo obedient about it because im getting so much attention and I wanna make my owner proud. genuinely just obsessed with the idea of people talking about me and touching me like im not even there, like I don’t have any say in it. because why should a dog like me have any say?

[fangkissed]

I’m obsessed with the idea of having the best behaved and prettiest mutt. I want to spend the whole dog show being hard on my pup, striking their inner thighs with a riding crop to get them to spred further and show off their holes, dressing them up in the finest collar, making sure their coat is perfectly groomed, not a hair out of place. I want other owners to ask what my secret is- how I train them so good.

There is no secret- the key is to make your puppy want to win. To want to make me proud. After they get first place, I take puppy home and give them a special treat all while wearing their blue ribbon. My little best in show. Pushed hard- then spoiled rotten.

[pervhog]

Do you fuck with sadist doms who aren't always scary and brooding and tough but instead really jovial and clingy?

[pervhog]

Do you fuck with sadists that aren't always necessarily into gore and violence but rather giggle and smile and cry over how fun it is to manipulate you physically? Sadistic torture can be fun for everyone involved whether or not you want it to be !