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Alexis-24-she/her-usa chronically online bastille side blog turned main blog

[damnnsmith]

some pics from bas yesterday!!!

[damnnsmith]

anyways stream wild world by bastille!!!

[zegalba]

I-80 highway through Wyoming. nicknamed The Sisters, for the three sets of hills that create an optical illusion of the road rising into the sky

[netscaper]

[hamletthedane]

[hungwy]

we dont even get 9/11 off of work. like i guess you were never THAT sad about it

[puppymindvirus]

every outfit gets better with a bit of tummy showing

[eldritchbauble]

Hard pill to swallow, maybe, but sometimes you are the problem. You may not have been initially, but people around you can only have so much endurance for understanding why you're "like that" and how you got to where you are now. Even if you were the one who was victimized, hurt, or abused to begin with, your behavior affects those around you. There's a point at which personal responsibility needs to kick in, or you will become toxic. You can become toxic even if you never become an abuser yourself. If other people are constantly having to help dig you out of the holes you made but you keep slapping their hands away, you cannot expect them to have an indefinite amount of patience and energy to keep trying. If you're not putting in the work to recover from what damaged you; if everyone else in your life is consistently the only one making a real effort to effect change for you--you're the problem.

[eldritchbauble]

People can give you love, but can't make you treat yourself like someone you care about.

People can offer you resources, but can't make you reach out and use them.

People can lay down stepping stones, but can't make you put the work in to make progress.

If you're expecting everyone around you to keep making the decisions and making things ok for you, you need to take a step back and some serious time for deep introspection. This doesn't mean that others shouldn't have compassion for you, but as difficult as things are and as tired as you are--others get tired too and can't be expected to carry it all.

[eldritchbauble]

And if you blame everyone else in your life because they "gave up on you" when they reach a limit, you have a victim complex. Having been a victim does not mean you should accept perpetual victimhood.

People are allowed to say "I love you, and my love for you doesn't mean I can sacrifice myself for you." There's a point at which people have to let go because they do not ultimately hold responsibility for whether you live, die, or thrive--you do.

[bastillemxfans]

📸 Oli Middleton

[fridayiminlovemp3]

“i’m just a girl🥺” “i’m just a widdle passenger princess and i need my big strong 6’5 golden retriever boyfriend to drive me around” “is hating stanley cups misogynistic?” “get ready with me to make my boyfriend breakfast as a stay at home 21 year old girlfriend with no friends and no future just a man” “fashion girls help! what sneakers are we wearing this summer” “click on the link in my bio to buy this anti wrinkle straw for your stanley cup” “get ready with me to skip all of my classes and sit in the parking lot alone and read my spicy booktok romance novels💅” “sorry malala but i hate school and i wish you weren’t fighting for women’s rights to education lol” “pov: you overcame bisexuality and gender nonconformity and now have a boring boyfriend, wear pink shein sundresses and can finally embrace your divine femininity” “new trend alert! moonshine lavender haze hailey bieber purple blue milk nails” “when your dad gets mad at you for using his credit card on ur starbucks app and uber eats app but you’re literally just a girl” “pov: you and your boyfriend are literally the black cat gf golden retriever bf irl” “how to get ozempic for free online using my amazon store front” “restock my stanley with me for a hot girl walk” “when you’re his first victoria secret aritzia spray tan silk press false eyelashes black bmw girl” “what snacks i pack with me to sit in the pick up line for 2 hours as a stay at home mormon boy mom” “come with me to burn my old clothes from last year because platos closet won’t take them”

[cetitan]

The sun is still out at 8 o'clock... Wow

[cetitan]

I wll try being more open to other peoples' experiences

[localvoidcat]

i can't be trusted with sour gummies i'm guzzling this shit down like a hog that's tasted blood

[makahitaki]

[gorps]

[redwing]

garth and benny gay cajun vampire sidepiece are getting married in real life btw

guys. What

[bonivers]

let’s have some fun this beat is sick i wanna take a ride on your disco stick don’t think too much just bust that kick i wanna take a ride on your disco stick

[micro-usb-deactivated20230625]

[honted]

this is surreal to me

[saprophetic]

in case anyone wants to cheat on their wife

[blogger-2001]

need this so bad

[kusali]

There is no Tumblr alternative tbh. I love you all but I'm never gonna remember to post on 3,000 discord groups, I'm not gonna make a Postr or Dingus or whatever account. We all go down together

[peachiime-deactivated20240731]

wdym an average platonic bond cant be deep and meaningful do none of you remember the power of friendship

[peachiime-deactivated20240731]

i have trust in the people.