darcy

she/they/he | angsty bisexual disaster | literature, romance, etc. | tu dois vivre et aimer, mon ami

[darcysolace]

begging greek philosophers to compare things less

[darcysolace]

you will heal and find the joy you were seeking in all the wrong places in the obsession you had when you were seven

[knebellindemann]

[darcysolace]

[maxxie-or-smth]

you've met me at a very "yeah i'm trying to work on that" time in my life

[i-am-a-lazy-mess]

hate when I type :) and this 🙂 fucker appears. Go away you evil soul

[darcysolace]

how to teach my brain that i am signing up for a doctor's appointment and not running away from a tiger

[darcysolace]

just remembered when i was 7 i picked a lock on the school playground with a hairpin lmao

7-year old girls are scarier than you might think

[byjove]

There is this sort of paradox in unhealthy relationships where the victim will waver on if what their partner is doing to them does or does not rise to the level of abuse. I want to say that it does not matter if what your partner is doing to you fits the dictionary or legal or your personal definition of ‘abuse’. If you are in a relationship where it has gotten to the point that you’re wondering if you’re being abused or not, it’s time to start thinking of an exit strategy and putting it into motion. So many people stay in terrible relationships because ‘it’s not abusive’, so many people are waiting for their partner to do something egregious and undeniably abusive before they give themself the permission to leave, when that moment happens, when they hit you or break your phone or scream at you all night before a job interview, the goalpost for what is unacceptable will shift further and further away. Ultimately, it does not matter if your toxic partner is or is not abusive in this moment, if they are doing/saying things that make you feel worse about yourself, feel embarrassed about yourself, feel unsafe, feel smothered, feel dependent on them, feel stupid, etc., it is time to go. It doesn’t matter if you’re actually the problem repeatedly setting them off, stop weighing that, maybe they WOULD be happier with another partner, all the more reason to get the fuck away from them and focus on yourself instead. If your partner is making your life worse, go. If your partner is making your life sooooo much better but there are just these little moments where they make you hate yourself, go. Stop qualifying and looking for a justification to go, just leave knowing life is too short to have misery inflicted on you, whether it is abuse or not.

[darcysolace]

ebu is chooding such a weird hill to die on bro 😭

[petewentz-]

It's fun being queer and weird and unconventional until you remember you live in a society

[darcysolace]

philosophy is a scam now every time i do something slightly immoral (as in copy homework or smth) i have a mini kant in my head glaring at me

[pixiecaps]

big fan of whatever the youth is doing to torment scientology buildings

[darcysolace]

hannah arendt is a genius idc what anyone says for centuries philosophers have been trying to figure out why there is evil in the world and then boom hannah arendt comes and says that its simply because people don't think

[byjove]

I think the biphobic misconception that bisexual women only date men and bisexual men only date men may have a correlation to the fact that there is always a man freaky and horny in your DMs no matter what. It isn’t that bisexual women are secretly straight or that bisexual men are secretly gay, it’s that men are out there behaving like starving dogs and you feel so bad you end up feeding one, you know? Anyway, this coffee is a medium and I ordered a large. It’s okay, it’s busy in here, I get it.

[darcysolace]

girl im slightly crushing on came over to watch sram (hell yeah), we watched it the whole afternoon and the whole time she had her arm around me and drew patterns on my arm with her hand?? what in the gay

[kosmogrl]

[gay-hrithik-roshan]