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@daddysbrokenbrat
Date the person who tells you to be safe when you go out, not the one who gets mad. Partnership, not ownership.
When I first officially left my husband, I was going out a lot.. Daddy always told me to be safe and to have fun. He understood that I needed the freedom I had been denied for so long in my previous relationship. That was 6 months ago and he still supports me when I choose to go out and promises he always will.
Apparently I am forever sensored
So I think I am going to make a new tumblr and forget this one.. plus I am feeling not so broken at least at the moment so new name new me?
When your evening plans end up cancelled as you were trying to think of am excuse to cancel, but your BPD makes you feel abandoned and sad about it anyway, even though you didnāt wanna go? Seriously?
This is for real the worst.. if I cancel or end the thing, perfectly okay.. someone else does it even though I was going to anyways? I wonder why they hate me and never want to spend time with me
girls need to stop thinking itās okay to touch another girl inappropriately just because theyāre girls I had a girl go up to me and spank me and tell me I had a āfat assā and I looked at her like she was fucking crazy On god I did not even know her name If itās disrespectful for a man to do it itās disrespectful for you to do it too??
Y'all also gotta learn not to touch guys too. Like it feels mad awkward when girls rub my arms or body out of nowhere.
Itās also not cool when gay guys grab my boobs and say āitās okay, I donāt like girlsā.
Basically respect peopleās personal fucking space
This should not have to be explained but alas
Things NOT To Do/Say When Dating Someone With Anxiety
Also some things to keep in mind when dating someone with anxiety.
- āJust chill.ā - āCalm down.ā - āThereās nothing to be anxious about.ā* - āWhy do you need so much attention?ā - Donāt point out how often we do things. (Like apologizing, asking the same questions over and over, etc.) It makes some people feel worse about things they donāt necessarily mean to do. - āWhy didnāt you just say something? ā (In nearly any situation. Itās not like we donāt want to. ) - āWhy do you always ______?ā - Do NOT sigh when you have to do something like ask a question, pay/order food. Sometimes itās hard doing what should be trivial things. - You will hear the phrase āIām sorry.ā A lot. Though it may feel frustrated, just reassure them it is okay. They will feel so much better. - N E V E R SAY āItās so cute how you get nervous.ā
These are just a few things. Please keep them in mind. Asking about why they do things the way they do isnāt a good idea, despite good intentions.
- You will hear the phrase āIām sorry.ā A lot. š
Ditto! I also HATE being told to chill out š
On point!
Things you can say that might help (every one is different, but these help me.)
āIām here.ā
āItās gonna be okay.ā
āYouāre safe.ā
āYouāll get through this.ā
āIt will pass.ā
āYou are okay, even if it doesnāt feel like it, it will soon.ā
āI love you.ā
Nothing. For my partner, just hold me. For my friends and family just give me space and give me a hug after it passes.
What helped the most was that my partner learned what helped me, both things for in the moment (medititation, breathing, grounding) and for proactive prevention (sleep, yoga, keto, salt floats, etcā¦). So he knows what to say and do when I am panicked.
But it can be overwhelming for him sometimes, and that is okay.
Remember no one is perfect, it is okay to say the wrong thing or not know what to say occassionally. Just talk to them about how you can be supportive and learn from it.
Ultimately just remind the people you love who have anxiety that youāre there, they they matter to you, and that you love them.
Bad Ass Fat Girl who doesnāt care about your thoughts about my body
Bitch where is this shirtš¤£š¤£š¤£
āDo you want a little girl or a woman? Which one is sick?ā
Hey loves!
So, par for the course, my rules have garnered the attention of folks who have made it their personal crusade to bash D/s and DD/lg. This is just fantastic, and I welcome them to come chat with me with my own mind and heart open, hoping theyāll do the same.
The title of this note is a comment that was placed on my rules that fascinated me. Iād like to take a little time to look at it, answer it, and expand upon the ideas that made somebody type it out.
First things first. I am both of the things in that question.
My Dominant loves me.
My Dominant WANTS me.
Why would it be sick for him to want the woman and little girl to whom he is committed for the rest of his life?
Ohā¦. oh waitā¦ okayā¦. next thing then, right? Perhaps you didnāt realize that somebody can be both at once? Thatās totally understandable, and a common misunderstanding. Let me explain how it works for you.
See, Iāve always been exactly who I am today. Iāve been a strong, competent, intelligent woman when it comes to academia or my career. I make hard decisions. I organize until Iām surrounded by sticky notes and task lists.
And in the middle of all of this, I pop out of my office to be a spunky little ball of immaturity and energy.
Amidst my exams and volunteering opportunities, I crawled into bed with some stuffed animals.
No matter how stressed out I became, I could stop and gasp delightedly at beautiful flowers.
This was all before I knew about any kind of Caregiver/Little community. (Though I can and will easily admit to having been involved in BD/sM through all of my adult life).
@1-sadistic-lover came into my life as a masochists dream of a booty call. A man who rejected the ideas presented by āDaddy Domsā, at whom he scoffed. He was a proper, serious, sadistic Dominant. Not some fluffy man engaged in something so close to the epidemic of fetishizing underage girls that runs rampant in our society.
SOMEhowā¦. intelligent woman and cold, calculating sadist, came to the realization that, even though Iām an incredibly driven, responsible, independent human beingā¦. I also happen to be a Little.
These things are not mutually exclusive.
These titles are used by legal adults to acknowledge and identify parts of themselves.
If you come across these dynamics and it is somehow displeasing to you, take your time to unfollow, block or through some other avenue remove the offensive material from your presence.
But donāt presume to know what it means, who those people are, or that something is inherently wrong with them living their lives in the way that brings them joy.
Xoxo
š Kittenš
pleeeeeaaaaase donāt make fun of people for being overenthusiastic about their interests. if you see someone getting really excited about something and you think itās a good idea to ruin their fun (and donāt think people donāt notice your eye rolls and side glances) youāre an asshole
Our communityš¤
The best thing about being a part of this community, is the acceptance. It doesnāt matter whether youāve been into BDSM, D/s, CG/l or any of the so many other branches for years and years or youāre just discovering yourself and the things you enjoy. Youāre accepted here. Iām accepted here. And acceptance within a community is something Iāve been searching for, for so much longer than I like to admit to even myself. Being mixed, bisexual, a Little sub, a mom, itās been hard to find somewhere that I can be all of those things and not be judged for any single one. When I joined Tumblr, I honestly didnāt think Iād become so invested in another form of social media. But it eventually became a way for me to share who I really and find so many like minded people to relate to and chat with and connect. And Iām so beyond thankful for all of you. Even if we havenāt actually had a conversation or any kind of interaction. Following your blogs and reading about your lives and being allowed to see into who you really are has opened my eyes to so much. And I thank you all for that. Youāve helped me accept myself.
Itās more than following someone on social media. Itās more than clicking like or reblog. Itās a community. Itās a family. Itās a Tribeš¤
@instructor144 @sincerely-savage-gentleman @babygirl-1972 @lovely-dahlia @leadhership @doctordaddysir @daddys-little-sweetheart2 @delightfulsubgirl @cutiepieida @little-rosebud12 @tooprettytolive @rosy-lil-kitten @the-faculty @lovemysub @dom-cbp
And soo many many more!
@adifferentkindoflittle81 I love our TRIBE as well! Being accepted fully is the most amazing feeling ever!
āYour kink is not my kink and thatās okayā is a mantra that needs to come back around. Just because my mental caveat is āplease keep that particular kink far away from meā in many circumstances doesnāt make the first part any less true.
REALLY THO
F I N A L L Y
THE REALEST SHIT OUT THERE
Fucking boomed. (Donāt ask a girl for a threesome straight outta the gate)
And they ALWAYS ask if we know a girl to invite.. dude, you want the 3some yet you don't want to put in the work to find all the willing parties ššš
Theme parks can snap a crystal clear picture of you on a roller coaster at 70 mph, but bank cameras canāt get a clear shot of a robber standing still.
Theme parks profit highly off of those pictures (seriously, within a week probably they have paid for that excellent but expensive camera!)
Security systems are expensive af so places gamble that they will never NEED it and if they do, insurance/tax write offs will cover the loss.
The whole self love thing is good and all but some people canāt fathom being loved. They canāt imagine there being anything good about them. So they canāt simply just stop doing unhealthy things, thereās a process.
Before self love you have to invoke self tolerance and self neutrality.
If you canāt say āI love my body!ā Begin by shutting down the āI hate my bodyā thoughts and saying āmy body gets me from place to place.ā
If you canāt say āIām beautiful,ā begin by shutting down the āIām uglyā thoughts and saying āIām a person.ā
If you canāt say āIām valuableā begun by shutting down the āIām worthlessā thoughts and say āall people deserve basic respect, and Iām a person.ā
If you canāt say āIām important,ā or āIām kindā say āI am the one who waters my plant every weekā or āI am the one who tips the kind barista down the streetā or āI am the one who makes sure my dog does not eat plasticā or āI am the one who leaves long comments on peopleās fan fictions.ā
Humming bird food
Did you know they are saying now not to dye it cause it's bad for them (and totally not necessary to draw them to your feeder!)? :)
*walks into pharmacy*
hello yes i would like to purchase 1 mental health pleaseĀ
