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It’s easier for the brain to repeat the past than to accommodate a new experience
I feel like everyone is trying to be the same person
And what makes it worse is that these same people claim to be "authentic." 🙄
Promised I’d share my therapy resources w you guys if it’s anything that catches my eye / I find helpful… I’m going to purchase the physical copy of this book today if any girls w disorganized attachment want to read in tandem with me <3
Jeannette Chaves, Nelly Flap Your Wings (2004)
Ludacris What’s Your Fantasy ft. Shawna (2000)
Grey's Anatomy 6.02
Goodbye
april being terrified, screaming and crying because she thought she had lost jackson in that bus explosion??? matthew you should’ve known right there mind you she was newly engaged
As a first-time Avatar viewer, I think Jake and Neytiri look really beautiful together. 🥺
you could’ve do that before her wedding ceremony, honey
GENTLEMEN PREFER BLONDES 1953 — dir. Howard Hawks
SOPHIA LOREN as Epifania Parerga
The Millionairess(1960)
Candice Patton as Iris West on THE FLASH
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How to Write an "Authentic" Character
Authenticity - the quality of being true to yourself and your beliefs.
Being authentic means acting in alignment with your inner values and character, rather than allowing your adaptive self—the behavioral drive to fit in with other human beings like friends, family, or co-workers—to dictate everything you do.
Authentic people won’t try to be like anyone else or hold back their honest opinions.
Instead of engaging in people-pleasing behaviors, an authentic person’s actions, thoughts, and intentions align with who they are.
How to Be an Authentic Person
Anyone can live an authentic life, but it may take hard work. Some tips to become a more genuine person:
The bandwagon hate that Iris West-Allen stills gets today from antis, over two years after CW’s The Flash ended, directly stems from the fact that the character antis actually want to be mad at, but can’t be, is Barry Allen, and the reason they’re so mad is that Barry Allen spends all nine seasons of CW’s The Flash completely and utterly in love with Iris. Like it’s not just that The Flash is nine seasons of Westallen’s love story, it’s that Barry Allen does not waver an ounce from his love for Iris. He is in love with her before the show’s timeline even begins, and he falls more deeply in love with her for the show’s duration. But these racist antis cannot possibly be angry with the titular lead, on whom they try to project their own feelings that don’t even remotely align with the way in which the titular lead is written, so of course they project all their hate and anger onto Iris, when what is at the root of their hate is that the show right from the beginning clearly established that Barry is in love with Iris, and then enforcing that this is the case each and every season. It’s the sheer strength of Barry’s love for Iris and the unequivocal fact that his love for her never wavers. Antis still cling to Patty Spivot, a character that briefly dated Barry and whom he forgot seconds after she left, while completely ignoring that Barry treated her poorly during the actual relationship, because for him, it’s always Iris, and it’s always going to be Iris.
When Iris fans point out that the root of the hate towards her character is not the bs “bad writing” excuse, but misogynoir, antis always throw a fit, and yet generally the only supposed piece of bad writing they regurgitate all their time is *checks notes* “We are the Flash,” a line that they continue to take completely out of context, while ignoring all the times that Barry said the same exact thing to Iris. (Also, never mind the fact Iris says, “We are the Flash,” to invoke the metaphor that she shares Barry’s burdens, as that is partnership and marriage.)
How do I know ”bad writing” is just a pathetic excuse? Because when actually analyzing the show objectively, Iris is the most consistently written character on the show, besides Barry, in terms of her character’s arc and trajectory. She has clear goals, personal and professional. At the end of season 9, Iris has been married to Barry for several years, and they have continued to build and cultivate a supportive, beautiful, and healthy marriage where they continue to fall in love with each other each and every day. Iris has built Central City Citizen Media, her flourishing multimedia news agency. She has mentored many reporters, including her daughter, Nora West-Allen, who chose to follow in her mom’s footsteps. She has two beautiful children with Barry (Nora and Bart). She cultivated her own sense of leadership, strengthened by her partnership with Barry, just as he cultivated his own sense of leadership, strengthened by his partnership with Iris. And we see her growth, personally and professionally, throughout the show’s nine seasons.
The fact remains that racist antis still scream and whine and spew vitriolic hate at Iris, even today, but these antis are actually really mad at Barry Allen, because he only ever wanted Iris and fell more and more deeply in love with her as the show progressed season to season. It’s just that they cannot actually admit that that’s their problem, so they incessantly hate on Iris.
the amount of examples that are in the replies and quotes of this tweet is crazy. richonne, westallen, shawngela, Zach and Lisa (saved by the bell), Nate and Raina (gossip girl), bamon, samcedes, ichabbie, sydcarmy, dickkory, etc. the list is both extensive and expansive. even in animation! people hate Amber in Invincible for no reason at all. I haven’t gotten into Arcane but i know people would rather ship Jayce with Viktor than see him with Mel
like why can’t Black women be loved beautifully and aloud?? the way snowbarry’s somehow stayed alive until the end of the flash was insane. and when it comes to TVD, Kat Graham had chemistry with literally everyone, AND everyone wanted to be Bonnie’s love interest. if it weren’t for fucking Julie Plec we could’ve seen such compelling love stories.
and another thing that gets me aside from the white ship not having chemistry, there will sometimes be one actor in the ship who’s not the most convincing. plainly stated they’re bad at their job, like Danielle Panabaker, for example. Candice Patton was dropping single tears, episode after episode, left and right, had me wanting to cry with her. Danielle, on the other hand, was trying to blink tears into her eyes LIKE COME ON! be so fucking for real