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[dropdeadjack]

tfw ppl complain that ur life is too gay

[sanctamater]

femmebotdyke‌:

I WILL be posting ankle pics on dec 18th and it WILL be erotic

[uncannycyke]

like as soon as we heard about this we all knew staff would fuck it up. we all knew it. but they have exceeded those expectations to such an astounding degree. absolutely legendary

[cyrokinetic-iceman]

in case i get nuked here on tumblr bc of the new guidelines tumblr is setting up, here’s my discord.

[damndirtyrat]

Symptoms Of A Toxic Roleplay Partner

I’ve seen a few of these PSA’s going around, but very few of them cover some of the stuff I’m come across in my seven years in the RPC, so here’s a couple more: 

Tries to force their headcanons about your character onto you. Gets mad when you don’t use them. 

Threatening to kill their character as punishment for something you “did.” This could be anything, from disagreeing with something they’ve said ooc, to declining to ship with their character. 

In the same vein–attempting to maim/kill your character in some way because they are mad at you for some offense or another. 

Taking their ooc feelings out on you in character in any way, which refers to bullet above this one. 

Bad-mouthing your ships with other muns, or trying to talk you into abandoning ships with other muns. 

Stalks your other roleplay partners, doesn’t like you roleplaying with other muns. 

[kaaras-adaar-a]

Guilt tripping

Needing constant reassurance 

Excessive interest to a point it’s unhealthy and potentially stalkerish behaviour.

Isolating you and making you rely on comfort from them alone (by making you feel as if they are your only friend)

Insulting other RP blogs, especially ones you RP with 

Trying to control your dash and what you post (via excessive tag use)

Vague blogging when you show interest in other people (also just general vague blogging), this is also a guilt tripping tactic.

Attacking you and/or your muse via monologue in threads (I’m just jotting it down again even tho it’s up above because this seriously does happen!)

Using their muses as a scapegoat to their actual feelings (this happens with possessive and jealous mods a LOT)

Backhanded compliments (insulting you or your muse, only to try and make it a compliment afterwards)

Passive aggressive behaviour in general (goes with vague blogging)

Treating you negatively if you aren’t replying to them immediately (goes with guilt tripping)

Generally making you feel like a bad person and friend

You’ve somehow become their therapist 

Guys, if you feel like you are being manipulated or a person is toxic, chances are that YOU ARE RIGHT. Some of these things don’t show themselves until it’s FAR TOO LATE and you’re stuck in a bad situation you don’t know how to get out of.

Empathetic people are often HUGE AND EASY targets for narcissists and manipulators. 

Here’s a tip: TRUST YOUR GUT. If you don’t feel like you are comfortable talking to someone or Rping with someone, then don’t. You don’t owe anyone anything by being here. You’re here to enjoy your time, and people like this can be exceptionally clever in cornering and isolating you by using the methods above, but also note that these things often don’t show themselves straight away and you might be caught up in having a new friends who makes you feel special and loved. 

But there are ALWAYS signs. Even if they are very small. Keep an eye on them and look after yourself, and I mean it: Trust. Your. Gut. It’s the only thing that will protect you from situations like this unless you’re lucky enough to have a close friend who can help you avoid situations like this. 

[tryvyalsynnes]

I’m going to add a bunch of things I’ve learned to watch out for during the initial contact when forming a relationship with a new partner; hopefully, this can help people avoid getting into toxic RP relationships.

Avoid people who try to intimidate and control you using peer pressure. They might imply they have a lot of friends, that they belong to a clique, infer that if you make them happy they’ll help you gain acceptance or put in a good word for you with someone who ships your OTP. (they want to play power games and control you)

Especially get the heck away from them quickly if at any point they imply they will backbite you and drag you to all their friends if you don’t make them happy. This is never ok. (bullying)

Be alert to anyone who thinks you ought to want to RP with them because they’re ‘experienced’, ‘well-known’, know the ‘right people’ and have ‘lots of friends in the RPC’, or seems to think these things should be goals for RPers, and check to see if they want to RP with you because they think you are all these things. (they’re going to try to use and control you)

Avoid people who think there’s a ‘social pecking order’ in the RPC that determines who writes a start or who tops or bottoms in a romantic ship. (power games again)

Detach from people who ‘represent you’ by consistently talking about you behind your back, no matter what the reason, and who share RPs or writing you have not made public. (gatekeeping, secretary)

Watch out for people who imply they have already made you a topic of conversation with someone before they approached you for the first time in order to check you out. (they’re deceitful and a gossip and they’ll never stop second-guessing you or talking behind your back, and the person who knows you and who talked to them is a gatekeeper)

Avoid people who have ‘one big problem’ that conveniently prevents them from doing most everything, including most basic things like being polite, unless they arbitrarily ‘feel like it’. (lazy socializing)

Watch for people who don’t read or seem to understand your rules. Speak up in case it’s a misunderstanding one time, twice if they’re making an effort but don’t tolerate this past a third time. (they’re using you)

Your partner harasses you: makes you argue with them, defend yourself, repeat yourself, justify something you’re saying or doing over and over. (escalating aggression)

[why-i-love-comics]

Spider-Man/Deadpool #42 - “Road Trip” (2018)

written by Robbie Thompson art by Matt Horak & Nick Roche

[symbiote-spideypool]

peter and wade are fighting side by side and when peter runs out of web fluid, he grabs a gun off wade’s belt and wade has this transcendent moment of i’m going to watch spiderman shoot my gun at a real live bad guy

but peter just fucking throws it at a bad guy’s face and knocks him out cold

[sensei-wrong-deactivated2018121]

The impact causes the gun to go off and shoot wade in the dick. Spider man spends the next several minutes frantically apologizing while cable laughs his ass off for the first time in years.

[brendaonao3]

Pretty sure I’ve read this comic

[qualitydoggo]

@wishem please omg just a quick doodle or something even

[wishem]

I am sorry Cable looks like that

[mistermustachio]

Don’t you dare apologize for perfection.

[meangirlnurse]

today on Weird Goyische Meltdowns

[keshetchai]

I have literally had my gentile neighbors start two actual real apartment fires in the last MONTH because they can’t keep an eye on their cooking, meanwhile I light candles ALL THE TIME AT HOME and never set ANYTHING ON FIRE BECAUSE I AM RIGHT FRIGGIN THERE.

Do you know what I do with Chanukkah candles on?? I turn off my lights and watch them melt and maybe I do something with my hands but I keep an eye!!! On!!! THEM!!!!

[meangirlnurse]

#… holy shit guys there’s LED lights for a reason #like if it’s that much of a danger just use LEDs for your decor

lighting a menorah reeeeally is not “decor” 

[keshetchai]

It’s NOT that much of a danger. I live in an “adult” neighborhood of apartments (i.e. Not with college students) and again, people have caused two fires this month while making breakfast. One fire burned down most of the building next door to mine. regular old adults using a microwave or stove!

But when I light my candles for either Shabbat or Chanukkah I am WATCHING them. I have tin foil nearby, I have water nearby, my religious observances (which aren’t fulfilled by an LED light) are not, in my experience, the greatest fire hazard around. You know what is? People making breakfast people not cleaning LINT out of their dryer.

[realsadjewishhours]

Also LED lights do not fulfill the Jewish obligations that candles/oil do. We literally cannnot use LED lights please stop suggesting this.

[meangirlnurse]

gentiles on this post have been weirdly convinced that they’re the only ones who know about decorative electronic menorahs and that they just need to educate the ignorant jews 

[femme-radicale]

What the fuck? If you want to have your candles go live somewhere those are allowed instead of putting others at risk and making everyone around cater for you.

[meangirlnurse]

today on Weird Goyische Meltdowns

[thinkherenow]

The National Fire Protection Association reports “Between 2012-2016, U.S. fire departments responded to an average 170 home fires that started with Christmas trees per year. These fires caused an average of 4 deaths, 15 injuries, and $12 million in direct property damage annually.” but go off on the Jews for doing their thing.

[pon-raul]

y’all hear about this Payless shoestore prank ???

fucking wild levels of hilarious

[pon-raul]

why are rich people like this lmao

[priceofliberty]

“Palessi” sold about $3,000 worth of shoes within a few hours and, after the shoppers paid, staffers told them that the shoes were actually from Payless, according to AdWeek, which reported on the event Wednesday. “They are elegant (and) sophisticated,” one shopper described her purchase as, in a Payless video posted on YouTube.

Then, the woman, who Payless says is a real person not an actor, was told the shoes actually were the handiwork of Payless. “You’ve got to be kidding me,” she said.

Another shopper, this one a man, said about his purchase, “I could tell it’s made with high quality material.”

Payless refunded the shoppers their purchase prices and plans to use the video testimonials, already available on YouTube, as commercials on social media and TV.

Source

[eggorf]

rich people have no idea what anything is worth

[kristina100000]

God u know when ur sleepy drunk or high and ur trying to plug the charger into your phone but you keep missing the phones pussy like stay PUT

[blackmules-deactivated20200205]

the phone’s WHAT?

[kristina100000]

ITS

[fosterthor]

odin’s death scene was so moving

[ao3tagoftheday]

[Image Description: Tag reading “I wanted to make them fuck but then I made them sad”]

The AO3 Tag of the Day is: Bold of you to assume they can’t do both at once

[justsayapple]

Good dad Hohenheim 👍 (from this wonderful text post)

[neon-ufo]

haha wow almost like i have nothing better to do than draw fma things right

i bet greed told ling all about the gang

i’m sorry this is so dumb but i heard y'all are suckers for cheesy bullshit and i intend to feed that unhealthy obsession of your’s, bless your hearts

[thesuperheroesnetwork]

Gotham City Forensic Files (x)

[mcweaksauce]

This video was wonderful (and best Riddler origin story ever)

[bikenesmith]

xmen in some fashion i like!

iceman in dollskill x delia’s new babe on the block puffer jacket

magik in killstar “dont care” cropped hoodie + witch worldwide silicon pentagram earrings

pixie in @lazyoaf pastel rainbow jumper + @heart-puff infinite dream and magical princess earrings

[like my art? check out my 30% off commissions sale! link in my blog description]

[daddypooltm-archive]

Bobby sighed as he looked at the rundown apartment complex around him before lifting a hand to knock on the door. He frowned at the peeling chips of paint and grime decorating the door. He didn't even want to think about what the grime might be. He knocked sharply and quickly, hoping Wade was home and that his trip wasn't in vain.

Wade had been contemplating death, and wrestling with his self-loathing as he was schedule to do that day, when he heard a knock on the door. 

“Hm, I wonder who that is,” he chirped. “Let’s hope it;s our mamacita Lady Death.”

Upon opening the door, he squealed. “Bobby! What’s a handsome place like you doing in a man like this?”

@cyrokinetic-iceman

[cyrokinetic-iceman]

Bobby couldn’t help but grin at Wade’s greeting. “Hey,” he said. “Got any plans for today?”

If Wade’s availability was open, Bobby wanted to do something nice for him. “If not, we should hang out. It’s been a hot minute since the last time we had some one-on-one action,” he teased.