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THE NYCSTUCK DESIGNS ARE SOOO CUTE I had to draw them

Jadedavekat if you squint

fantroll lesbian triad my beloved.. admittedly quite weak for the “my moirail and matesprit hate the shit out of each other” sort of dynamic

#fantroll #art

polyamzeal

strawbebbynya

all yall make jokes about couples and their nonromantic third wheel having fun together, but im the one getting treated to food tonight by the couple im nonromantically third wheeling. you wish you were me

#sure this can go here

thedenoftoons

some weird people i dont know them

#art #davejadekat #my hearth dothe desires

bootpoot

its buddy city

#davejadekat #art

jennaflare

oh wonderful i will get some mileage out of this as a new reaction image

lethalwizard

metanarrates

literally every anti-polyamory caricature I've ever seen has just been filled with this latent rage that people that are "ugly" or "weird" are able to be desired by multiple people. fat people, autistic people, people who talk weird or have disabilities or even who are a bit cringey about their relationships - there's just a desire to discredit the fact that they're wanted and loved by portraying their relationships as intrinsically shallow. it could not be more of a self-admitting L if it tried to be. mad that people you hate are still capable of being wanted aren't you!

metanarrates

intrinsic in anti-polyamory caricature also is often the assumption that "weird" and "ugly" people are simply settling for each other because they can't get anything "better." it's the assumption that monogamy with normatively attractive people Must be the universally desired ideal and that anyone who doesn't want it is either lying to themself or is simply a pervert. which is, again, a self-admitting L. just say you're shallow and you can't understand why people might want different things than you do lmao