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[dangerousskeletoncoptree]

*flips the sign and locks the door on my way in*

[dangerousskeletoncoptree]

*smacks this on the sign & returns to the counter*

WE ARE NOT ANSWERING ANY DONATIONS ASKS OF ANY KIND

NO EXCEPTIONS THEY WILL ALL BE DELETED

doing trick or treating for all of october

we aren't a shipper dont bother us on either side of the shipping debates except to ask for trigger tags

notice of blocking reason (tldr under cut*)

if you have been blocked for having proship on your dni and you want to snoop for our definition, here it is

a note on tag games (if what your sending fits nither its probably fine)

post for helping us find an arg based on a (incomplete) description

one of my favorite novels

and a larger list (links to be added)

brackets (mostly inactive exclamania separated) blog at @brackets-gift-anon - ard

#cas's choice games tag

#cas's font rambles

#downloadable fonts

new ask tags

#'nons

#asks's

@dangerousskeletoncoptree

*i will block people reblogging isff or her new alt isuggestgirl because of her being transphobic about trans men, masc's and being -phobic about masculine queer people and interesexist as shit

i might remake this post as it is now after i re-pin it

also i got bored of waiting for my pinned to be reblogable hense this

line brake

i am also a non human man still a person , not a human

if i knew what i was beyond humanoid id say that - [redacted]

@the-cascade-system

https://www.tumblr.com/dangerousskeletoncoptree/807927902089936896 ← userbox source, i do not endorse the makers position on transandrophobia, tma/tme use, or other trans related topics ^_^

[black--stars]

Hey, when you talk to children, you know you can explain things to them right? thats theyre capable of comprehension? In fact you should be explaining things so they understand comprehension better?

Earlier my little sister slammed her closet and room door-- not out of ange as far as im aware, she just pushed them too hard. I yelled at her to stop it.

she said she would, but it was clear from her tone she just said so out of obligation and was annoyed. i tell her to stop making loud noises a lot, so she probably assumed this was just another example of that.

realizing this, i explained her the reason: our rooms are right next to each other. When she slams doors, the wall shakes. When the wall shakes, my mirror shakes, and if it shakes too hard it can fall and break

after the explanation, she apologized genuinely and actually understood the reason instead of just thinking im nagging her or just want quiet. the fact that she knows the reason means shes more likely to remember, and she can apply the knowledge in different ways: "even if my older sibling isnt home, their mirror could still break, so i still shouldnt slam the door." She knows im not just trying to annoy her or assert dominance over her like a lot of rules and demands we give to children do- i just dont want my mirror to break. It helps her understand cause and effect.

Would this result be the same if i had just screamed at her or spanked her? Or did it make more sense to just explain? After all, it was a simple mistake. I could see my parents doing the same thing-- when you close a door, youre not usually thinking about the walls in the other room.

Children are humans, humans use logic. Use logic with children. Its simple.

[parakeet]

just saw a 'comments' tab on someones blog you know where the following and likes tabs would be if enabled and it was just showing all the replies theyve made on peoples posts. this is fascinating when did this feature come out

[parakeet]

EMERGENCY - ITS AUTO ENABLED!

if you've made replies on posts there is now a tab on your blog showing every post youve replied to and your reply.

if this is not what you want, either go to your blog and click comments and disable it from there or just go to your individual blogs setting pages. just change it from blue to grey if you dont want everyone to see your replies AND the post you're replying to

PLEASE BE ADVISED that it is set to disabled for blogs that have not made any replies but it will turn ON if you reply with that blog in the future.! i just tested it with my main, which was greyed out but it turned on the moment i left a test reply

figured i'd get the word out bc i have not seen a single mention of this and i'm sure there are plenty of people who maybe comment on things they don't want on display for everyone to see on their blog lol. you can still look at your replies with it toggled off just no one else can, like locking the following and likes list

[parakeet]

so for some reason this feature was actually announced on the tumblr engineering blog. interesting choice not to reblog it to the staff or tumblr blog, esp considering they asked for user input on how to implement it, but i suppose considering the response to the last update maybe the replies would be too overwhelming...

so couple of clarifications. comments are disabled as default for primary blogs that have their likes disabled. they are seemingly enabled for all other blogs that have replied to posts

posts you comment on may show on your followers 'for you' page if you leave your replies publically available. they may, in the future, show in on your followers dashboard if your follower goes to their dash settings and enables this. apparently, if your likes are enabled, your followers can already see those on the dash if they've gone into preferences and selected to do so, which I was unaware of, and that seems to be disabled at default, but it's possible i disabled it previously and forgot about it ig

[captainsnoop-deactivated2020041]

i hate it when game devs put “fixed several issues” in patch notes 

no. tell me what you fixed. i wanna know what the glitch was.

you know those patch notes that are like “fixed an issue where if the player sat in a bush for too long, they’d become the size of a skyscraper” 

i wanna read those. tell me those. 

[necroesque666]

[sindri42]

[sindri42]

[ahdok]

Adjusted value of Bees. Now that was a special one… because every item in the game had a minimum value, and a beehive was a container for bees, which each had a minimum value… which meant the moment one of your dwarves picked up a beehive, your entire fortress’ net worth skyrocketed… a value used in determining how powerful the foes that visit and try to murder you are.

[prokopetz]

Reblogging for the explanation of what “adjusted value of bees” actually means, because I know several folks following this blog have been wondering.

[probabilitydirigible]

Okay but you’ve all forgotten the best Dwarf Fortress bug of all “Flying creatures give birth in midair, leading to tragedy” 

[probabilitydirigible]

Actually I lied it’s the one where after a major update werewolves and vampires started climbing the nearest tree and refusing to come down. It turned out that he’d given evil creatures the ability to sense each other, but forgotten to set a maximum range on it, so werewolves were aware Hell was underground and trying to flee by climbing 

[thepageofhopes]

This has to be my favorite patch note ever

[herssian]

you're allowed to draw. draw badly even. draw and then delete it. draw and rework it and then delete it anyway. draw only half of it and the other half three years later. in one style or another. in different styles in the same week. traditional or digital. you're literally allowed to draw however you want

[mismedleym]

recollections

[mrporg]

[pokemonarchive]

Joltik (2023) - Paradox Rift Illustrator: Kedamahadaitai Yawarakai

[partywithponies]

Best tumblr update of all time?

rebloggable asks

reblog buttons being over to the bottom of the post

replies being given back after being taken away

polls

a comparatively less broken video player

bigger gif file size limit

gifposts in the first place

something else

Voting ended onMar 9

[partywithponies]

This is why they'll never get me off this site. I liked this site even when it was practically unusable.

[batbetbitbotbut]

Polls are delightful but I feel like the "polls" response leading the crowd right now is recency bias. For those of you who are newer here, or those who have forgotten the bygone days, consider just how fucking unusable a site would be if you have to scroll for pages to finish reading a post and then scroll for pages up again to reblog it and then scroll for pages down again to continue browsing. Consider how often you would miss the mark and reblog completely the wrong post. Consider the hell of when the same post appears several times on your dash in a row, especially with a few different endings, especially if those endings argue with each other.

Now make it all harder still with post chains indented so far you can't even read them...

[dude1818]

[myothertardisisonthemun]

[the-mikey-way]

“we need more weird queers!” you guys can barely handle a hairy woman

[the-mikey-way]

and frankly? some of you struggle with hairy men.

[tyako89]

[verdant-lightning]

a stubborn joltik

(14 May 2025)

[transandrogyny--turtlebug]

I'm sorry but when did we move away from "Access to hrt and surgery is a privilege" because we should probably move back to that one

[i-like-having-opinions]

It's because the term 'privilege' has many different definitions in different people's heads, so this statement is only sometimes true

"Privilege means something you are not owed, you must earn, and can be taken away at any time" - this statement is false

"Privilege means something you have gained from the oppression of others" - this statement is (most of the time) false

"Privilege means something you have, in contrast to those who don't have it and are therefore marginalized" - this statement is true

and because of how different people define it this tends to just make more drama and it can also lead to people saying that if it's a privilege, you should be able to take it away from trans people for whatever reason. So either we need to define 'privilege' a lot more in that phrase or just say that not having access to hrt and surgery is oppression

[exitwound]

mutuals

[the-valiant-valkyrie]

Which is prev?

Unmarried girl

Apologist

Craftsman who works with a wheel

Archivist

Dying person

Educator

Girl

Jurist

Knife sharpener

Lawyer

Librarian

Remaining time: 4 days 15 hours

[redstonedust]

i admit i am getting wary whenever people vaguepost about a fandom being 'full of drama' because a lot of people seem to use 'drama' as a synonym for like. discussions of bigotry and bias in media. which is so very much not the same thing and it hurts my head to see it conflated with shipping wars and headcanon discourse.

[creatingblackcharacters]

Every time someone says "I don't pay attention to fandom drama" and the "drama" is a Black or brown person getting dogpiled for wanted to be treated with respect. But then turn around and go "I didn't know that this sort of thing was happening!" Well you didn't care to look, either 😬

[powerbottombrucespringsteen]

The thing is nobody at pride is evaluating you to determine if you’re queer enough to be there because they’re too busy thinking “it’s so hot out” and “why is this lemonade 12 dollars?”

[caspercryptid]

I feel like not enough people realize that people under enormous strain act really really fucking Weird

[caspercryptid]

If someone is doing things that don't make Sense, try to understand that it is entirely possible that their brain is probably under an enormous weight and fracturing under the pressure. People who have been stabbed will sometimes talk a circle around the fact that they've been stabbed because stress and shock prevent you from recognizing the distress you are in and what you need to do to seek help for it. PTSD will do this also. You will find yourself repeatedly jamming a bag of frozen fruit into the same spot in the freezer where it doesn't fit and keeps falling, over and over and over, focused on nothing but that bag. You will decide that a beanbag chair is 10000% necessary to your life. You will lose your entire shit because you stubbed your toe on a table and that means the whole setup of your furniture is wrong. These are largely harmless examples. People under strain will also hurt themselves and others. Cornered animals bite. And it doesn't heal the bite to go "Hey, are you okay?" But it might get you to an animal that stops biting, so you can start to heal. And before you had an animal that bit, you probably had an animal that kept doing shit you didn't understand as stress signals

[pixelartpeach]

Reblog to give a trans person a fresh and perfectly ripe mango wait huh

It's the wikipedia image??? How big could it be

What

Huh???

[bonesbeetle]

can see the pores on that thang

[crow-with-a-pencil]

Reblog to give a trans person a shockingly high resolution mango