Have you read dahlia? Do they have a tumblr?
Im sorry, but i have no idea what youre going on about. My inbox is open if you want to send a link or something?
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Have you read dahlia? Do they have a tumblr?
Im sorry, but i have no idea what youre going on about. My inbox is open if you want to send a link or something?
Is tumblr your preferred site for requests to be made? I've been following your writing on AO3 and if you're open to a request I have a few ideas abt Wild 👀👀👀 though it would help to know what things you are and aren't comfortable with!
I dont mind, either site is fine for me. And im pretty open with most things, though I am not comfortable writing rape, paedophilia, bestiality, scat, vore, or writing minors in general when it comes to nsfw, with adults or not.
pls tell me about your ideas,,,,,,
Okay. Just watched the cutscenes from aoc. All I can say is what the fuck.
but also impa/zelda rights people
Lmao you’re an adult, you shouldn’t be using the word squick. Use trigger. Use your grown up adult words to explain how you feel instead of leaning on a cutesy uwu term that no one outside of tumblr uses. It’s embarrassing.
Idek if this is serious or ironic honestly
#like...why use this baby word when you can just say how you feel about it
Found this in the original post tags and I just... SIGH
Here’s the thing, anon. Squick isn’t just ‘I don’t like this’, it’s ‘I think this is gross and it makes me deeply uncomfortable but I pass no judgement on those who enjoy it, because I acknowledge that everyone is different and those same people may have the same visceral reaction some of the things I enjoy’ and was originally made popular in the kink community.
So yeah, if you want to say that every time you come across a trope or whatever you find icky then go ahead, say that every time.
Also, this term dates back to Usenet in the early nineties, so sure, go off.
This frustrates me so much because squicks and triggers are fundamentally different things and as someone with PTSD, the distinction is super useful!
Squicks are things I find personally gross but may not be gross to someone else. They don’t upset me or provoke my PTSD, they simply do not pop my corn. Example: Omegaverse. I don’t like it, it makes me uncomfortable and I’m not going to read it, but if you like it, you do you.
Triggers are things which directly provoke my PTSD. This means that my triggers may seem completely normal and innocuous to someone else, because my triggers are so personal and intrinsically linked to a specific event in my life. My reactions to these triggers can include panic attacks and flashbacks to this traumatic event. Sometimes being triggered can affect me for several hours or even days.
Describing something as either a squick or a trigger allows me easily establish the difference in my potential reaction to something without having to go into painful detail about why bodily fluids might make me back button quickly but poker games might leave me a crying wreck.
Making this distinction, and having a specific word for something that is not your slice of pie, but also not an actual psychological trigger, is also REALLY important for making sure that the word “trigger” can retain its original, specific, purposeful, and collectively understood clinical meaning (both inside and outside online fannish communities).
If we encourage everyone to lump things that just make them slightly uncomfortable or simply aren’t to their taste in under the word “trigger”, it actually dilutes the meaning of the word. It makes it harder for us all to, for the most part, collectively agree on and understand what exactly is being described when the word gets used.
And that destruction of shared precise definitions is a problem! It is really useful to have the communal language to be able to clearly and quickly delineate between “this grosses me out, no thanks” and “this is going to set off a trauma episode, rattle my brain, and probably throw off the rest of my day/week as a result” while also maintaining your privacy, and to know that you will be understood in what you are saying. Not having it is actually detrimental to the effort of making our communities safe and navigable for people living with trauma. Which is a goal that is much more important to me, personally, than the idea of not being “cutesy” (a word which in this case which sounds a lot like it’s being used as a euphemism for “cringe”).
(Also, one has to wonder if people told Shakespeare he was being childish when he made up entirely new words that are still widely used in the English language today...... 🤔)
There’s a lot in fandom and traditional publishing I describe as squicks; things that I don’t care for or find gross. But I’m also not going to have a visceral physical/emotional reaction if I stumble on those topics by accident, and may even on occasion purposefully consume media containing those topics, because I know what I’m getting into—and again, it’s just “I don’t prefer this” or “I don’t like this” and can find well-done exceptions now and then, out of creative curiosity (and find they still aren’t my cuppa, but hey).
I am lucky in that I really don’t have much, if anything, that does prompt a physical/emotional reaction like an actual trigger would. So it’s not appropriate for me to use that term when discussing things to avoid for myself. However, if I know something is someone else’s squick or trigger, I can better warn them for it.
Anon is the one who needs to grow up if they assign age use to a collection of consonant and vowel sounds with a specific meaning that is very separate from the other word, that fandom has been using for 25-30ish years so far as I recall.
Yet another instance of an anon showing their ass in an attempt to school a fandom old on their language use.
“no one outside tumblr uses” man shut the fuck up you even called it a “uwu” word and guess what we were using “squick” back in the late 90s on the furry IRC servers I was in
If you think Squick and Trigger are interchangeable you definitely shouldn't "just say trigger" because you have no idea what it means 🙃
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I've got a request for Warriors/Twilight in barbarian armour, and I may have added some mirror sex and slut shaming for texture. Enjoy :p
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Warriors pinched his lips as he turned around in the mirror in front of him, hoping that a different angle would give him the answer he needed.
Wild had told him that the outfit would increase his strength immensely, making him formidable on the battlefield, but, as he did another turn in the mirror, he had no idea how the outfit was supposed to make him more powerful. Hell, it would hardly protect his most vital organs-
"Hey Wa- Oh." Warriors turned around to look at the speaker and was surprised to find himself looking at Twilight.
"What's up?" Warriors asked, crossing his arms. Twilight was staring at him, a light blush spreading to the tips of his ears.
"I was going to ask- it doesn't matter. Did Wild give you the outfit?"
"Yeah. He said that I would increase my strength." Warriors said, looking back in the mirror, but his eyes were not his outfit, but on Twilight, who quietly walked into the room until he was standing just behind Warriors.
"You're missing the paint." Twilight said as he spotted the small jar of purple liquid off to the side. Wild had given him the paint, sure, but he had never said what he was supposed to do with it. "I can add it for you, if you want."
"Yes please."
Hey all! I’m a little out of practice when it comes to writing with couples in mind, so if you guys have any requests then hit me up, my asks are open ;-)
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Jojo does not own copyrights to nicknames for the various Links.
Just because someone uses those nicknames.
Or has a Links Meet trope AU in their content.
Does not mean it is LU.
People all over the LOZ fandom use these nicknames.
Where do you think those nicknames came from?
The fandom named the Links, not Jojo. She just went along with it.
Please stop. This is not okay. You guys are not entitled to these names, nor are you entitled to harrass people or encoirage others to block them because YOU didn't like what you were reading. Just block them yourself and move on.
What the fuck is wrong with y'all?